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Don’t do that. Don’t wish you were in another skin, that you were another person; someone prettier, someone thinner, someone with lighter or darker skin. You are you. And nothing can be more special than your individuality. You are sacred. You are one-of-a-kind, you are you. No one can be you. Love who you are and the world will love you back just the way you are.

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Don’t change so that people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love you for who you really are.

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What do I do if I'm telling my boyfriend I'm not happy with something and he says sorry but the either does it again after a week or so? Or if things keep pissing me off and he doesn't care? We've been together for 10 months and he loves me and I can tell but idk what to do when I'm ignored and feel loved maybe for a week or so and then everything goes back to the way it was. Idk how to explain Bc everything is so complicated

If he loves you, he would respect you and listen to you. If he made a mistake once or twice, and apologised, it’s okay. BUT if he keeps doing it and doesn’t care about how you feel, don’t bother anymore. If you keep forgiving him for the same mistakes, he’ll start to think it’s okay to do it again.

Tell him that it’s the last time you’re saying it. Have those deep/meaningful serious conversations. Sit down and make him listen. If he can’t respect you or listen, leave. Say that you’re done. Relationships are supposed to be built on respect, trust, honesty and communication. There should be a balance. If there’s none, there’s no point in continuing as it’ll become a huge cycle and remain complicated.