Just a Toy

Hi everyone. I'm a bi boy sub that enjoys being played with and others taking control over me. I just post and like whatever catches my eye at the time. feel free to say hello and let's play a little Kik: TravellingFox

[knowimsorry-deactivated20180107]

[dan-in-nc]

That is one happy man!

[hypnomaster45-deactivated202504]

Want to be brainwashed like her?

Watch and ruin your life.

[the-untitled-artist]

a comic about meeting your younger self :)

Thank you for reading :)

[red-fox5]

I needed to see that, thank you. Though now I'm just crying at my desk

[foone]

My subs have those barcode tattoos, but it's not some kind of slavery play like it often is...

See we're got a complicated poly free-use situation going on with lots of extended polycule members who may drop in and want to borrow a sub or three for a scene or a month.

So we designed our system around the non-kinky institution that most closely resembles our situation, where we've got a bunch of individual "resources" that need to be loaned out to verified patrons and tracked so we can tell where our items are, when they are supposed to be back, if they're late to be returned, and put holds on them.

So we're using a library management program.

You just go to the circulation desk, scan your polycule card, then the subs you want to check out. It's a simple and efficient solution!

We're still having some teething problems with late returns, though. And it's trickier than we expected to fill out the item description pages. How exactly do you categorize a bisexual transmasc painslut with a thing for puppy play into the Dewey decimal system? Still, the work continues.

[sleepyheadlbp]

sorry but. doesnt that just make it some kind of slavery play in the end...?

also HOITT

[foone]

Nah cause for slavery play you gotta, you know, do slavery play. Roleplaying that you own a sub, purchasing a sub, that kind of thing.

We're not doing that (in general, at least. I imagine at least one dom/switch has done some slavery play with a sub they were loaned). We're doing a free use thing where any sub can be used by any dom in the group (with safewords and preestablished limits, of course. We're playing, not running some weird human trafficking ring). The barcodes are just to help keep track of who is where and with who, because this got way too complicated for just a shared Google sheets page.

And you may think it's hot but that's probably only because you're not having to maintain all this library infrastructure! This software is from the 80s and I'm running it on NT4, and the damn barcode readers keep failing to scan. They're just not designed to read the lines off human flesh, especially single they kinda assume that the target surface is perfectly flat, which humans rarely are.

I did suggest we used contactless RFID implants instead of barcodes, but half the polycule wasn't into the idea of getting an RFID chip injected into them, and the other half was way too into it. (the puppysub half, natch).

So I'm having to research alternate barcode readers, which is going terribly. Do you know what happens when you call up Zebra and ask them which of their scanners work best on human skin? If you're LUCKY, they hang up on you! And explaining "no, it's for a sex thing" does NOT HELP.

So I'm stuck here at the circulation desk looking at datasheets and trying to compare how good they are at low contrast reads and non-flat surfaces.

I thought I'd found a handheld scanner that'd work, but it turns out that if your skin is any darker than your average Irish vampire, it fails to work. And frankly this whole situation is weird enough without accidentally implementing a racist tech stack.

[glitchgirlgasm]

I really got to get my resource allocation bar code soon...

[foone]

I could give you one but with the current state of my system there's like a 20%-25% chance you'll end up in 386 Inland waterway and ferry transportation

[edensgardener]

okay, this is amazing. but why can't each sub just carry a library card of their own, like a "resource card" that they can wear on a collar/cuff/piercing/whatever? and that you could actually lay flat to scan? like, I see the appeal of the tattoo bar code, but for practical purposes of the functioning system, wouldn't attaching a bar code to the sub on a piece of laminated card make more sense?

[foone]

Cards are a great idea, and we did do that early on, but the subs losing them was always the problem! When a dom comes by and grabs a sub and then goes off to a room to do Weird Things with them for an hour or two, nine times out of ten they'd come back with no card, and I'd have to manually look them up in the database. It took forever, especially on busy days like weekends.

Piercings would be better but they fell into the same camp as the RFID implants: most of the polycule was bleh on the idea, and one small group was WAY too into it.

And frankly those people give me enough trouble as it is. The hucow punks are always asking me to fix their equipment, and frankly, no! I may have grown up on a farm and studied electrical engineering, but that doesn't mean I have the slightest idea how to repair or maintain a milking machine! This kind of vacuum hydraulics is a mechanical engineering problem first and foremost, and that's just not my forte.

Sigh. Being the asexual IT person in a big kinky polycule is difficult sometimes.

I have done some research into collars and I think they'd be a good option. Last time I surveyed the 'cule, all the subs were fine with collars (half of them were wearing them at least part-time already anyway), it's just a matter of figuring out some good options for sourcing custom barcoded/RFID'd collars.

That also means getting feedback from the doms about what features they want, too. The last thing we need is for doms to be taking them off all the time because they're doing a scene that needs a collar with D-rings or something. So we're gonna have to make sure we choose something reasonably functional.

A few doms want to go all electronic fancy pants collars but I don't think we really have the budget for that, plus I don't want to have to support that.

And the obvious choice of finding a local leatherworker to make us a bunch of collars won't work because we've got some subs who are vegans or have leather allergies! I've been looking at a place on Etsy that has some good canvas options, and maybe they can do us a bulk discount of some sort, maybe with RFID chips sewn directly inside, like they already do with an airtag.

(which is something a few doms have put on the features wishlist anyway, so they can easily locate lost subs. Apparently it's not all that uncommon for a sub to be, uhh, "played" to the point where they're in a haze and can barely remember their name, and then the dom goes off to get them something to drink and a pillow or whatever, but the sub ended up wandering off once they extricated themselves from the scene, and God only knows where they are now. Maybe they're off in someone else's scene? Maybe they're playing ps1 games down in the lounge? Doms are always asking me "where's $SUB?" and all I can tell them is if they're checked out or not, not where they are.)

[deergirlgullet]

This is all very interesting but I do gotta wonder, where do switches fit into this system? Would they have to carry a card and collar and effectively check themself out before checking out a sub?

[foone]

The barcodes are the same for subs and doms, so you can carry either (or both). It just depends on how you use it: either to log in (so you can search for and check out subs) or as an item ID being checked out. (I may have written about this already in one of the many reblogs, it sounds familiar).

Switches work fine in this system. You gotta understand that it has two separate but related purposes:

1. To help doms & subs meet up in compatible groups. You don't gotta hang out in a common room and go "hey is anybody here into Reverse Bukkake?" and potentially have no one respond. You can just go type that into the search box and it'll show you which subs we've got that're into that, and you just filter it by availability.

The profiles of switches just list both dom stuff and sub stuff they want to do. So maybe someone will like to be a dom for sex but a sub for shibari, and obviously you're not gonna meet up with them if you want to dom them for sex.

But it doesn't have to solve the problem 100% to work. We've got one of those color-coding systems that are often used with free use situations, just instead of collars or whatever, it's listed on their item page.

So while I said we're a free-use situation, we're... You know, sensible? Real people? Not a fantasy? (RACK and all that)

Like don't get me wrong there are some people on here who marked themselves the equivalent of "feel free to jam a cock in me no matter what I'm doing. Don't ask me if it's okay.", the majority are "yeah I'm up for the following activities, message me if you want to set up a sesh".

So a switch might just be like "nah I'm only into that for domming" or "sorry I only feel like subbing today" and the dom can just go find someone else.

So yeah. Switches are just a bit more complicated than "pure" subs and doms. Their profile pages are a little longer, and you'll usually need to ask 'em a question or two before you check them out, but they work fine. We've had enough switches to work out most of the kinks (no pun intended).

[transdommymommy]

As a librarian I would like to offer my services in your collection development

[miskayana-deactivated20250115]

Sleep on this 🥰😊❤️

[red-fox5]

Can I have my meds please? I have prescription 😋

[freakyass1-deactivated20240902]

Reblog if you wanna have a taste of mommy 😋👅🏳️‍🌈🍆👌

[pexels-art]

Kinks that divulge into immoral or unconventional topics are either considered fantasy or consensual. I am happy to explain the reasoning behind some choices if asked

This was fun, and it covered a good bit of things! a few things that I love that were not here were:

Hypnosis, bimboification, body writing, mind break, cnc, and others I can't think of atm.

Anything in the love/like lists are free play, use them against me any time you want <3

~Info post! A few little things~

Minors DNI. I don’t fucking care what excuse you have, if you are under 18, fuck off

I generally don’t tolerate assholery of any kind. If you have a genuine belief that someone is below you based on their sex, gender, race, religion, or anything that makes that person a person, just, fuck off. Kink is not an excuse for these being genuine beliefs.

~Messages / asks are open!~

- not excepting new dms atm! Sorry moots!

If your first ask/message is to give me a punishment or try to trick me into doing something that will cause me harm or cross a boundary, just… don’t. It’s pretty fucking annoying.

DO NOT send unsolicited pictures of your genitalia, male, female or anything else, as your first message.

Please stop asking me for pictures, in dms or inbox. I will post what I am comfortable with on my blog and will not send nudes at this time.

What I like to be called: fucking anything. You can call me by my name, give me a nickname, or call me something degrading to put me in my place. Or, y'know, feel free to call me Pexels.

What I like to call those above me: Sir/Mistress, ma’am

Hard limits: scat, blood, insest, excessive amounts of pain (slapping is OK) continuously breaking my boundary’s will get you blocked.

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[aiyanayanas]

[prideinpassion]

I fucked myself with my knot dildo right after this

[submissivefeminist]

So, a few folks have been asking me for beginner resources for hypnosis and I didn't have a lot of free ones on hand but my favorite hypnotic duo, Sinister and Imaginatrix, have put together this video on Hypnosis for Total Beginners and they are incredible teachers so I highly recommend giving it a watch if you wanna know more about hypnokink.

📺: Hypnosis for Total Beginners

[hypwriter]

Signal boosting the fuck out of this. Two beautiful women in a beautiful dynamic showcasing the best of erotic hypnosis in a semi-SFW way. Unbelievable stuff, and I highly recommend sharing this with others who are interested in learning more about erotic hypnosis. Tagging a few people I know in no particular order who are in or want to be in the kinky educator space (or I've seen you post educational stuff and I just want to boost this more!!)

@writtenbynath

@sweetsurrenderdoll

@pruning-the-minds-garden

@hypnoobiwan

@h-sleepingirl

@theleeallure

@rhea-sunshine

@hypn0harlot

@daja-the-hypnokitten

@hypnodolls

@ringofkees

[dominant-dominion]

Hey sluts. Use this map.

Yes doms that means you too.

[sex-obsessed-lesbian]

Lol one time my then-metamour mentioned wanting to tie up our shared partner and I said “um buddy you had BETTER get your ass a proper safety talk before you do that, it’s serious business and I’m not qualified to teach you. You wanna learn how to hit people safely? I can totally teach you that!” and he said, I shit you not:

“no, hitting people sounds too dangerous, I’ll just stick to rope.”

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[lastoreadoras-deactivated202411]

So you like being hypnotized?

Maybe you should like or reblog this post.

That might let me know that you want me to dm you.

And you might be giving me permission to hypnotize you.

Who knows? Maybe these things will happen.

There's only one way to find out if it will, isn't there?

You know what to do.

[theblackmercy]

Mm. Clever post...

[its-a-trap-boy]

[legendaryblazefest]

10/10

[red-fox5]

Just: wow

[boysmakegoodpets-deactivated202]

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[anicklebittome]

🐺

[thickthighsnprettyeyes00-deacti]

🙋🏻‍♀️

[red-fox5]

Some boys do to ;)

[sinnerx10-deactivated20210417]

Bruhhhhh not to be horny on main, but I am jonesing to just destroy somebody, you know? Like I’m trying to have him tied up and gagged, eyes rolling back and drooling because I’m literally fucking him out of his mind. I’m trying to make him cum so many times that he can’t cum any more, and then I’m trying to force out one more with my wand. I’m trying to use my partner like a toy until he’s so fucked out he can’t even speak, just so I can finish myself off with his mouth, you know?

[red-fox5]

HoLy Shit. No one has ever managed to hypnotise me before. I wish someone could just to do that to me. Wow. Let's make this reality, come on people, you've got this.