Red and Lacy

I'm a 23 year-old bisexual female, and am in a loving relationship with my boyfriend. I love submitting to him sometimes, but most of the time I'm in control of his orgasms. I love making him cum, but I like driving him crazy just as much (if not a little more). I like keeping him in chastity, and I mostly use Tumblr to drive him crazy, either by letting him look at sexy pictures while he's locked, sending him naughty posts when he's away from home, or by letting him watch me masturbate to the ones that I like ;) Some of the posts we re-blog are ones that I use to turn him on, some are ones I find hot, and some are just sexy scenarios that we both like. We're both very happy and have no real intention of opening our relationship to another person, but I love the idea of having another girl help me tease him to insanity

[redandlacy]

Parting words, since this will all be gone soon..

Tumblr is removing all NSFW content on December the 17th. So I’ve been re-posting some of my favorites ;)

I want to let you in on a little secret. I let my bf cum a lot. Yes he stays in chastity sometimes. Sometimes I ruin his orgasms to tease him. But it’s all in the attitude. Talk a big game and he’ll go crazy. Tell him he won’t be allowed to cum for a month, and he’ll be rock hard in an instant...even if you both know that you might not follow through.

Thanks for reading, this past year... Hope you came as hard as we did <3

[redandlacy]

My favorite audios

https://soundgasm.net/u/Doyenne/Chastity-BJ

 https://soundgasm.net/u/Doyenne/Chastity-Edge-1

 https://soundgasm.net/u/kinkyshibby/Chastity-Voicemail-ChastityFdomCum-EatingOrgasm-DenialTeasing5-minutes

[redandlacy]

A fun game: While he waits

Have him masturbate while he waits for you. Either while you’re coming home from work, while you’re busy with your friends, or just while you’re finish an episode of TV. Or when you just want to know that he’s stroking while he thinks about you ;)

Start stroking, baby. Once I’m ready for you, you’re only going to have ten seconds to cum.

If he doesn’t know how long you’ll be, he’ll rush to the edge, and then he’ll be stuck teasing himself until you get there. Walking in on him when he’s been teetering on the edge of orgasm for an hour can be soooo fun <3 Just take him in your mouth once and he’ll explode. Or, just sit at the side of your bed, calmly count to ten, and watch him spill a huge orgasm onto your feet. Or, once you’re there, abandon the ten second rule and just tease him as lightly as you can while he begs to cum. 

Chances are he can keep himself right on the edge better than you can, if he really tries. So take advantage of that. Have him watch porn, and leave him alone for a while. Don’t tell him how long you’ll be. Check up on him to make sure he’s behaving. And then when you’re ready to tease him, all the hard work is done and you get to enjoy him at his absolute horniest.

<3

[redandlacy]

A fun game: edging marathon

Make him edge over and over until he’s a drippy horny mess. Until it takes him 5 seconds to go from 0-100. Have him watch some porn, if that helps.

Make sure he stops after each edge. Hands behind his back, so he can calm down. Tickle his balls. Squeeze his cock. Wipe up the little bit of precum that starts to escape. 

Over and over again, until one thrust into your mouth would make him cum. How many times can he edge before he loses control?

And then decide if he gets to finish or if he should go back in his cage ;)

[redandlacy]

Is ejaculation less healthy?

https://prostate.net/articles/controlled-ejaculation-frequency

A few more reasons to keep him from cumming too often

[nothing-for-him]

Challenge: Ruin every orgasm you have, for a month!

[goodgirlgonewildmontreal]

ღ

[redandlacy]

edge <3

[redandlacy]

A fun game

This is probably my favorite cock hero game to play with my bf. 

Halfway through it asks you to pick your own ending-- help him complete the “Purity” route. Make sure he follows ALL the instructions.

<3

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph57ec8d950966a

[redandlacy]

would you like a nice pink cage for Christmas, baby? <3

[redandlacy]

A fun game

Hide the key to his cage. He gets to do whatever he wants to you, to convince you to tell him where you hid it (set a time limit if you want).

If he teases the location out of you, he gets to be unlocked and gets to cum wherever he wants. If you are strong enough to keep the secret, he stays locked.

<3

[redandlacy]

A fun game-- for him AND for her

Roll a die at the beginning of the week. The result will be the rule you follow for the week. I picked the “For Him” results, and I let my bf pick the “For Her” results ;) I can’t wait to play...but I’m not sure yet how some of the combinations might work. Might alternate weeks.

For Him-- For the week...

1. All of his orgasms will be ruined.

2. He will only be allowed to cum while he’s kissing her feet.

3. He will only be allowed to cum while she’s riding his tongue.

4. He will only be allowed to cum by humping her legs.

5. He will only be allowed to see her naked while he’s locked up. Any orgasms will be on her feet, and she’ll be fully dressed when he cums.

6. She will blow him for one minute (or longer, if she wants) every day, but he will not cum until the end of the week.

For Her-- For the week...

1. She will only be allowed to cum when she has his cock in her mouth.

2. She will only be allowed to cum if she is tied up, blindfolded, and has the words “Bad Little Girl” written across her breasts.

3. She will only be allowed to cum while she is on her knees.

4. Every night she will wait naked, face down, and ass up, for him to come to bed.

5. She will only be allowed an orgasm when she is already covered in his cum (preferably on her face)

6. She will edge once a day at bedtime, but will not cum until the end of the week.

[megafamousblizzardbouquetus-dea]

A SHOUT out to male chastity keyholders everywhere

https://prostate.net/articles/controlled-ejaculation-frequency

Just found this amazing article at Prostrate.net 

Is less ejaculation healthy?

A 2003 study found that men who abstained from ejaculation for seven days showed a peak rise in serum testosterone of 145.7 percent of baseline. Scores of studies have demonstrated that low testosterone levels are associated with a variety of symptoms, including flagging libido, abdominal obesity, loss of muscle strength and tone, fatigue, and erectile dysfunction. Therefore, steps that help maintain or raise testosterone levels are probably desirable for many men and controlled ejaculation frequency may be one of those steps.

Exactly how often men should ejaculate as part of sexual activity depends on the man. Generally, men should identify their own frequency by determining how strong and refreshed they feel after and between intercourse sessions. Among the recommendations from Taoists theorists are the following:

Ejaculation only 20 to 30 percent of the time (2 or 3 times out of every 10 sessions)

Ejaculation no more than 1 time every 20 days for men older than 50 and no more than once every 100 days for men older than 60

Ejaculation based on the seasons: none during the winter, twice a month during summer and autumn, and no more than every 3 days during the spring

so by my reckoning partners who lock their men in chastity cages to help control & prevent Ejaculations are helping their partner be a lot healthier 

well done to Keyholders everywhere 

[keephimcaged]

Okay so this is interesting, BUT reading the linked site that’s mostly based on taoist practises, so not entirely convincing, and the study is in a chinese university so maybe biased to back that up, but still, a fun excuse! Personally I like to let him cum on that kind of basis anyway. Once a week or a fortnight seems to be a good amount to keep him horny and positive, with plenty of edging and maybe a ruin or two in between to speed up the process.

[redandlacy]

A fun game

Copy the girl in one of these videos, and let him watch while you drive him crazy ;)

Experimenting with new positions in which to tease him is always lots of fun, too.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph592a43f31d003

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=588720709

[anothersubbie]

[professormonkeybusiness]

Go on. You heard her. Edge. Closer than you’ve ever been before. You’ll do it to keep her happy, won’t you?

[charliechastity]

You always wanted a three-way with her best friend. She’d always said No Way. Chastity Changes EVERY Thing.

[sufferforher]