Pleasure Top

27 🚹 6'4 FULL BIO IS PINNED 😇 "pleasure-giving" sub into mommy-dommes ❤️

[reedsofintimacy]

Hi everyone! Welcome to my bio! (It's a long one)

You can call me Reeds or Reed. Some basic facts:

💚 I am 25 26 27

💚 I am 6'4 = 193cm

💚 I am American

💚 I am ethnically Scandinavian

💚 I speak basic Français and 汉语

💚 I am a virgin 😇 I've actually never had my first kiss

💚 I wear glasses and am definitely a nerd

💚 I am straight

My tags:

#Ask Reeds - my ask responses

#ReedsPosts - my misc short posts

#ReedsWrites - my longer form writing

#ReedsIRL - photos/audio/media of me

I have a telegr that I prefer to use for talking which is the same username as on here so pls add me 🥰

This bio will be a bit long, so for more info on everything about me click below! 🥳

💚 POSITIONS AND ROLES 💚

I'm a top, meaning I enjoy the act of pleasuring my partner more than having my partner be focused on stimulating me. If we had to pick a position, I'd want it to be the one that feels best to her, because seeing her loving it is what thrills me, less about min-maxing my own sensations

I lean a bit subby, meaning I'd prefer my woman to be in charge and take the lead, but I can be flexible and switch. Society has (sadly 🎻) not created many women who feel naturally comfortable bossing men around in the bedroom or elsewhere and really enjoy it. That's fine, I mostly just want to pamper my partner. Whether that's through worship and service as a sub myself, or spoiling a pillow princess submissive as more of a dom. It feels less natural to me, but when I see how happy and needy it makes her I'm very happy to give it my best 🩷 but I can't do super mean aggressive slap-slap-slap "what did you say to me!?" *punish *punish it just isnt in me.

So combining those two (top and sub), I like the sort of woman who while we're hanging out would decide she wants her pussy eaten, and so would spread her legs, and begin tugging a bit at me coaxing "babyy~ i think you need a little snack~ 😈🫦" and then watch a huge bulge form in my pants as my face makes contact with her thighs and I greedily service her until she can't take it anymore and pulls me up to kiss her instead.

Or while we're in a fitting room shopping for clothes would lift up her skirt, revelaing she isnt wearing any panties, and lean in giving me a big hickey and whisper "you're going to breed me in this fitting room 💋" and giggle as she leaned over into the position that always felt the best for her, eyeing my blushing red embarassed face, hesitating. "Or else I'll moan 👅💕" she'd threaten and tease, but silence herself with a bite of her lip when she felt me slide in and fill her, her personal fucktoy thrusting just the way she taught him until she gets everything she wanted, and then praises me with a "thank you, good boy 🥰😘" enjoying the helpless puddle I've now been turned into. Then slide her pants back on and walk out of the room with her pet's sperm still leaking down her thigh, off to go keep browsing while waiting for me to collect myself.

💚 FETISHES AND KINKDOM 💚

I'm fine with just plain vanilla sex ofc all cuddly and lovey with little growls of "you're mine 🫦"

🩵 BDSM ❓️

I'm not into bdsm like sadomasochism and pain play. Wax, knives, whips, black leather. I just don't get the appeal, I'm soft and sweet. Some light bondage to mix things up, collaring, etc is all fine but not too much beyond that.

🩵 Pegging ❌️

I am *not* into pegging 🙀 (gasp) I know. Heresy. But I don't want anything in my butt, see the above about topping. Although being pinned down and her riding her clit against my bottom to masturbate herself...😏💦

🩵 Humiliation & Praise

I like the idea of humiliation but anytime I've actually heard it its been super cringe. The fantasy of the "popular girls" inviting me to a sleepover just to watch how easy i get hard then pin me down and toy with me knowing whatever they show me would be the most I've ever seen, etc is really sexy to me 🫠 but the moment a real human voice is roleplaying it idk I find it hard to suspend disbelief and not be overly aware of myself and feel silly. Maybe its the anxiety disorder. Praise is always nice 🥰

🩵 Service

I consider myself a service top sub and love to worship and please someone, whatever it is that makes them turned on. That can be giving lots and lots of head and getting my face ridden 😍 or using my hands for her, or giving a foot massage, or chest kneading, or holding her book as she reads, or brushing her hair, or carrying her things, or worshipping her butt with kisses, smooching her tummy, clitwarming her in my mouth while she reads, etc. I love to be useful to someone and that extends to in the bedroom. Bonus if it comes with praise for doing a good job.

🩵 Breeding 💦

Creampies are so sexy, i dunno why you'd want to finish anywhere else. There's something so posessive about insemination and the idea of fertility and a cervix and womb thats just very 🥵. I also think the body changes associated with pregnancy are very sexy. Getting a cute tummy bump and swollen leaky breasts the prove I'm claimed to you now is yummy. But i dont think i want kids, definitely not right now, and theres nothing sexy about labor pains or abortions lol so for now this is more of a mental fantasy kink. But if they invented a birth control pill that still simulated the tummy and tits a bit and needed a particular potency and cycle timing to activate i would be alllll over it 😍😍 also maternity clothes are so cute.

🩵 Dry humping & grinding

I'm a very big virgin, so sometimes overly forward stuff just overloads my senses like blowing out a photograph with sunlight and i dont get much out of it. With dry humping the motions, the desperation, the longing for whats behind her panties but not quite getting it, the involvement of her clit which will feel really nice for her, how she rocks her hips controlling exactly what tempo will make her go absolutely crazy its just so needy and cute and sexy. Id love someone able to get off just by desperately rubbing agsinst my throbby bulge.

🩵 Posession, Lipstick stains, & Hickeys

Possession is very sexy and what better way than cute lipstick marks stamping me as owned. Or a collar, or her name written in sharpie on my underwear, or bites just under the shirt line. I want it all I want to be so so hers.

🩵 Lactation 🙈

Idk if the actual milk would be warm and gross irl but the idea that you can suckle someones pretty tits so hard it makes them leak, and that milk pressure builds up and gets achy needing to be relieved by a subs mouth is very 💦💦💦 plus needed to go through breeding to activate it usually is kinda naughty in a "I did this to you" type of way.

🩵 Me as a Dom

As far as being more of a dom goes, I think I actually prefer the ddlg side of things, which I think is currently out of style and unpopular. But I like the dynamic lending itself to pampering and spoiling someone and being more focused on sweetness relative to just being some sort of master figure. Also like littlespace gear is still so cute like pacis and onesies will be adorable forever its such a mix of cutesy girly and a bit humiliating for someone to wear that I really think it works 🩷When I identified more as a dom I kinda always wanted an abdl sub to baby and still think its cute and degrading and hot & am embarassed to admit that, I never e-dated anyone who actually did it. 💖 but if I'm the sub, while I have a mommy kink I'm not into regression or any of that stuff myself

🩵 Omo/pee (her, not me) sounds spicy and is hot to watch, idk if it'd gross me out irl. I used to be really into videos of girls wetting their pants or panties and something about it is still strangely hot. Have a tiny maybe fantasy of a girl making out with me straddling my lap and then just letting her bladder go as we kiss and grind soaking us both. 🙈

🩵 Collaring and petplay is cute, I'd totally wear one for her.

🩵 Getting referred to as "my little white boy" by a nonwhite person with a thing for white guys (🙈🙈 SHUTUP!!)

🩵 Minor humiliation like being teased by her panties or sat on/used as a stool etc

🩵 Not really an irl thing but in hentai when the girl is overstuffed and you can see the bulge pushing up her tummy 🥵

🩵 Corruption, of either of us and especially me.

🩵 Dirty Talk

One of my absolute favorite things to do is get to talk to someone as they touch themselves 🩷 turning them on with my fantasies and then begging them to please please please cum, spamming my words as they release so they can just read and not have to type just feel like im there with them 🥰

💚 MY "TYPE" IN WOMEN 💚

My taste in women irl is that I always have the biggest crush on the kindest girl 🙈 like the one who's proactive and honestly makes me feel bad for not being a better person when I'm around her. Someone who listens, has a big heart, Christmas is her favorite holiday just because of the cheer and her sweet childhood memories and she thinks its cute to hold hands. Who focuses on the positives whenever possible and wouldn't compromise her ideals to fit in socially. Not into gossip or putting people down, is nice to strangers, waitresses, etc. I think you get the point. Something about those sort of people imprints deep into my heart 💟

I am into successful, intelligent, driven women. Like "I was the president of ___ club, I'm a ___ position in this company, I have a degree in ___, I speak ___ and ___ languages, I play the ___" it all makes me just 🥵🥵🥵. I'd love someone who has some sort of public skill/hobby like playing in an orchestra 😍 or doing community theater or playing in a sports team, anything where I can show up and get to be a cheerleader like 🥹😻 that's my baby up there!!! And get to clap and cheer and compliment how she did I just think would be super cute and fun. Then take her out to dinner afterward for doing such a good job ⭐️

I don't find typical domme-aesthetic things like -- *Smoking *Vapes *Weed *Lots of tattoos *Short hair *Goth vibes *fishnets *dyed hair *promiscuous *into knives and blood -- to be very attractive personally. Just not my type.

I'm more into miss innocent church girl, honors student valedictorian who secretly has had a high sex drive awakened and guess who walked right into her trap 👀💦 she secretly corrupted herself and now she's going to corrupt me 🙈❤️‍🔥

I totally get the sex appeal around the bully type domme who is all tough, even if she shows you her sweet side, and that sounds super hot on paper but idk irl I just don't seem to be into people who are actually that way. Its very "sexy" but it isn't compatible on a deeper layer

I don't really care about age. Obviously they *must* be legal but college student who is younger than me vs someone my age vs milf who is a bit older it's all a wash. All have their distinct appeal. All get a 👍.

Height is also inconsequential. I mean I'm (6'4 193cm) or thereabouts so I'm nearly always going to be a fair bit taller than my partner regardless of her height. I think the size difference is cute, something about having a 4' in your height is just idk a bit hot? Lol but i have no real preference I like the whole spectrum and never really think about height, and hypothetically if I *could* find a woman who's my height or taller, that'd be sexy too 🥰 Different flavors but all delicious.

I am a genuine fan of both more curvy and more skinny body types, but less so each extreme. A slim figure and grabbable waist i can fit my hand around and a lil *pow* booty is scrumptious, but if she's so skinny its like borderline unhealthy and it feels like id break her if I grab her wrong and I can see all her bones 😬. Of course I'm very happy to support a partner struggling with an ed or who has had one in the past, but I want my darling more than anything to be healthy. Likewise curvy people can be extremely yummy 😋😍, I love a curvy tummy in a bikini it oozes fertility. but if its to the extent it prevents her from going on cute lil hikes with me and creates health problems then I'd want to help her workout and cook her some homemade healthier food so she can feel better and be more energized and well. But purely aesthetically ❤️ curvyness is a yes. So are stock standard body types ❤️

Breasts and everything to do with the body is actually kinda gravy because for me its the *face* that I'm attracted to and the body is just the fun present that comes along for the ride. Nothing about someones chest size or whatever would make me unattracted to them if i liked their face. Buttt obviously a full chest is nice, but i hesistate to say big because it really depends on weight and body. Fullness relative to body type so that it 🥳 pops is most sexy. So a skinnier girl will be a smaller size, but being skinny and still having a fairly prominent bosom makes it 🥳 pop. Likewise being curvy will grow the size, but some people already big will now develop 💥turbo milkers💥 that 🥳 pop. So its less about surface area or bra size and more about protrusion from the chest, and ofc big is nice ❤️ that being said an itty bitty chest while independently less sexy becomes part of a persons vibe and fits into the whole which as a connected body can be very attractive 💋 Plus then you get to wear pretty bralettes. I'm not really hyper aware of tit sizes but I did want to explain what I think most guys mean when they say they like "big tits" but also we dont pay that close attention a boob is a boob and theyre all fun so just 🩷 love your body mkay?

Bootys i notice less person to person, theres just like 3% of the population that has 💥💥 in their pants and *also* dresses to accentuate it and show it off and look we all think those people are 🤤🤤 like making a protruded lil mound out of their tight jeans or rocking some yoga pants or leggings. Hottie hot hot but 97% of us have unremarkable normal butts.

One thing I *am* really into, the closest thing I have to a "type" is long hair ✨️✨️. Like i have never seen a girl with hair past her butt I didn't want to marry. Mid-back 😀 waist length 😃 past butt 🤪 the longer the better. Idk what it is it just seduces and intoxicates me its so pretty. I know its such a pita for women to maintain which is why its very rare, and my partner can have her hair however she wants it i wouldnt want her to suffer for me, but super long hair is just goddess tier its like the one physical attribute i have a clear robust preference on. Short hair indeed can be cute but long hair will always win in my heart. Straight, a bit wavy, curly honestly it doesnt matter that much its all gorgeous. Long hair my beloved 💕 may i have my lady sit on my lap and allow me to brush it for her some day. I want to help wash it and learn 1,000 ways to style it for her, although hanging free is the best 😍

People have different physical sensitivities, and I think I prefer having a pretty sensitive partner. I've had before during sexting where I'd spend 3 hours naughty talking someone and sexting while they touch and still just barely cum by the end, and other partners where we'd be going 20 mins and she'd go 🥺 I'm really close and I'd beg her to let it go and then she'd release and then probably be too sensitive to even go again for a whole day. That was soooo cute and sweet to me. Since I love pleasing someone so much getting that validation more quickly was really nice and also fit my schedule better, and it would be so creamy and throbby and pulsy when she was done it made my eyes roll back to just watch it. And she'd have to be so careful about how much she touched or it would ache even if she was soaked and horny still. It was really endearing ❤️ everyone is different and needs different amounts of time but I'd prefer someone where I can pour everything into a really great 30 or 40 mins as opposed to being up all night trying to get them off. Being especially creamy is also a plus 🤭

I'm totally fine with someone who is a little too tight and has to be really gentle with themselves, its cute and I don't mind at all if most days all she can tolerate is a gentle tonguing and some kissing. Same with if she's too sensitive and has to stop early before I finish, so long as she gets off and is satisfied I'm a happy camper 😇💖 But nothing wrong with stamina either

So concludes the sexual information!

💚 About Me Personally 💚

🩵 I am musical 🎶

I play the guitar 🎸 and previously played the drums 🥁 and piano 🎹 and even have a clarinet

🩵 I'm a big reader 📖

I have a particular interest in Classical Eastern Literature and have read things like the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, the Valmiki Ramayana, Journey to the West etc. I'm a big fan of classics in general, my favorite book of all time is the Count of Monte Cristo

I also have been getting into classical SciFi, been reading a lot of PKD and some Dan Simmons and Kurt Vonnegut and it's been really enjoyable so far.

🩵 I'm a programmer

I can do fullstack web development from html to nginx and work mostly within the dotnet ecosystem.

🩵 I'm a nerd en général

I love learning things. My first love is the sciences, I went to college for chemistry. I would love to have time to improve my terrible math skills and pick up Korean as a another language, and want to level up my world history especially with regards to Africa and Southeast Asia both of which I am fairly unacquainted with.

You can talk to me about productivity systems, desk setups, fountain pens, video games, and other weird nerd things.

🩵 I want to travel

I've never left the US and one day would love to get to see more of the world.

🩵 I do some amateur writing

I enjoy making my lil erotica mini stories here, and also sometimes in my freetime plan out silly novels and short stories never to be published but just for fun.

💚 I think I'll end things here for now, there's definitely more to me but that should be an effective enough primer. If you made it this far and havent dm'd me...wtf is wrong with you?? We're basically already friends now? 😘

[reedsofintimacy]

How about you wear victoria's secret leggings and I take a nap with my face buried in your bottom till my brain melts

[arcanumnyx]

I'm a simple girl. I just wanna bake him cookies and stroke his hair while he suck on my nipples.

[subboye]

the only reason to wear a tie is for a woman to jerk it like a leash

[mommiesthings]

Hnnf. . . need my little one obsessed with stuffing his face between my legs. So desperate n’ dumb, poor baby starts suckling at my clit through my panties. . . forgetting to remove them entirely. I want him to lap at my folds and slobber all over my crotch. “Thats it. . . Thats Mama’s good boy, hm? Making me feel so good!” I coo while petting his hair, watching as he cums in his pants just from pleasuring me.

[robobrat]

service top knight who whines and cums when you tell him how good he is at fucking you

[reedsofintimacy]

You ever wake up in the middle of the night and can't sleep so you deserately dry hump a pillow to her selfies

[reedsofintimacy]

Of course I'll behave mommy, but maybe you should keep my leash on just in case.

What if I catch a virus. Or turn into a vampire 🥺 I need to stay controllable just in case right? 😇💕

[reedsofintimacy]

So many mutuals have deleted I might have to wipe my following list and zero everything back out

[reedsofintimacy]

Thinking I might redo my bio as something less submissive-y? More of kind of a switch/top "dom" but not really "dom" thing??

I guess my thinking is that most people aren't into subby guys, and those that are usually want to be "giving-to" the sub and I'm more into giving myself and it just makes everything kinda complicated y'know? Like confusing to understand.

What really brings me pleasure is doting on someone. Like giving them the best experience possible and soaking up their radiating enjoyment like a lil sponge. But for 95%+ of women, they don't want to have to be giving the commands or guidance on their dream night. They wanna be swept off their feet and guided and led and be able to just focus on responding and enjoying themselves.

So. What if...I channeled my submissive energy into being a special kind of dominant. Like a knightly, gentlemanly, romantic, soft but confident prince. Who internally is calculating how best to please and service and worship and tend to and adore his princess, but outwardly is more "cool" and mature and grown. Who will take the initiative, carry her to the bedroom, and "have his way" with her by actually figuring out what HER way is so it ends up being magical.

I still can't do the dark mysterious "I'm a dom. With a knife. Yeah. That's right. I wear hoodies in a black and white filter. Cuz I'm tough. Kidnapping? That's my kink. Cuz I'm so..uh...badass. yeah. I like blood. Blood and...blowjobs. with puke. And guns. Cuz I cut people. With a sharp gun. And tie them up to do more blowjobs. And smack them and use hynposis or something. But I post self-aware so you can't say I'm insecure. I'm definitely like this in real life. Yeah. Totally cool" ppfffttt

Maybe if people are super into that I can learn to better approximate it. Idk. It'll be a learning experience. But I feel like coming off as my MOST authentic self ends up just being kinda confusing and alienating.

Instead I could be more familiar. Like a dom, but a sweet one? Idk. Maybe that still doesn't scratch the itch for most women. It'll take some practice regardless.

Tbh most people including me arent super into hard bdsm anyways so what if I came off as more of like a regular guy who just happens to have very nice and intentional bedroom skills?

And then every once in a while i can sprinkle in some more subby posts with the benefit of that wider general female audience and maybe for 5% of them it will awaken something and I'll broaden some subby guy appeal without it hindering my options so much.

Hmm. Lots to decide. I've been super busy but I do want to start posting again so I'm considering a change in direction to keep things fresh. If i do update my bio post ill probably link the old one at the bottom of the new one so people can learn about my history if theyre so inclined

[bbyxdarlinnnn-deactivated202602]

god forbid a girl wants a kind man to completely worship her in bed

[alliekills]

​something about sub tops. jesus christ sub tops let me wrap my arms around your neck with my fingers in your hair— our bodies slick with sweat and your fingers or your cock moving in and out of me in a way that i wish i could describe but really can’t, we’re so caught up in how it all sounds and feels that i can barely manage to remember it in more than hard hot gasps and electric desire striking my body without thunder and paired to moans which only exist in memory the next day and my legs give out in the middle of the kitchen thinking about you being in me again because yes i’m the domme between us but you really get off on breaking my brain enough that i can’t do anything more than dig my nails into you and uselessly tell you not to fucking stop, knowing there’s no goddamn way you would ever do such a thing until i was satisfied.​ god i looove eager tops. like you’re either brave or literally can’t help yourself but i don’t really care which it is— just let me praise you until you’re fucking the words out of my head and there’s nothing left in my mind but the sound of you in my warm wet pussy

[ruinedwithlust]

Speaking of oral fixations, I've always loved the idea of training a sub into developing one. Playing with his mouth whenever I please, pressing down on his tongue with my thumb, feeling the grooves of his teeth, kissing him constantly, etc. And of course, always ending it by having him eat me out or sucking and leaving marks on my boobs. I think it would be so much fun and also entertaining when it develops so far that he starts to crave something to always occupy his mouth 🤭

[dommecouture]

I want to be mean and grab him by the hair, call him a slutty puppy and do terrible things to him. But one pout coming my way and he's being treated like a little baby. My baby <3

[reedsofintimacy]

🥺 want to sign up for an anonymous nightwalk fertility list where I sleep with my door unlocked, wearing a blindfold and wrists tied, and a woman wanting a baby can look me up and decide to come and ride me until I'm milked up into her womb without me ever even seeing her. Then just left panting in bed with her juices all over me until morning.

Never knowing if someone is going to come that night. Or if another might show up later and reuse my already drained and messy cock to force any load i have left out.

Some of them are rude and leave deep hickeys marking me even though I dont know who left them

It's supposed to be for pregnancy but there's nothing to stop any woman on b.c. from just swinging by to use my cock for her pleasure.

Some of them aren't even sneaky about it and ride my face instead. So I suck them off thinking its prep for breeding and then they just leave. But with the blindfold theres no way to report them.

And sometimes its the reverse. A virgin college student curious what it's like stops by to suck her first cock. I assume it's to get me stiff to ride but then she just throats me and drinks all my sperm I was supposed to mate with.

One time 2 girls came together so they wouldnt be nervous. Giggling lots as they fondled and grinded and groped me each using my mouth before the first took a load, then the 2nd sucked my over sensitive dick until it got all hard again and took the last of my semen for herself

After months of this I start getting ultrasound postcards in the mail from my secret clients. One night i get a milky nipple in my mouth who makes me latch and drain her, and I can feel her tummy bump against mine, already knocked up, but she breeds with my cock anyways just for fun.

🥵 I'd be so worn out from overuse that during the day all i can do is rest and hydrate and exercise a bit. I start taking tips and soon it becomes my fulltime job and there's complaints if I ever lock my door to try to take a night off. The next night when its open again I can tell my cleints were grouchy from how extra hard they fuck me. One gently slaps my face. I get the message. This cock stays open for use. Or else.

[reedsofintimacy]

I don't want her birthday in my phone I want an ovulation tracker app for her cycle that notifies me when she's fertile

[gfdandrr2]

Boys being grabbed by their ties/collars and kissed is a peak aesthetic. Especially if they're pinned against a wall or being dragged up to someone above them.