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[alittlebitofnightmusing]

Liar

I’m sure you’ve done it before. If you say you haven’t you’re a liar. Once, at least once- although maybe every day, you crawled into your bed and wished still to go home. If a dwelling then so dire become a midnight dream’s funeral pyre I think it’s time to wonder what we want. A dark deep lair, half layered half austere. A harsh mister of uncrept realization twists fates behind your back and outside the fabric. Although I sometimes like to face the eerily erudite leer, if we all want to go home- how the hell did we get here?

-Enjoy your liar’s day

[quotewithasource]

“My wife and I just don’t have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don’t love her anymore and she doesn’t love me. What can i do?“ “The feeling isn’t there anymore?” I asked. “That’s right,” he reaffirmed. “And we have three children we’re really concerned about. What do you suggest?” “love her,” I replied. “I told you, the feeling just isn’t there anymore.” “Love her.” “You don’t understand. the feeling of love just isn’t there.” “Then love her. If the feeling isn’t there, that’s a good reason to love her.” “But how do you love when you don’t love?” “My friend , love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”

Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change (via quotewithasource)

[theanimalmemes]

nothing more attractive than a man who teaches you things without making you feel like you’re dumb for not knowing it already

@sexual-texts (via sexual-texts)

[ignisgayentia]

some of my fav carrie quotes for a little carrie positivity that we need now ❤

[bi-privilege]

we had very few catholics in the area i grew up, and now that i have interacted with a few of them, i have discovered that they truly run the gammot from “god and religion are Very Serious” to “we stole holy water from a basilica on a road trip so we could exorcise a hockey arena so the team would stop sucking”

[curvyblubird]

u don‘t even need to get holy water from somewhere else, if you’re baptized you can make your own out of water, salt and some specific chanting

(anarchist catholics unite, reclaim our spirituality from the Man, etc etc)

[bi-privilege]

reblogging for a friend

[unregardless]

being rich would be so much fun, like aside from the obvious stuff, can you imagine going to a restaurant and being able to give your waiter/waitress a $500 tip for like a $40 meal? you could make people’s months without even trying

[insidiousmoonandry]

If only actual rich people thought this way instead of trying to pass shitty ass laws to fuck it up for everyone else

[lorrang]

are you a sleep deprived gay or a touch starved gay

[latinxa-deactivated20180331]

[difficult]

Some people smoke, others drink, and others fall in love, each one dies in a different way.

(via difficult)

[chalamet-x]

i’m dying that robert downey jr posted this on his official facebook 😂😂😂 

[lesbiantenets]

This is so sweet. 😭 (x)

[pro-gay]

[asiafish-deactivated20200729]

Hey remember that episode of Spongebob where Sandy sings about being homesick for Texas and Spongebob and Patrick overhear it and are worried that she’s going to leave Bikini Bottom so they have a Texas party at the Krusty Krab with all their friends, recreating things in Sandy’s song but they fuck it up like, pecan pie is just a can of peas shoved in a pie, barbeque is barbed wire in the shape of a Q, and the ten gallon hats are just plastic water jugs on their heads, and like…. Sandy just laughs so hard she breaks into tears, cause she sees what they’re trying to do for her to make her feel at home because they love her and don’t want her to leave…………… yo do you ever think about that goddamn episode

[cartoon-deactivated20220930]

And then she realizes she’s already at home bc she’s with them and they all love her so much? Nickelodeon didn’t have to go that hard but they did gotdamn

[ohjadewhatshername-deactivated2]

remember that she killed patrick for making fun of texas

[starcades]

pokemon really did that

[tarynel]

I think everyone would be much happier if they stopped tryna fuck with people who clearly don’t fuck with them. Stop chasing people. If you show interest and they don’t, move the fuck on. You ever see someone post and it’s just like omg shut up. Not everyone is going to like you back. It really is that simple.

[the-real-eye-to-see]

[hullibalo]

“im not a stripper”: capricorn, cancer, aquarius, libra, aries, pisces 

“im not a herion addict hoe”: scorpio, leo, gemini, taurus, virgo, sagittarius 

[datingcptsd]

Try to remember that your partner might need more explanation for your thought process than you think is necessary, especially if it’s a “negative” thought.

“I disagree with you” –> “I disagree with you, but I’m not angry at you, and I’m not going to yell at you for not agreeing with me.”

“I’m hurt by what you did” –> “I’m hurt by what you did, but I don’t hate you, and I don’t think you’re a bad person. I just want to discuss it.”

“I’m frustrated” –> “I’m frustrated, but it doesn’t mean I don’t care about you.”

What feels obvious to you–the underlying asumption that of course you still love this person, of course this is just a single feeling–is not obvious to someone who has been trained to flinch at every criticism. Take the time to explain your feelings and their meanings to ease both your fears.

[rallyforbernie]

This is what Republicans try to demonize for political gain. Think about it.

[filmeditors-deactivated20230605]

being in love? dating someone? LOVE the concepts, would be on completely on board. too bad it’s just not realistic. what a shame