don't reblog unless you have dependent pd

(self-dxed and questioning dpd friends welcome!) on a semi-hiatus for advice, sorry!!! faq / mobile links / for dependeds

[relatabledpdfeels]

I’m so happy to hear from you guys. I used to submit stuff here all the time when I was really sick. I’m doing better now, and I’m so glad that you are too. The radio silence from this blog had me worried that you hurt yourself.

i’m honestly so sorry for leaving so abruptly. i had a lot of things going on in my personal life and this all took a toll on me, but i shouldn’t have left in the way that i did. i’m really glad to hear that you’re doing better now and it’s been really nice to look back on my past & see how much i’ve progressed. thank you all so much for giving me this place to vent & find people with similar struggles. i hope that we all thrive & continue to grow as life goes on.

- mod bunny

[relatabledpdfeels]

i hope you’re all living happier, healthier lives now.

everyone who was running this blog, including mod bunny, has pretty much left their old blogs or tumblr altogether.

that in mind, i leave you, 2 years late, with this:

it’s okay to recover. it’s okay to stop allowing your illness to be every part of you. i promise, you’re so much more than this.

we all have to grow up eventually, become actual people, learn how to have healthy interpersonal relationships. go to therapy, correct your thinking, stop telling yourself that you have to act this way because you’re sick, stop telling yourself that you have to be sick.

you’re more than this. you’re better than this.

and truthfully, people aren’t going to keep enabling you forever.

recovery is so worth it. having mutually fulfilling friendships and relationships is so worth it.

you’re going to be okay, i promise you.

we love you. be safe.

this chapter is closed, friends.

- (former) mod penguin

[relatabledpdfeels]

hey everyone it’s mod bunny. i hope you’re all good.

i just wanted to basically echo what mod penguin said and wish everyone the best. things are going to get better if they haven’t already. things will be okay.

personally, i’ve gotten out of an abusive relationship, been able to go to therapy, and it’s taken a long time but i’m starting to heal. you will too, even if it takes longer than you think it should.

we still love you. be safe.

signing off, (former) mod bunny

[relatabledpdfeels]

i hope you’re all living happier, healthier lives now.

everyone who was running this blog, including mod bunny, has pretty much left their old blogs or tumblr altogether.

that in mind, i leave you, 2 years late, with this:

it’s okay to recover. it’s okay to stop allowing your illness to be every part of you. i promise, you’re so much more than this.

we all have to grow up eventually, become actual people, learn how to have healthy interpersonal relationships. go to therapy, correct your thinking, stop telling yourself that you have to act this way because you’re sick, stop telling yourself that you have to be sick.

you’re more than this. you’re better than this.

and truthfully, people aren’t going to keep enabling you forever.

recovery is so worth it. having mutually fulfilling friendships and relationships is so worth it.

you’re going to be okay, i promise you.

we love you. be safe.

this chapter is closed, friends.

- (former) mod penguin

[relatabledpdfeels]

tdpdfw your depended is dating someone and you KNOW they like them better than you and always will and there's nothing you can do about it. but you never tell them how it's ripping you apart bc they might leave you for your toxic jealousy :)

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[relatabledpdfeels]

TDPDFW ur primary dependent is "bezt frendz!!XD" with people who abused you :)

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tdpdfw ur depended (who ur dating) hangs out with their bffl 10 times more and u feel like theyre getting tired of u

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[relatabledpdfeels]

TDPD + kin feel when your depended is vague blogging about you and how much he doesn't want you to find your kin's husband even though he knows how much it hurts and you just :)

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tdpdfw you finally!! think youve stopped depending on your secondary depended. and you were happy because they could be really toxic. but they start talking to you again and all you can feel is the urge to give in and depend on them again.

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[relatabledpdfeels]

tdpdfw you want to be loved like you love your dependeds but you know thats never going to happen, because you would do anything to always be with your dependeds but nobody would be willing to put themselves out there like that for you.

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[relatabledpdfeels]

(#suicide) tdpdfw you were supposed to talk to BOTH your dependeds today!! and youre so excited and ready to go home from school all day because then you can Talk To Them. but it turns out you end up talking to neither of them and end up wanting to actually kill yourself again.

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[relatabledpdfeels]

(#nsfw) tdpdfw the only time your depended cares about you is when youre having sex / sexting

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Tdpdfw someone other than your depended tries to get you to open up to them. Listen buddy, you do not want to get yourself into this.

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[relatabledpdfeels]

Are submissions slowing down or?

ive been busy recently, sorry about that! i queue’d all the recent submissions

[relatabledpdfeels]

tdpdfw its time to play everyones favorite game: "am i becoming dependent on u or do i just like spending time w u"

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[relatabledpdfeels]

tdpdfw you have several dependeds and wanna be QPPS with one, but are too scared to ask your partner/primary depended if they're okay with that just in case they leave you

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tdpdfw ur depended thinks ur abusive bc of dpd so its time to die :)

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tdpdfw yOUR DEPENEDED LIVES ALL THE WAY ACROSS THE WORLD and you'll probably never meet them irl :')

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