Relate 2 Shan

Practical Strategies For Daily Life

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So long #2021 . I wish I could say it was a blast but...well you know. It wasn't all bad though. You gave me a new lease on life and I for that, I will always appreciate you. Sure, it was nice cozying up at home for the last 2 years. But now, I think we need a break and see different people. I hope you understand. Because I'm moving on. So long 2020 and 2021. It's been real. I'll be living my best life fulfilling a promise to myself: build new and existing #relationships because #connectionsmatter. I'm already declaring that 2022 will be filled with a positive shift for us all. We just have to walk in step with this declaration. 2022 is the year of #shipsgoals, #community, and #comingtogether for #healing. #blessings #endscene ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ With that said, I am so happy to make #communitybuilding the vision for this year. And thank you for reading this post, it's part of my accountability check. I hope you join me and we walk this journey together...#stepbystep. #happynewyear2022 (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/relate2shan/p/CYH8-zhvO7b/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Merry merry Christmas! And my #gift to IG is a simple reminder: #reconnect with that person (#family or #friend) that you haven't talked to in a while and wish them a #happyholidays. It can be a call, text, or even an email. It'll brighten both their day and yours. Here's wishing you have a safe and a wonderful holidays with your #community. Here's to #reconnectfortheholidays. See you in year 2022 on how we can level up our #ships. Shan (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CX6yNCivaN3/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Good morning! Just a little reminder that our values and principles are connected. And they impact our #decisions and #betterconnections. The more aware we are of our #valuesandprinciples, the #betterdecisions you are likely to make. Looking to start your journey to self-discovery? Click here to find ever growing videos and articles of #socialskills and #relationships101: https://linktr.ee/relate2shan (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CXofnMyJFvr/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Green, Yellow & Red Flags During Introductions

Green, Yellow & Red Flags During Introductions

Green, Yellow & Red Flags During Introductions You most likely heard about how to spot red flags in relationships, generally romantic ones. Of course, we got the message to avoid the red flags. But how do you spot the green flags? Let alone the yellow flags? Are there yellow flags? Great questions. I am glad I asked. 😉 This article consists of my general take of the indicators that make up red…

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Green, Yellow, & Red Flags During Introductions

Green, Yellow, & Red Flags During Introductions

Green, Yellow, & Red Flags During Introductions You most likely heard about how to spot red flags in relationships, generally romantic ones. Of course, we got the message to avoid the red flags. But how do you spot the green flags? Let alone the yellow flags? Are there yellow flags? Great questions. I am glad I asked. 😉 This article consists of my general take of the indicators that make up red…

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New video is out and I just uploaded it today on my YouTube channel. Woop woop! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🧚🏾‍♀️ Title: GREEN, YELLOW, AND RED FLAGS IN INTRODUCTIONS It's all about how to spot #greenflags 🟢, #yellowflags 🟡and #redflags🚩when you first meet someone. I'm sure we all know about the red flags in relationships. But what about how to spot positive signs of healthy relationships you want? Or even what an "if-y" indicator looks like let alone what to do about it? 🚥 I go over all of that and how you can create your own flags list. Since Instagram description boxes is not a fan of links 🙅‍♂️, you're going to have to search for it on Youtube's platform. Luckily I only have 2 videos on the channel (for now 😉 more is definitely coming). Just search for my name "Relate 2 Shan" and/or look for the video's title shown above. In the meantime, keep an eye out for the article under the same name at www.relate2shan.com. I'm working on the blog now where I dive more on into these flags. Could it be that my vlogger perspective 📸 is different from my writing ✍🏾perspective? Check them both out and let me know in the comments below. 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾 P.S. Thank you all for sticking around to see what's coming. I really appreciate all the comments and feedback. This is encouraging me to be more consistent with my content. So please keep the feedback coming. 😁 (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWcHayRJ2Nk/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Mindsets To Ae A Sociable Awkward Adult

Mindsets To Ae A Sociable Awkward Adult

Hey Hey, people! This post is for all my awkward adults out there that want to get back out in the scene. Even though the pandemic is still doing its thing (cue sad face), the time has come for even the natural introverts and perpetual nervous folks need human contact. The problem is that some of us forgot some critical social skills. Well, here I come to the rescue with some key mindsets to get…

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How to rekindle creative content...add a completely new medium so there is more work to do. Introducing YouTube. Yup, I'm a YouTuber now 😄🎆 Check out the first video here: https://youtu.be/LGKu_38wF3M I'm proud that I finally got over my fear to put out this video, or any video for that matter, so I can create more opportunities to share the little nuggets of information I have about social and mental wellness. The first step is always the hardest so expect to see more from me. Speaking of which, I'm going back to writing again. Woot woot! I'll let you know when I add another blog and YouTube channel. Until then, it's great to be back! www.relate2shan.com (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CVWOhn7vRmP/?utm_medium=tumblr

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I saw so many beautiful pictures and support so I wanted in #womensupportwomen and #challengeaccepted. And a nugget of truth for the day: No matter how scary it is, sometimes you have put yourself out there before you can support someone else. And if you time it right, you can do both all at once. Now to keep this thing going...I hope to see some more beautiful faces from. @keke_mae and @loreaannn. Let's keep supporting and looking out for each other. :) (at Inglewood, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDPb9RTFteF/?igshid=63lqpfipyyef

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Finding your path can be a harrowing experience when it is not clear and there are too many trees to see the Forrest. Stay focused on putting one foot in front of the other on the pavement until the path reveals itself. #blackgirlblogger #blackmentalhealth #resilience (at CITY OF CHAMPIONS.INGLEWOOD CA 90301) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDPQbUXlDrz/?igshid=i327bq1vg0j7

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Finding peace, serenity and joy being in nature. Yes, my backyard counts. Perfect scenery to work on my next piece where I dive into how fear sabotages us and how we can use Fear to our advantage. I’ll keep everyone posted. (at South Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCY8HPXFzM_/?igshid=1ktqz6nytzn1p

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Happy Juneteenth everybody!!! I hope you all enjoyed your Friday. Music is park walk by Leavv. #TGIF #juneteenth #peaceandrespect (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CBpQMFAFSoe/?igshid=5dm5uegtb1v2

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Anxiety: The Battle for the Mind

Anxiety: The Battle for the Mind

Welcome back. Before I get to the meat of this post, there are some things that I want to address right off the bat. While writing this post, we are in the middle of nationwide protests after George Floyd’s murder by a police officer. A response to the frustration of the U.S.’s institutional system that takes black lives. On top of that, we are still in the grips of COVID-19 that is sure…

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I know there are protests for generally black people who have been slain today. Mainly black men. And this is important. But its not just black men who are being slain. I feel compeled to #sayhername because I know she can be me at anytime. I don't take this for granted. And none of us should. #breonnataylor #atatianajefferson #pamelaturner #ambercarr #korryngaines #aiyanastanleyjones (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CA1nClmF---/?igshid=y9uv4p1b8m0q

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Worry vs. Stress And How To Deal

Worry vs. Stress And How To Deal

Currently, the whole world is in month three of a COVID-19 (aka La Rona) pandemic and the quarantine life is not letting up anytime soon. This ‘new normal’ increased people’s antsiness levels by a few notches. No matter what your station in life is, chances are this pandemic gave you more than a few concerns about your employment, your health, your loved ones, your sanity. I certainly do.

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Tip to keep yourself from going cooky from being inside and bored all day. Have goals for the day and creat a time blocking system like this one. To be honest, o might use this schedule for myself. Stay safe out there. (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9vR3Mlltju/?igshid=1vpwjpc1ogfqv

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Breakfast in the morning and a fireplace session with matcha hazelnut latte and cupcake. And what makes this great is speaking with my family and friends across the country. May I say this is a lovely birthday. (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9p7kvEl8F3/?igshid=kibst59l07ad