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That is just so beautiful 💕

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😍

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Using up some of my boring nappies :)

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Expected nothing less from her night time diaper 😏😋 @mrswolverinezz

[windelmaedchen17-deactivated201]

Guten Morgen 🥰

[windelmaedchen17-deactivated201]

Schade, dass ich mich immer selbst wickeln muss…

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Came to work with me today 😏😋🤤

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Pretty sure I too this while she was sleeping 😏😋 I normally stay up when I’m at hers and play Xbox with my leg pressed against her bum so when she wets in her sleep I can feel it and watch if I’m quick to see @mrswolverinezz

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@mrswolverinezz

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@mrswolverinezz

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Changing someone who is older requires a lot of sensitivity. They may be indignant, or in denial, that they need a diaper change. Or they may simply be embarrassed at having someone else remind them what they’re wearing. 

When @bbabybbear​ is in diapers for the day (we call it a “break day”), I try to be sensitive when we’re in public, or around her friends. Things like diaper checks in public are simply not appropriate for older girls like her. They can be very unproductive and humiliating, or cause a lot of resistance to being changed. Unfortunately, the simple fact is that she needs to be reminded about her diapers, because she doesn’t always know when she needs to be changed. She often doesn’t tell me when she’s wet, or flat-out denies that she’s had an accident. Then, when I check her, I’ll find out that she is soaking wet and could have leaked. This, no doubt, leads to a less-than-civil diaper change, with lots of squirms and protests.

That’s why I try to use more age-appropriate language with her. If we’re in public, and it’s been a while since I last checked her, I’ll ask her something like, “Hey, do you wanna come with me for a second?” I’ll then take her hand and guide us to a more private setting. I’ve found that this is much less potentially embarrassing for her, and leads to fewer hysterics. If she then tells me that she needs a change, I don’t need to check her diaper in public at all, and we can just head straight to the family restroom or bedroom.

One more thing: When @bbabybbear​ is in her daytime diapers, I try to avoid language like “Did you have an accident?”. This kind of language is childish, and it may make her feel upset that she’s getting treated like a baby. Plus, it makes her feel like she should be ashamed for having an accident, or still being in diapers. She doesn’t have the greatest track record of staying dry on “break days,” and I don’t want her to feel ashamed about that. It’s better to just be positive with her–– *especially* during a diaper change.

[bbabybbear]

Some New Years humiliation 😳

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An update on keeping @bbabybbear in diapers during our vacation. It took a day or two for her to realize that she would be wearing diapers for the whole week. She did protest a little, but at that point we had had a lot of soaked nights, and a couple of big accidents during the day. I reassured her that she could ask to take her diaper off if she wanted to use the bathroom during the day. But I also told her that it was okay to just use her diapers, and that I wouldn’t be disappointed if she didn’t make it. I figured it was for the best not to make a big deal out of the change.

Sure enough, it turned out to be a good decision. She had an acccident not long afterwards, while taking a nap during the day. This picture is from a few hours later, when I decided it was time to change her.

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Dips and jeans 😍

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First pictures of 2019

[resonantyes]

Happy New Year 🎊 to the remaining Tumblr holdouts, from both of us!! This was rnt’s “going out” dip for the bars tonight…. it works cause it’s classy. 🍾

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@mrswolverinezz