THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON I’VE LEARNED IN MY LIFE :
1. The pursuit of happiness is about finding meaning
Happiness comes out most easily when we love what we are doing, know what we are doing and believe in what we are doing.
Happiness is not just about being happy, it is enjoying and living life to the fullest.
Happy times pass, because time passes. All we have to do is treasure every moment and do whatever we want to do in life. But, we must also be aware of our limitations in life.
Time is gold, seek for happiness.
2. You can’t force friendship
People who came into our lives has their own reason and purpose, to give us lesson.
There are two types of friends in life:
One is, the kind that when you go away for a long time and come back, yet nothing’s changed.
Two is, the kind that when you go away for a long time and come back, yet everything has changed.
We can’t force somebody to accept us, instead we need to find somebody who is willing to accept us in every flaws that we have.
Having a friend who loves and accept us through thick and thin, is a kind of friend that we must keep and treasure forever.
3. The sum of the little things matters much more than a big thing
Each individual has their own plans, goal and dreams in life. We dream big because we don’t yet realize, we’re too young to realize.
Those “one big things” that we say, those are actually comprised of thousands of daily small things that must be unseen and silently maintained over a long period of time with little fanfare.
4. Your parents are human too
Every child has acknowledgement, acceptance and perhaps, forgiveness of one’s parent’s flaws.
If they scold you, let them. It’s their right and obligation as a parents. They just want what’s best for us.
We even don’t have any idea what our parents had gone through their lives just to make us happy.
Everyday as we live and breath, is another opportunity that our loving father gave us. We should be grateful in every little things that we have, in every blessings that we received, in every chances that we didn’t take.
We still have a chance, a chance to live and be happy.
6. Having enough is enough
Being luxurious and materialistic is normal in our generation. But did we ever asked ourselves, “Do I need that thing in my life?”
It rarely depends on how much we’ve got. More is rarely better. Too much of anything can eventually become toxic.
7. The more you give, the more you receive
Some people give, because they eventually want something in return.
When we give, we must free ourselves first on that expectation. We give because that’s what our heart wants. We give because we want to. We give because it makes us happy. Because in the long run, we will receive something that we didn’t expect we will receive.
Everyone of us tried so hard to avoid failure, but at least failure is the real evidence that we tried.
Failure is all about lesson and experience.Because experiencing failure in life pushes us more to strive hard in what we want to become.
Everyone of us has our own flaws, problems, etc.
In short, no one is perfect.
Being real is all that matters, we should show other people what and who we really are. We should not force ourselves trying to be somebody we’re not.
10. You aren’t always right
We think that we have all the answers. Know what is right and wrong, good and bad, best for ourselves and other people. But, we aren’t always right.
There is always more than one version. There are many perspectives that are much valid. We must keep ourselves open to the truth.
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