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[andallshallbewell]

[feminismandmedia]

[shed-n-shine]

[feminismandmedia]

[dfsdfdfdfdf-deactivated20210711]

That type of question is so harmful.

[b-a-b-y-d-o-l-l-y]

Imagine

Being in a relationship

Not being told the details of anything even when you ask

Having boundless things kept from you

Them being allowed to do whatever they please( come home hours late from work because they were drinking with people they won’t tell you the names of, go wherever and do whatever, mislead you about the events of their day, or lie about the time they start and finish work)

Having them be mad/ yell/ insult you if you ask in a conversational matter out of interest

Being told you should trust them and you’re crazy if you question it

Because"they’re a private person"

But

If you invite someone to the house while they’re not there it’s cheating and you’re not to be trusted

If you go out with mutual friends your actions can’t be trusted and the friends can’t be trusted

They tell you you’re probably cheating on him

They say that they can’t trust you because you’ve broken it(by having friends)

And you haven’t betrayed them in any way, have been completely faithful and have nothing to hide

[justlivinglife610]

[thetalkingeye]

Trust the abuser to accuse you of being everything you are not, but everything they are.

Me

[bipolarbearxlb]

[dk-thrive]

“What I want from the river is what I always want: / to be held by a stronger thing that, in the end, chooses mercy.”

— Oliver Baez Bendorf, “Advantages of Being Evergreen” (Cleveland State University Poetry Center, 2019) (via Last Tambourine)

[aspiritualwarrior]

“You must forgive those who hurt you, even if whatever they did to you is unforgivable in your mind. You will forgive them not because they deserve to be forgiven, but because you don’t want to suffer and hurt yourself every time you remember what they did to you. It doesn’t matter what others did to you, you are going to forgive them because you don’t want to feel sick all the time. Forgiveness is for your own mental healing. You will forgive because you feel compassion for yourself. Forgiveness is an act of self-love.”

— don Miguel Ruiz

[conscious-love]

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[you-are-another-me]

[shed-n-shine]

[feminism135]

[temporalprisons]

“Sometimes to get your life back, you have to face the death of what you thought your life would look like.”

— Lysa Terkeurst

[elvensapphire1237]

“Big things are built one brick at a time. Victories are achieved one choice at a time. A life well-lived is chosen one day at a time.”

— Lysa TerKeurst