as work in progress as my pfp

21, she/her kinda a mess but a mess that's getting better slowly

[rhoselacksthorns]

Hi guess what I'm making a pinned, not for any info about me or anything, but for a warning that is apparently needed:

I do not care how long I have known you, I would not care if you were my childhood friend, if you reblog or otherwise support MRA shit, you are getting blocked.

If you bring any of that "misandry" or "androphobia" anti feminist crap, and yes that includes "transmisandry" too, sticking trans on the front doesn't suddenly make misandry real, no matter how meanies a big scary feminist was to a man.

If you talk about how insults like "birthday boy" are apparently slurs against minority groups, despite the fact it literally doesn't target any group other than "dickheads who backpedal on their bullshit by acting all vulnerable and harmless immediately after directly fucking attacking people", you are getting blocked.

You rock up with "afab transfem" shit you get blocked.

You pull out the "saying transmisogyny targets transfems is intersexist/androphobic/whatever other bullshit" you are getting blocked.

I'm fucking done with just putting up with misogynistic assholes and their misogynistic bullshit.

[firem4ge]

The way some of you talk it makes it so clear that you think trans women are men and trans men are women.

I’m sure this is real oppression of “anyone born with a vagina” and not just you getting mad at a trans woman for calling you out on misogyny so you need to bring up sex based oppression.

Trans women love using their agab to give them power over cis women. Obviously leveraging their agab will give them higher social standing, because trans women are treated so much better than cis women.

Stop pushing sex based oppression like it's a real thing, it's not. Trans women are fundamentally women and are treated as such.

[fus-mar-hoz]

if I hear the phrase "vote with your dollar" one more time we're building the Stalin canal

[fus-mar-hoz]

[gremlingirlsmell]

so a few weeks ago i reported a very obvious terf. a new account otherwise entirely empty at the time, the most terfy terf to ever terf, having terf in the username, and being openly transphobic, transmisogynistic, and saying slurs: (there's more to the post but you get the gist)

and this was the response from tumblr support:

someone At Tumblr @support looked at this, presumably read it in full, and decided that it's fine but maybe they should put a content label ??? content warning for bigotry ???

There Is Someone (Or Multiple People) In Tumblr Support Right Now Who Openly Endorses Transphobia And Transmisogyny But Will Terminate Transfems' Blogs For Literally No Reason Given. At This Point It Might Even Be Unofficial Site Policy To Allow Twerfs But Nuke Transfems' Blogs

[tamamoland-with-a-gun]

they said the same thing to me when I reported a terf community with terf in the name consisting of nothing but posts mocking and dehumanizing trans women and they said the same thing to me when I reported multiple people making explicit death threats towards my friend

any report against a transfem or harassment target gets clear priority, facing much harsher and swifter punishment for much less, if they've even done anything at all, while the people stalking and harassing take weeks to face little to no punishment and get to appeal it all away regardless

[tamamoland-of-the-deep-abyss]

twice since posting this

[storyweavingspider]

*opens up your small sack, rummages around and takes out several unidentifiable objects, then closes it back up*

[storyweavingspider]

Perfectly normal sized sack

[naidje]

[tboy-trash]

the baseless confidence twerfs have in explaining "female biology" with absolutely zero knowledge to back it up is astounding, but it's even more mind-boggling when they start lecturing trans women about pain experiences (like period pains etc). they're always wrong, but on this one they're so wrong it's qualitatively different. they need to invent a new word for "you are talking out of your arse and i don't know what you're eating but you must have some kind of food allergy" that applies specifically to how wrong they are on that.

[127leilas]

true

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

they should have sex with one another

[kayla-denker]

I wish everyone would stop seeing men/masculine as the default

[kayla-denker]

Y'all think "dude", "bro", "guy", and even "man", are gender neutral because you view man/masculine as the default human.

[hikes-and-moans]

UNPOPULAR OPINION: A lot of "mental health issues" disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.

[soapkid]

queer people will like all but formally exile trans women from real spaces into online ones and then belittle their problems for being "too online"

[tpwrtrmnky]

"Your body knows whether it has this organ or not" okay so

what is the function of hormones in the body

what does the body "think" if you introduce the hormone that's produced by a specific organ in amounts that would indicate that you have the organ

[tpwrtrmnky]

See, I believe that the body's signalling mechanisms actually do something, rather than being fun little molecules that are unimportant in comparison to your cells' ability to read your spiritual alignment or whatever.

[imsobadatnicknames2]

Of course no heuristic is universally true, but I think if you're an american who considers themselves "progressive" this is a rule of thumb you should probably be considering more often: If the conversation you're currently participating in is only able to happen because someone is going out of their way to speak *your* language, that's probably not the person who's most in need of informing themselves about the other's country in this conversation.

[0w0tsuki]

The fucking "no disrespect" tag when you're last sentence is "you girls have given like 3 definitions and can't decide which one it is right?" Like fucking come on "You stupid women bicker amongst yourselves and can't pick a definition so I can just decide for myself what it is right? No disrespect"

[tamamoland-of-the-deep-abyss]

by the way something to keep in mind is that regardless of whether that transfem who got terminated did or did not break any rules, tumblr still passed over multiple nazis, sexual harassers, people making death threats, and so on that they have been ignoring reports on for months to prioritize terminating the transfem instead. they will pass over clear violations that have been reported for weeks and months to punish any random transfem on this site who didn't even have an account when those reports were made.

why is that? if it was just a matter of report inundation, of them being swamped and not getting around to it, then why are reports against transfems seemingly immune to those delays?

it's intentional and targeted

[what-even-is-thiss]

Fresno county just declared June to be “traditional nuclear family month” in a move that I’m sure isn’t targeted at all

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

doomscrolling tiktok together and I turn to you and ask, "why doesn't your algorithm recommend any videos with Black people?"

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

doomscrolling tumblr and I turn to you and ask, "why don't you reblog anti-racism when it makes you feel uncomfortable?"

[experiment41]

are bots making communities now??? some of the ones i get recommended feel like it

[experiment41]

like the admin of this one is deactivated and at least 95% of the members are bots

[lohboh]

can you imagine you wake up one day in a dark room chained to a radiator with your phone at 1% and you unlock it and find that you've been added to this community

[shin-zaibatsu]

The first thing you do in that situation is open Tumblr?

[lohboh]

Where the hell else would I post about being chained to a radiator, fucking Bluesky?