Imagine you wake up to a hard push which you at first cant comprehend where itās coming from. You donāt have time to think because that push is immediately followed by you falling. Instinctively you try to grab something to stop you from falling, but as youāve just woken up and your mind is in panic mode you canāt really grab hold of anything. With a loud thud you land on the floor. Sure, the fall was just from your bed, thatās no height to usually inflict any severe damages. But still your body hurts, not only from the fall, but you also still feel those hands on you that pushed you in the first place. Confused and with a rapidly beating heart you look over the bed and see your partner walking out the room. A partner you know for a little more than a week. Someone you donāt have romantic feelings for, but felt like youāre building a friendship with. What would you think of them?
Had this happened to me, I would be scared of this person, to sleep next to them again.. friendship? Romantic feelings? I think Iād pass, because Iām not into people who get physically violent when theyāre frustrated.
Iām looking at you lottie. She didnāt even explain or apologise to her partner. She snapped because of them talking about her hair colour in their sleep.. what exactly is wrong with her??