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I've forgotten how submissive wearing nipple clamps makes me feel.

There is a lot of anal in my feed lately.... I think its a sign

The correct answer is always : cum inside ✨

New research reveals that there are only two types of men who send unsolicited pictures of their genitalia to women: those that are narcissi

Well in the LEAST surprising science story I've read recently, men who send unsolicited dick pics are almost always narcissistic asses. That's a shocker.

shhdaddyishere

Submissives may have thicker skins, but they have weaker hearts.

Fuck them roughly, but love them tenderly.

my-innermost-musings

Reblog if spanking your girl makes you hard or if getting spanked by your man makes you wet.

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I’ve seen a lot of curious people wanting to dive into classical music but don’t know where to start, so I have written out a list of pieces to listen to depending on mood. I’ve only put out a few, but please add more if you want to. hope this helps y’all out. :)

stereotypical delightful classical music:

battalia a 10 in d major (biber)

brandenburg concerto no. 5

brandenburg concerto no. 3

symphony no. 45 - “farewell” (haydn)

if you need to chill:

rondo alla turca

fur elise

anitra’s dance

in the steppes of central asia (borodin) (added by viola-ology)

if you need to sleep:

moonlight sonata

swan lake

corral nocturne

sleep (eric whitacre) (added by thelonecomposer)

if you need to wake up:

morning mood

summer (from the four seasons)

buckaroo holiday (if you’ve played this in orch you might end up screaming instead of waking up joyfully)

if you are feeling very proud:

pomp and circumstance

symphony no. 9 (beethoven; this is where ode to joy came from)

1812 overture

symphony no. 5, finale (tchaikovsky) (added by viola-ology)

american (dvořák)

if you feel really excited:

hoedown (copland)

bacchanale

spring (from the four seasons) (be careful, if you listen to this too much you’ll start hating it)

la gazza ladra

death and the maiden (schubert)

if you are angry and you want to take a baseball bat and start hitting a bush:

dance of the knights (from the romeo and juliet suite by prokofiev)

winter, mvt. 1 (from the four seasons)

symphony no. 10 mvt. 2 (shostakovich)

symphony no. 5 (beethoven)

totentanz (liszt)

quartet no. 8, mvt. 2 (shostakovich) (added by viola-ology)

young person’s guide to the orchestra, fugue (britten) (added by iwillsavemyworld)

symphony no. 5 mvt. 4 (shostakovich) (added by eternal-cadenza)

marche slave (tchaikovsky) (added by eternal-cadenza)

if you want to cry for a really long time:

fantasia based on russian themes (rimsky-korsakov)

adagio for strings (barber)

violin concerto in e minor (mendelssohn)

aase’s death

andante festivo

vocalise (rachmaninoff) (added by tropicalmunchakoopas)

if you want to feel like you’re on an adventure:

an american in paris (gershwin)

if you want chills:

danse macabre

russian easter overture

egmont overture (added by shayshay526)

if you want to study:

eine kleine nachtmusik

bolero (ravel)

serenade for strings (elgar)

scheherazade (rimsky-korsakov) (added by viola-ology)

pines of rome, mvt. 4 (resphigi) (added by viola-ology)

if you really want to dance:

capriccio espagnol (rimsky-korsakov)

blue danube

le cid (massenet) (added by viola-ology)

radetzky march

if you want to start bouncing in your chair:

hopak (mussorgsky)

les toreadors (from carmen suite no.1)

if you’re about to pass out and you need energy:

hungarian dance no. 1

hungarian dance no. 5

if you want to hear suspense within music:

firebird

in the hall of the mountain king

ride of the valkyries

night on bald mountain (mussorgsky) (added by viola-ology)

if you want a jazzy/classical feel:

rhapsody in blue

jazz suite no. 2 (shostakovich) (added by eternal-cadenza)

if you want to feel emotional with no explanation:

introduction and rondo capriccioso

unfinished symphony (schubert)

symphony no. 7, allegretto (beethoven) (added by viola-ology)

canon in d (pachelbel)

if you want to sit back and have a nice cup of tea:

st. paul’s suite

concerto for two violins (vivaldi)

l’arlésienne suite

concierto de aranjuez (added by tropicalmunchakoopas)

pieces that don’t really have a valid explanation:

symphony no. 40 (mozart)

cello suite no. 1 (bach)

polovtsian dances

enigma variations (elgar) (added by viola-ology)

perpetuum mobile

moto perpetuo (paganini)

pieces that just sound really cool:

scherzo tarantelle

dance of the goblins

caprice no. 24 (paganini)

new world symphony, allegro con fuoco (dvorak) (added by viola-ology)

le tombeau de couperin (added by tropicalmunchakoopas)

carnival of the animals (added by shadowraven45662)

if you feel like listening to concertos all day (I do not recommend doing that):

concerto for two violins (bach)

concerto for two violins (vivaldi)

violin concerto in a minor (vivaldi)

violin concerto (tchaikovsky) (added by iwillsavemyworld)

violin concerto in d minor (sibelius) (added by eternal-cadenza)

cello concerto in c (haydn)

piano concerto, mvt. 1 (pierne) (added by iwillsavemyworld)

harp concerto in E-flat major, mvt. 1 (added by iwillsavemyworld)

and if you really just hate classical music in general:

4′33″ (cage)

a lot of these pieces apply in multiple categories, but I sorted them by which I think they match the most. have fun exploring classical music!

also, thank you to viola-ology, iwillsavemyworld, shayshay526, eternal-cadenza, tropicalmunchakoopas, shadowraven45662, and thelonecomposer for adding on! if you would like to add on your own suggestions, please reblog and add on or message me so I can give you credit for the suggestion!

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Somehow I’ve never seen this list and it’s amazing. It’s separated into listening moods. Classical music is a lot more enjoyable than some think. I know I now have a lot to add to my play list.

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I really miss just laying next to someone. Having them play with my hair, rub my back and nothing more. That’s what I miss about connection.

the-man-called-joseph-deactivat

Human touch is so powerful. We don't realize it till we don't feel it for a while.

Example I got a hug from one of my employees for my birthday, she hugged me and rubbed my back. It felt so amazing, not arousing just amazing.

We all need to be touched from time to time.

clumsykami

How to: Aftercare your Sub

Ideas and Tips

These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.

Try taking these into consideration before anything else:

Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?

Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them

Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?

Respect if your sub needs some space, doesn’t feel like talking, or just wants to sleep

After Care Ideas

• Holding/ Cuddling your sub

• Praising them: ex. ‘You were such a good girl’, ‘You did so well’

• Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.

• Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises

• Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises

• Running them a warm bubble bath

• Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket

• Massaging them

(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)

• Watching their favorite movies, shows

• Listening to their favorite music*

*preferably soft, calm music

• Giving them a treat they enjoy

• Carrying them where ever they might need to go

The Importance of Aftercare

Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.

Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.

It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.

This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.

DO NOT:

Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.

Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to

Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.

Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,

especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.

thejuicypage

Worship her body. Love her unconditionally. Treat her like a Goddess.

dioraura-deactivated20200527

calm men are my favorite. i find soothing, gentle, calm auras so attractive. i love a man who’s good at comforting you, who doesn’t yell or slam things when they’re upset, when talking to him eases your anxiety and you just feel calm and safe. be with a calm man.

zarko-zarko

stormy--daze

Insert Coins to Continue

Let’s get this out of the way: I stand with female dominants, including professional dominants. I support sex workers, and will not tolerate any shaming.

I can sympathize with them as well, having played almost exclusively on that side for a period of my life. They don’t deserve how I’ve seen them come under attack lately, as “not part of the lifestyle,” usually from the same folks who say “every time I talk to a mistress, they want me to pay to play.” I do feel bad for the decent, respectful guys this misunderstanding sometimes happens to. But for the FetLife fuck boys, here’s the deal:

“It was great seeing you at the munch! I would like to get to know you better and discuss a bondage scene, if you’re open to it. What references can I provide to make you feel more secure, and if you’re interested, what locations would you feel most comfortable meeting for a date?”

“omg please boss me around all day while i clean UR apartment and then tie me up and sit on my face thats like my biggest fantasy plz GODDESS ill wear a french maid costume for YOU and everything sissify me plzzz”

Now, which more closely resembles the message you sent to your local female d-type? I would be thrilled to receive the level of thoughtful consideration displayed in the first, from anyone on any side of the slash, but that simply isn’t the reality of being a woman in kink. Grammar and spelling aside, there’s still so much wrong with the second message.

“It’s just text-speak, you picky bitch.”

It’s minimum effort from someone trying to impress me, and I’m not impressed. Between my home, career, and kink life, the demand for my attention is substantial. I wasn’t standing in front of anyone, waiting for a response. With the absence of anticipation and pressure, work could’ve been put into this message that obviously wasn’t. I both expect and deserve better.

“But in the second example, the poor sub guy is just offering his services. There isn’t anything wrong with that.”

It isn’t service if the dominant doesn’t want it. Messages like this are nothing more than projecting your fantasies onto some poor woman on the internet. Do you know how long it would take to train someone to provide me the services I need handled daily to the standard I expect? In my home? Around my precious baby pit bulls? Teaching someone to serve me and meet my needs is work, and not energy I’m spending on just anyone.

“Pro dommes are not part of the community and shouldn’t be on Fet.”

Until I see people as upset about erotica authors within the community as I do professional dominants, I don’t think I can believe the discrimination is about anything aside from stigma around sex work and internalized misogyny. There is well-deserved space for professionals in this community, as folks who provide services to those in or curious about the lifestyle in a safe environment. They have skills that apply to our community, and thankfully are often willing to share them. Nobody is forcing you to interact with them.

“Most of the time I approach a female dominant, they expect me to pay to play.”

If you approach women like a fantasy vending machine, expect to insert coins. Kink doesn’t exist in a social vacuum, and we exist in a culture that’s made a habit of objectifying women. But if you keep commodifying sex and women’s sexuality, you’re going to have to pay the price, like every other product and service available.

It helps me a little more if you give my writing some love on FetLife, if you don’t mind. <3 https://fetlife.com/users/4415859/posts/6569191

tn-redhead

Virgo ♍

sassynybrat

You know I did my research before I opened my mouth 😜♊️

oklahomagreywolf

SCORPIO.....

journeythroughthesunflowers-dea

Libra, I avoid arguments at all costs.

the-man-called-joseph-deactivat

SCORPIO 🦂

I wouldn't waste my time if I was wrong. Lol

rion1504

Aquarius and i (mostly) know better then to argue.

I AM SO DONE WITH FUCKBOIS AND GIRLS WHO LIKE TO START DRAMA! SERIOUSLY YA'LL CAN FUCK RIGHT OFF

If you can't treat me or any of the other human beings on this planet with the same amount of respect you'd give your parents or grandparents then DO NOT message me or call me. I get it.... you think you are all hot shit and the best (insert title here) in the world and need to let me know but take a second to think and read my profile and or descriptive blurb you'll save yourself and me a lot of time and energy by engaging in an intelliegent conversation as opposed to low hanging fruit (lemme see yer tits/i secretly wanna fuck someone you know and therefore need to include you bc they won't play or engage without you) BS.

Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk

#fedup #fuckbois #uselessdramaqueens

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