A while ago my boyfriend told me that the idea of impregnation risk sex really turns him on. He claims that girls have much stronger orgasms when there is an impregnation risk. I started reading about it and I do find the idea very exciting, but at the same time a little scary.... As I'm not on the pill, we use condoms. What shall I do? Do you have experiences in having risky sex? Should we really try the risk? And what is the best way to increase the risk bit by bit? xoxo
I do have experience with risky sex having used the pull out method as my primary method of birth control for years with many different women. Even after I got one woman pregnant, married her, had a child and lived together for years before divorcing, I continued to use the pull out method with later lovers. It is always a thrill playing the game and it becomes addictive. Some suggestions as to how you could begin playing while continually ramping up the risk are (in no particular order): During a "safe" time of your cycle, begin having sex without a condom with you on top, in control, and when you feel like he is getting close to cumming, hop off and let him cool off a bit before climbing back on to get him close again. Repeat this move as many times as you feel comfortable with before either hopping off one last time at the last second and finishing him off with your hand/mouth/tits, or by having him slip on a condom before letting him finally finishing inside you. To add risk to this scenario, let him be the one on top of you and in charge of pulling out. To add risk to that, when you feel him getting close to pulling out, hook your feet behind his ass pretending to try to keep him from pulling out. To up the risk, talk dirty to him about how much you would love for him to dump his load into you regardless of the risk. Other scenarios would be for you to lie to him about what point in your cycle you are, telling him that now is the worst time for you two to be fucking bare while you are really in the middle of the "safest" point of your cycle. You could look into getting and using barrier methods of birth control, like a diaphragm, sponge (if those are even a thing anymore), spermicidal foams, etc. but don't let him know you are using any kind of birth control, leading him to believe you are solely relying on him to pull out in time. Use your imagination and keep him primed and on a hair trigger as much as possible with your erotic talk and fantasies. Practice your naughty talk during your really unsafe cycle times while giving him handjobs, blowjobs, tit fucking, etc. to see how quickly and powerfully you can make him lose control of his ejaculation. Maybe graduate to letting him slide his well lubed cock up and down your slick, ripe, receptive pussy while hanging onto his neck and back with your arms, keeping your mouth next to his ear telling him how much you would love for him to finish inside you. Have him cum on your body, then next time come between your bellybutton and pussy, then next time just above your clit, then on your closed pussy lips, then when you feel really adventurous, on your pussy while you keep your legs spread wide open. For an extra thrill for you both, hold your pussy open with your hands while he aims his pulses of sperm right at your open depths. All the while keeping up a steady stream of dirty words and mental pictures guaranteed to bring you both to the edge of erotic madness. I could go on, but I think you probably have started to see how you can begin plotting a journey through this risky mine field, and I would like to hear from others out there with similar fantasies and desires and how they have played this game to orgasmic success. C'mon folks, time to chime in with your own experiences and ideas... let's help each other get off! As for you, Anon, I would love to hear how you are able to use our advice and guidance to reach higher and higher levels of ecstasy... keep us posted on your pregnancy risk hijinks and shenanigans!
