Here’s the truth. Being honest doesn’t keep anyone. Being loyal doesn’t keep anyone. Treating them well doesn’t keep anyone. Caring doesn’t keep anyone. Making efforts doesn’t keep anyone. Paying attention to big and little things doesn’t keep anyone. Spending time with them doesn’t keep anyone. Dishing out money doesn’t keep anyone. Being attractive doesn’t keep anyone. You can have the best interest and the most sincere feelings. You can be the most amazing person and you wouldn’t keep someone because the only way to be kept by someone is if they want to keep you. You cant beg anyone to stay with you. You can’t love someone into loving you. With people, you can tell they want to keep you when the relationship gets hard, they do everything they can to fight for you. People fight for what they want and want to keep. They’ll spend endless time to maintain what they invested in. So if they aren’t fighting when things get hard, they no longer want to keep you. The moral of this? Don’t hold on to people who don’t want to keep you and have you in their lives. It absolutley sucks to know all you invested in, time, effort, care, emotions, feelings, turns out to be meaningless to them. To realise you were just temporary. To realise you don’t get that in return. So why do more? At some point you got to get the clue. At some point you’ll have to figure out, is your loyalty just stupidity. Nothing you do entitles you to anything. You hope they reciprocate. But if they don’t? Why continue to waste all your efforts into things that go no where. You can’t live off of hope forever, a real reality check will make you honest with yourself. It’s cross roads you need to come across. No, you’re not giving up on people, it’s them who gave up on you and you understand reality. No more giving the benefit of the doubt or hoping it will change eventually. It’s you not wasting your time and efforts
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