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will try to make an intro/pinned post later

for now just setting the theme 🫡

if you are a rolfe double, either do not tell me or dni

Dook version of my beach bear drawing (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧

Here they are next to each other :

i love when i get really dysphoric in relation to my kintype. yay. i love having phantom shifts but knowing its not real and never will be and if i look down or in the mirror or even at my hands the illusion that i look right will be shattered and i will be left feeling worse than before. yay.

#rolfe dewolfe #fictionkin

selfshipsloppp

Your f/o getting you little gifts of your favorite things whether it be your favorite bug or animal. They would also get you a little keychain of them so you could be reminded of them wherever you went!

loving-your-fo-imagines

for selfshippers who are uncomfortable with kisses (as well as romantic* selfship imagines writers), here are some alternatives to kissing you can consider:

nose nuzzling

gently pressing your cheek against your f/o's

blowing a kiss at them

saying "mwah!"

lovingly looking at your f/o and smiling at them

if you've thought of another alternative, feel free to share them on this post and i'll add it to the list!

poltercat

i think the reason why selfshipping can be so difficult for others is the mere fact that they think they don't deserve it. or don't deserve their f/o to love them unconditionally, or be there for them, or offer support and guidance, or be their crutch.

selfshipping is hard for those who are always the giver and never the receiver. you feel uncomfortable about selfshipping or thinking about scenarios with your f/o. or how you have no idea what to add to your selfship, what lore to even do, because you don't think you should do something like this for yourself.

but you do deserve this. you deserve to feel loved and cared for by your f/os, you deserve to create the most silliest of scenarios, you deserve to be so canon-divergent and self indulgent with your selfships. you deserve to love yourself, you deserve to receive love and care, you deserve to receive these things even if it may feel uncomfortable to.

you deserve to do things for yourself. it may take time for you to be fully yourself while doing so, but you got this! i believe in you. i believe we can overcome this together. <3

hiya-im-mary

Hey!!!!!your f/o still loves you even if you aren’t able to get merch of them!! They still love you even if you can’t draw them or write for them or anything like that. They are still your f/o and they still love you even if the only proof of it is in your imagination!

Self shipping is not a contest to see who’s more dedicated to a fictional character!!!!! Your love is just as real as anyone else’s and all the love in the workd is real as can be!!!!!!!!