dada rowan's corner

hello there kiddo :)

[rowanscgblog]

Welcome to dada rowan's corner! ⭐🧸[intro post]

Hey there, little one...

is someone feeling a lil bit small today? aww, that’s alright, i got you, sweetheart… why don’t you come in? 🧩

💿|| about me

★Im Rowan, but you can call me dada,papa,big brother, rowie, or any nickname you feel safe with (as long its nothing feminine!)

★Im transmasc/nonbinary and use he/they pronouns

★Im a minor (16)

★timezone: GMT+5:30

here you'll find:

🧃reminders and gentle affirmations

📦moodboards

🧸tips for littles

🖍little games/activities

(requests are always welcome!)

feel free to send asks or dms any time :) this blog’s a safe place for littles to share rants, vents, or whatever’s on their heart. you're always safe here, kiddo.🍂

Important Notes!!🛡

• This blog is for SFW age regressors only!! please don't interact if your blog is NSFW. I want to keep this a safe little space for everyone

• I block freely to protect this space, so please respect that

thank you for stopping by, little one... take a deep breath, yeah? you're loved, and it's gonna be okay. now go grab your stuffie and make yourself cozy. dada's got you.

and here's a cookie, because you're doing so great today 🍪

i hope you have a wonderful day, darling... come visit anytime, you're always welcome in my cozy little corner🫂🧸

Anons: 🪽🧿, 🦇,🍼🐍, 🐺, 🐾, 🦁, 🌷, 🌌, 🐙, 🎸⭐, 🎧, 🐑, ⛅, 📼, 🍬🎭, ⚾, ☀🍼, 🦕 , 🖍, 🦕🥪, 🪼, ❤️🎽, 🦖, 🦦, 🐅, 🌠, 🧁🍼, ...

[purgedpuke]

Age regression is always portrayed as this pure super cute, electable comforting thing in social media and I’m sorry but, I’m tired, there’s sometimes it’s not. Sometimes age regressing is extreme feelings, it’s hitting your head and screaming in pain and laying on the floor and kicking and wanting it to stop. Sometimes it’s shaking in anxiety, biting your hands and stimming uncomfortably. Sometimes theres no comfort, sometimes the triggers are not good, and that’s fine too. Age regressing does not mean pure state, it means a much younger one. Just that. It can be violent and ugly too

[lunas-little]

Shoutout to kiddos who don't act that different while small. Who speak with the same vocabulary they usually do and enjoy the same things they do while big. Who only experience the change internally. You matter too <3

[littlestspacecreature]

Homeless regressors are valid

Regressors who need someone else to keep track of/control their medicine are valid

Regressors with insomnia are valid

Regressors who struggles with memories/flashbacks are valid

Poor regressors/regressors in poverty are valid

Substance abusing/active addict regressors are valid

Regressors who are in and out of hospitals/psych wards are valid

Regressors who experience psychosis or "scary" mental illnesses are valid

Regressors with severe mental issues are valid

Regressors who are mentally and physically disabled are valid

Regressors who are plus size or underweight are valid

Regressors who struggle with/ cant function and valid

Regressors who are scared of adult figures are valid

Regressors who find comfort in things other might find gross or disturbing are valid

Regressors who actively struggle with SH and EDs are valid

Regressors who struggle with suicidal thoughts and behaviors are still valid

Regressors who are scared of people are still valid

Regressors who are bed bound are valid

Regressors who have no one to care for them are valid

Regressors who are too scared to ask for help are valid

Regressors who struggle with intrusive thoughts, no matter what they are, are still valid

Regressors who hate their regression are valid

(alll regressors are valid no matter what, despite the fact some might make you uncomfortable, just block them and move along, "negative"/struggling regressors are still valid and allowed in the community)

[rowanscgblog]

Hello darlings,

I just wanted to say Im so so sorry for being quiet lately :(( Ive seen all your asks and I love each of you so much. Right now, I just can't manage replying.. things have been rly heavy for me and I'm feeling really low.. I promise I'll come back and be here for you all as soon as I can, probably after my o levels are finished next month. Until then pls take care of yourselves, okay? Remember you're so loved and you're never alone, even if I can't reply rn.. I miss you all lots. Thank you for understanding and pls be gentle with yourselves while I'm away. Sending you all big warm hugs and so much love <3

PS. Remember to give your stuffie a big warm hug for me <33

[rowanscgblog]

Hii again sweetpeas, I still have lots of asks from early december that I havent replied to yet, and I'm rly rly sorry abt that.. I promise I'll try to answer them as soon as I can.. I've been a bit quiet bc things have been very busy and heavy lately.. but I hope you're all doing okay and being kind to yourselves.. Sending lots of warm hugs and love, and happy late Christmas/happy holidays, little stars <33

[rowanscgblog]

dadaaaa :((

-🌷

Aww hello lil darling, how are you? You wanna tell dasa what's making you all sad like that hm? Hope you're doing okay now sweetheart <3

[rowanscgblog]

hihi Papa. Jus wantd to chek in on u. Wana mak sur ur oki..

Sory s ben so long, missd u very muches.

Jus mak sur ur drinkin an eatin an sleepin lots oki?

Lotsa lotsa hugs an cudles for u papa, mak sur u tak car of urself. Ur mazing papa, don forget dat.

-🎸⭐️

Hello little star,

I’m rly rly sorry this reply is so late… I never meant to disappear. things got rly heavy and busy for me, and I was feeling pretty low for a while.. thank you for always checking on papa, baby. that’s so kind and thoughtful of you.. I rlly hope you know your asks always make me smile and feel a little better :) I've been trying my best to eat, drink water, and rest, even when it's hard. I hope you've been taking care of yourself too, hm? I miss you too, kiddo. you’re such a sweet lil bean… papa's sending you lots of warm hugs right back, okay? <3

[rowanscgblog]

hi mistr rowwn |˶˙ᵕ˙ )ﾉﾞ

2day im havin a flare up :c ive got a migrain n my tummy hurts n m nauseoush :cc

i think i'm gunna gav some medicine and mayb it'll help. also it's super scary when my brain gets foggy n i can't remmebr things :c

i hope urs havin better daay den me. hugsss

Hii little one,

I'm so so sorry for this very late reply.. migraines and tummy aches are the worst, and the foggy brain stuff can be rly scary too. I hope the meds helped a bit and that you were able to rest and take care of yourself.. it’s okay to feel overwhelmed and scared when your body and brain are being tricky… you weren’t doing anything wrong, sweetpea.. sending you lots of warm hugs and hope you have a lovely day/night kiddo <3

[rowanscgblog]

hi mr rowan

i tire

noy can sleep tho

too late

i sleepy crying

don know why

brain is too loud

makin me grump

do you like narwhales?

i have narwhale

his name Mr horn

he purpl

have a redpanda too

he on my feet

dey cold

he name is snoozle

cause he sweepy

wik me

havefox

too

he bu

and tiny

has chain

and fuzzy belly

🦦

Hello sweetheart,

I’m rlly rly sorry I’m replying so late to this, darling.. I hope you’re feeling a bit better now and that you were able to get some rest since then.. that sounded like such a rough night… when your brain is loud and you’re sleepy and crying, it can make everything feel extra heavy and grumpy.. that wasn’t your fault at all.. sometimes feelings just spill out even when we don’t know why hm? and awh yes… narwhals are very cute :)) Mr Horn sounds absolutely precious, Snoozle warming your feet while being sleepy with you is so soft and sweet, and your tiny fox with the fuzzy belly too… it sounds like you had a whole little comfort team with you that night. they did a good job watching over you :) even if this was from a while ago, I want you to know it was okay to feel like that, and it’s okay to need comfort when your brain gets too loud.. you did nothing wrong, little star.. sending you a big warm hug now, just in case you still need one <3

[rowanscgblog]

how do you make moodboards? :0 dey are so cool!!!!!!!

aww thank you so so much, darling!! i usually just make little collages with pics i find on pinterest and put them together like a moodboard. they're super fun to make! so happy you like them :))

[rowanscgblog]

Me want tell parents me regress but me scared so me don’t tell them but me get more scared to tell by not telling and me want them to know so me can get a baby bottle that they by so me no scared to buy one myself

-🧸🎤

hey sweetheart,

I'm rly rly sorry this reply is so late.. I hope you’re doing okay now. I don't know if you’ve been able to tell your parents yet or not, but I want you to know it’s okay to need comfort and help, baby. there’s nothing wrong with being little. being scared makes so much sense. I really hope things went okay for you, or that they will when you’re ready. sending you lots of warm hugs kiddo <3

[bambi-eyed-mama]

⭐️ currently dreaming of ⭐️

🩰 reading a little one a bedtime story and watching them slowly drift off but telling me to keep reading because "m still awake!!"

🍓 making a cute plate full of age-appropriate snacks, cutting up fruit, laying out cookies and crackers

🪻 buying little snacks or toys when i'm at the store and giving them to a little one as a surprise

🐕 sleepy cuddling in a blanket fort

💫 filling up a little one's bottle/sippy or bringing them their stuffies, paci or a snack because they're either too busy playing or too comfy in their bed/crib

🍊 noticing a little one slipping but trying so hard to be all grown up, giving them the space to regress and be their little self - having a little "no, you're too small for that" moment

[rowanscgblog]

Hi hi dadaaa miss uuuu

I no send asks because I didn’t regressed for a long times and but now I am n m fussy cuz I feel sick n yukcy n tired n I just feel fussyyy

🪼

hihi sweetheart,

I’m so sorry this reply is so late.. and awh not regressing for a long time and then suddenly feeling little and sick and tired at the same time can make everything feel extra overwhelming. that fussy feeling makes so much sense, baby. your body was asking for rest and comfort, not because you did anything wrong, but because you needed it..I hope you’re feeling at least a little better now, and if you’re not little anymore that’s okay too. little feelings don’t disappear just because time passes. you’re always welcome to come back, send an ask, or just say hi whenever you need. you don’t have to be regressed all the time to matter, okay? sending you big warm hugs and lots of cuddles darling,hope you have have a great day/night <3

[rowanscgblog]

mister last night i had big meltdown:(( hurt so bad i couldn't stop crying and screaming and i kept hitting myself and pulling my hair:c i have bruises now n my eyes still burn from crying all night:( im sorry for this i just really needed to tell someone m scared:( and i have to go to school today:(( my bio mama doesnt know how to help me and she was getting super mad at me but i couldn't help it:(( i didnts mean to do it promise!!! i feel so icky now mm:(

im sorry if this is too much or bad..

-🐺

oh sweetheart…

first of all I’m so so sorry this reply is so late.. I wish I could’ve been here sooner for you.. what you went through sounds terrifying and overwhelming, and I promise you didn’t do anything wrong. you didn’t mean to hurt yourself, you weren’t being bad, and you weren’t doing it on purpose.. that was a meltdown, and meltdowns happen when feelings get way too big for your body to hold. that is not your fault, baby.. okay? I’m so sorry your body hurt after and that your eyes were burning from crying so much.. that kind of crying is exhausting and scary, and having bruises afterward can make everything feel even worse. but listen to me, little star… you are not icky. you’re not bad. you were scared and didn’t have the support you needed in that moment. and I’m rly sorry your bio mama got mad instead of helping, that must’ve hurt so so bad.. you didn’t deserve anger when you needed comfort.. and thank you for telling me. you don’t need to apologize for needing help or for being "too much" you weren’t too much at all.. you were hurting. and I’m sooo proud of you for surviving that night and for reaching out, even though you were scared, darling..I hope you're feeling better now, sending you lots of big warm hugs and cuddles, sweetheart.. pls be gentle with yourself.. you’re good, you’re loved, and you didn’t do anything wrong <3

[rowanscgblog]

hihiii rownnn! i'm new here, but i jus wanna say hi!!! and!!! yesterday i made a new friend!!!!! his nams theodore n he's a weightd stuffd bear!!! last nite i had no bad dreams for the first time in soso long cuz i had theo!!!!! 🧸🩵 today i used one of my puppies shirts and put it on theo so he has a shirt!! it's my favorite color, green!!!!! okey, bye bye!!

hihi lil one,

im rly rly sorry for very late reply and aww baby, that’s so sweet! i’m so glad you had a good night without bad dreams, and that theo could keep you safe :) putting your puppy’s shirt on him sounds so cute, you’re doing such a awesome job taking care of theo!! sending you and theo lots of big warm hugs, hope you have a lovely day/night kiddo <3

[rowanscgblog]

Dada… you is otay? M wana mak shur you otay! You be busie? M also busie! M color pictre!

- 🐟

hello darling,

I’m rlly sorry this reply is so so late, sweetheart… i had a very busy and rough week, but I’m doing a bit better now :) thank you so much for checking on me, that means a lot.. and aww, you colored a picture?? I bet it looks rly pretty.. Remember to take care of yourself and hope you have a great day/night,darling.. sending you a lots of big warm hugs <3