Too much on your mind to think about..
When we lost someone/something/somebody and we tend up to be an optimist, we always have this thought with us, “If God takes something away, he replaces something better“. We always make ourselves believe that there will be a replacement to what have been lost. And to the extend, a replacement of something better. When we lost something really special, just to save ourselves from dismay and regrets, we will look up on finding something much greater than what we have lost. Honestly, that’s when the real problem takes in. We do expect.
But on the process, sometimes, there’s no replacement. No another him or her. No new whatever. There’s no better thing. We keep on waiting but to no avail, we’ll just disappoint ourselves. The worst part of this is that, when we think that there’s no something better because the one we’ve lost was the best one. For some instances it can be, but about the other truth of losing someone, it can not.
The only constant fact about losing something/someone is for you to realize that you have let go, either willingly or unknowingly something/someone that you don’t want yet to be out of your reach. As the best all time quote about losing, ” You will not realized what you have missing until it’s lost” and that is exactly the main reason why we crave for a replacement for someone/something that has been lost, because we don’t want to feel the certain feeling of loneliness of something/someone that have slipped away.
But what will happen to your story when the climax for the arrival of the replacement was suddenly clipped out of the chapter? Most of you might think that it must be the end. But actually, if you visualize deeper over your story and scanned out the previous entries, you will realized that it’s not a bad ending after all.
Here’s the point, sometimes, we lose someone/something, just for us to realized what we already have all along. Most of the time, what we are really looking for are just right under our nose. We lose something/someone and end up realizing how worthy those things/people who have been there in the background. It can be called as a blessing in disguise but it’s really more likely that way.
Losing is not all about searching for a new one but perhaps, looking back on what we already have. Sometimes, being contented with what God have gave us made us more of a valuable person and refrained us from losing anything important to us. When we start to feel like what we have is actually what we need, we lose the desire of having more than enough. With that, we are losing something we don’t really need– the excessive desire. On the halfway, we have been reunited to something/someone who appreciates us more than what/who we have lost.
What you need is an efficient time to look back, pick it up again and not just start but continue your untold chapter with your previous important something/someone that deserves more of your time, your energy and above all rest, your love.
Let’s get going, I guess.
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