Congrats on your device. I hope you dont mind, but I do have several questions. Im also in chastity. As opposed to your device I have a cage system that allows me to clean up easier. How often do you unlock to clean (or how do you go about it?). I've dreamed of a piercing to have a secure device. Whats your opinion on anti-pullout devices or piercings for this purpose? Sorry for the long interrogation. I just see a person who really is enjoying chastity and I have to ask regards chuck
I don’t unlock to clean. In the shower, I pull the device away from me a bit, flush soapy water through it and use Qtips (cotton tips) from above, then again through the holes from below. Repeat with clean water, and more Qtips out of the shower to dry off.
I have no interest in piercing anything, least of all my genitals. I tried the Guardian anti-pullout for the Holy Trainer, but couldn’t make it work - it was too uncomfortable.
If you’re looking at enhancements or piercings to increase the jeopardy or feel more trapped, that’s one thing. It was the reason I tried the Guardian. So, go for it I guess.
But - and this isn’t directed at you, it’s just one of my bugbears - if they’re needed because someone is actually trying to pull out of their device, I think there is an underlying problem with their chastity that has nothing to do with devices or security. Every device can be defeated one way or another. Yet all of us choose to do this willingly, either directly or because someone else wants it and we want to please that person (KH). For self-lockers who pull out, you might as well be honest with yourself, unlock, take it off and have a good wank because, really, who are you trying to fool.
But if you have a KH, then you’re breaching a commitment you entered into willingly, breaking their trust and their wishes in the process. Pullouts never happen by accident, they’re a choice. (And to be clear here, I’m not talking about slip-outs, which are addressed by fixing the size or choosing a different design or type of device, not by adding an anti-pullout measure.) And you’re consciously choosing a quick pull over your relationship with and commitment to your KH. So, to anyone looking at anti-pullout measures to address actual chastity non-compliance, I think you instead need to consider the choices being made, and the reasons why.
