Happy Valentine’s Day!

[ruinedprada]

Left at Town Hall for @milkshakerugby with an attached note that reads:

Saving a dance for you at the reveal ball. I’ll be the one in green Versace xx

Affectionately yours,

RuinedPrada

[milkshakerugby]

Fresh flowers in a Pride & Prejudice vase left for @ruinedprada

xoxo - milkshakerugby

[heartwarmingfig]

Reaching out || heartwarming-prada

[heartwarmingfig]

I would never say no to a tropical vacation. There isn’t enough sun in England, and as much as I like an activity, I love lounging by the beach just as much. I suppose it’s nice to have the mix of places — a little while in the city enjoying the culture, a little while by the beach soaking up the sun.

Have you travelled much? You sound like you know your stuff. I’ll admit I haven’t travelled as much as I’d like because I’ve been focusing on work, but I might be in a better position now to go get myself out there.

~ heartwarmingfig

[ruinedprada]

I have traveled a good bit. I've been fortunate to be able to take more vacations than most. I don't want to give too much of myself away by saying I'm an expert but I do know a fair bit. You pick up a trick or two after your first few ventures.

All work and no play makes for a dull life. You have to take time for yourself! It's just simply a must. Without it you burn out and get wrinkles. No one wants those.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@heartwarmingfig

[honeyamok]

Hi,

I am glad that you have found someone you might connect with! That is so exciting. I hope that it works out for you. 💛After this is all over you'll have to tell me how meeting them went. Oh, please tell me that you're going to meet them!

And thank you. Yes, everyone has been just lovely. Which is very nice, because I went through a rough period in the last month or so. This has gotten my confidence back. Just a little.

💛honeyamok

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Oh I certainly hope we get to meet. I am very intrigued to find out who exactly they are. I haven't the faintest clue as to who they could be right now and it's rather annoying. But of course, I will tell you all about them should I meet them.

I look forward to meeting you, as well. If that wasn't clear.

I'm sorry to hear that you have gone through a rough time recently. I get how hard it can be to regain your confidence after something terrible. I don't know what it was but I hope it's getting better for you, darling.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@honeyamok

[ruinedprada]

Almost Missed Connection || BubblyPrada

[bubblymolecule]

RuinedPrada,

Oh, I agree. The ocean is fascinating. It's especially interesting to read about how much we don't know about it. A little terrifying though. At least with an aquarium, it's all catalogued and well-researched, so nothing terrifying from the depths will emerge haha.

Since we missed the initial wave of introductions, this feels almost like a formalized missed connection. So how are you finding this little experiment so far? I've had some very interesting conversations, some more overtly flirtatious than others, but overall it's been very intriguing. Makes me look forward to checking my inbox every morning :)

Best,

Bubblymolecule

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Bubblymolecule,

It's an interesting little experiment. Truthfully I didn't have very high expectations going in. After all, who actually finds love with something anonymous like this? Anyone can lie about who they are online. But even if my matches are lying, at least I am enjoying myself. I have a few that I am hopeful are in my inbox whenever I check it.

Do you have anyone that sticks out to you more than others?

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@bubblymolecule

[murderespresso]

Murderespresso x Ruinedprada

[murderespresso]

Oh, that's absolutely valid. Have to see if the physical spark is there after all. But it's great to figure out who you might connect with on a deeper level.

And actually, yes. There's one person who I'm really connecting with to the point where I almost feel like a giddy schoolgirl when I receive their messages. Which is NOT something I would admit face-to-face, because I like to pretend that I am too independent and aloof to have a CRUSH -- which I can't believe I'm typing out, like I'm 12 years old.

Anyway. Yes? I'm enjoying most of my conversations, though. People seem to be open to my batshit questions. I'm plotting a yacht escapade with someone else and it's been quite fun. I did part ways with one fellow, since he was looking for a longterm relationship who wanted to start a family and I absolutely do not. But he seemed generally cool otherwise. Might meet up with him just for drinks or something.

What about you? Find anyone interesting in your sea of matches?

Cheers,

murderespresso

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

I suppose that is a valid way to put it. A crush. It is silly to say something like that. But if it is true, then it's true. Nothing we can do about it. Who would have thought that silly little letters could lead to a crush.

If it makes you feel any better, I believe I also have a crush on one of my partners. They are just.. I don't think I can easily explain. But it's nice knowing that there is someone out there that holds some of the same interests as I have. Communicating is easy with them. I don't have to think too much about what I say. And they feel the same about this whole email exchange as I do. Of course, we haven't spoken about plans for the future but I don't think that matters much if we aren't looking for anything long term.

There are a few that will not go beyond friendship but that is also quite alright. As I said, I didn't think I would find love by doing this. Just different connections with other people.

But I am glad that people seem open to your batshit questions. They are quite... interesting.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@murderespresso

[murderespresso]

Murderespresso x Ruinedprada

[murderespresso]

Prada,

Oh yeah, I guess I should've been more clear. We were creative partners and romantic partners. It's hard to separate when each one began really. Well, all that matters now is that it ended and I've learned my lesson.

You'll be happen to know that I am such a direct person that most people find it off-putting. That's a joke. Kind of. I appreciate candor and honesty.

And on that note, this is where I confess I am a habitual hoodie-and-sweatpants out of the house wearer, which does mean we might be better off parting ways here, if you were looking for a serious, longterm romantic partner.

Transparently, I'm ... not even quite sure what I'm looking for. Ideally, I suppose I'd like to find a longterm partner, but I am too cynical to believe that I'd find that person via an anonymous email event run by the Swynlake Town Hall. I'm looking for people who are interesting, who I might consider dating.

I'm trying not to be totally misanthropic about it, because truth be told, I am very much enjoying my conversations. Who knows where they might lead!

Cheers,

murderespresso

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

I do not think I’m looking for something long term. At least not in the regards of this. I don’t believe that can happen with something like this. Is it a great way to make new acquaintances? Absolutely. But not immediate romantic matches. It may be shallow but I need to know what a potential romantic interest looks like.

But it is good to hear you are enjoying your matches thus far. Do you have one that has caught your attention in particular? One that you look forward to receiving their messages?

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@murderespresso

[fragilenostalgia]

Brand Recognition // FragilePrada

[fragilenostalgia]

Dear RuinedPrada,

Well that's good to hear! It sounds like you've been matched with a lot of people with good taste; I hope I'm able to measure up.

I do have to agree, it's quite nice to just lounge around and not have to worry. There's also sometimes all the expectations of meeting in person. And we're able to get all the awkward small talk out of the way in a little bit of a more eloquent manner since we're able to think and rethink our words.

I think because I judge people too quickly at times. I don't often take time to get to know someone, which is all well and good if you're floating around the hookup culture, but I think I'm a little more ready to start a path to meeting someone. I won't jump to say dating someone, but perhaps just building a deeper relationship with someone without getting in my own way.

Regards,

FragileNostalgia

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Fragilenostalgia,

I get that, truly. It is a terrible thing but sometimes it’s best to trust that gut instinct. There have been many people that I have cut ties with early on that turned out to be terrible people. It can sometimes come off as cold hearted or cruel but at the end of the day I must protect my own peace. And, my gut has never steered me wrong.

Ah, yet another thing we have in common! I think this is an interesting way to form new bonds with people. I like the anonymity of it. It helps with that judging people too harshly thing. But also because we are able to better temper our thoughts, it opens us up to things we might not normally be open to. Conversations can be deeper and more meaningful without the fear of societal constraints.

Is there something specific you’re looking for in a person you wish to form a more meaningful relationship with?

xoxo,

Ruinedprada

@fragilenostalgia

[ruinedprada]

Almost Missed Connection || BubblyPrada

[bubblymolecule]

Dear ruinedprada,

Oh my goodness! My apologies as well -- I was certain I'd reached out to everyone on my list, but we seemed to have slipped through each other's cracks. No matter! No time like the present :)

That's a difficult one! I think my instinct would be under the stars, though an aquarium would certainly be nice. But something about sleeping under the stars sounds so romantic.

What about yourself?

Best,

Bubblymolecule

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

It is a lot to keep up with! I wasn’t expecting that, honestly. But you’re right. We got there eventually. Sometimes the best things come to those who wait. Or at least that is what the saying is.

A night under the stars is quite romantic. Though it would have to depend on the location. Ideally a place without bugs would be best. But I am a bit of a brat so the idea of spending a night anywhere without air conditioning doesn’t sound as appealing to me. I think I would choose an aquarium just for that. Plus I don’t think I could sleep with all the various rooms to explore. The ocean is so interesting. There’s so much we don’t know about it.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@bubblymolecule

[honeyamok]

Hi,

Well, thank you. That is very sweet of you.

I hope you find someone who suits your needs as well. Have you had any luck? There are a few people I am talking to. I don't know! Everyone is so sweet, I feel overwhelmed.

💛 honeyamok

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Dear, Honey,

There is one connection that has caught my attention. They are funny and quick witted. We share a lot of similar interests and are expecting the same sort of thing from this.

But I am glad that you have met such nice people. I will be honest and say that the thought of anyone being cruel to you doesn’t sit right with me. You’re too sweet for that kind of thing.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

@honeyamok

[milkshakerugby]

To: ruinedprada :: milkshakeprada

[milkshakerugby]

Greetings darling Elizabeth,

It sounds like you've got quite the grab bag here. I will say, one of my most fulfilling relationships is with someone who was very much in need of more confident people in their life when we met. Now, they've blossomed into quite the fearsome specimen.

However, I absolutely understand your hesitance -- it's not like you are a charity, after all! With my friend, there was always something interesting lurking below their surface that needed to be coaxed out. But if they're giving you absolutely nothing... well, there are people who are better worth your time.

Like me, for instance. ;)

This is all to say, I did tell that boring one that we should part ways! Huzzah! I'll toast to that. What are we drinking tonight, dear Elizabeth?

Yours most ardently,

milkshakerugby

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

My dearest Mr. Darcy,

I will say there is something endearing in them. I almost want to say yes to them just to see them flourish. I do love watching someone come into their own. And I feel as if this person might have that potential.

You speak as if I would ever deny you my attention, darling. I do consider you my most fortuitous connection. I get so excited when I see you have returned an email.

Oh that is great news! One less competitor for me to have to deal with. I’m kidding, of course, I know they didn’t hold a candle to what we have here. But I do enjoy knowing you are direct and not afraid to say things that need saying.

Tonight feels like the perfect night for a Grand Royal. Simple yet classic. And I have the ingredients here at home.

Most affectionately yours,

RuinedPrada

[teenytansy]

TeenyPrada

[teenytansy]

Hello Ruined Prada,

I see. I suppose it's hard to say because I don't know what I want to showcase. I don't even know where to begin. Thus far, I've mostly allowed others to pick things out for me or borrowed from others. It's always been easier that way. But it's likely not sustainable. I'll have to branch out on my own at some point. It's all rather intimidating, I'll admit.

It's hard to narrow it down to any one thing. If I had to make an attempt, I would say how lively it is. Everything around you is alive in some way. Even the ground we walk on has been with us for hundreds of thousands of years. We are all made of the same things, participating in a cycle that is never-ending. It's so vast and grand, it's hard not to feel like you're a part of something greater.

But that all sounds rather pretentious, doesn't it?

Sincerely,

Teeny Tansy

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Teeny,

Start with what you like most. That's the easiest way. You can build an entire wardrobe around the things you like most. It's always daunting starting something but once you start it becomes easier.

Some could call it pretentious. But I like the way you explained it. It's basically poetic. It gives a certain sort of appreciation to it all and a different way of looking at things.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

[milkshakerugby]

To: ruinedprada :: milkshakeprada

[milkshakerugby]

Greetings darling Elizabeth,

That is very excellent to hear. And I am now even more excited to continue our correspondence.

I must say, you are probably one of my more interesting email partners. I've got one who every time I try to ask about, completely deflects and says they've got nothing interesting going on in their life. And really, as much as I adore talking about myself, there's only so much I can reveal before deciding it is simply not worth it!

I have a few others that seem promising, however -- though one revealed that their favorite pair of shoes is an old, beaten pair that they've had for a very long time and I am sure you sympathize with me when I say that I was shocked for a moment.

I was also... deliciously intrigued? Like gawking at a car accident, I suppose.

And what about you? I shan't be offended if you have some other stimulating conversations. In fact, I hope you're faring much better than me.

Yours most ardently,

milkshakerugby @ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Dearest Darcy,

You have no idea how much it pleases me to be considered one of your more interesting matches. Call me selfish, I'll be very inclined to agree with you.

I wonder what the point of them deciding to do this was if all they were going to do was deflect. Even if you are more introverted, you can't accomplish anything by keeping all your cards to your chest. To expect you to carry the whole conversation. You are better than me, I would have told them goodbye very early on.

My matches have been... interesting is one way you could put it. I have two that won't amount to anything. I'm certain we will be parting ways soon. The others are fun to converse with but I'm not sure that anything will come from those. I do have another person that appreciates fashion so that is always very nice. Then there's one who is so timid its a little infuriating. They asked if we could be friends because they need more confident people around them.

What am I supposed to do with that? I can't just give confidence away like it's money or something.

affectionately yours,

RuinedPrada

[heartwarmingfig]

Reaching out || heartwarming-prada

[heartwarmingfig]

I think my problem is I’d end up yelling back. I can sort of see the appeal of him, but I do also love an argument more than the Hell’s Kitchen contestants seem to.

But no, not really! I grew up around a lot of dirt and the great outdoors so you’d think I’d be more used to it but no. Still not a fan. Plus most of my clothes are too nice nowadays for me to want to get them dirty, but I’ll always make an exception for strawberry picking and apple picking.

I know what you mean. I love Swynlake, but cities always seem so fast and exciting. Would it be very basic of me to say London? I like the mix of city life and high society. I don’t mind Paris, but it isn’t my favourite. One day I’d love to visit Tokyo.

What about you? If you could go anywhere, where would you go?

~ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

Mmmm, argumentative and a hot head? Is that an accurate assumption? I think I enjoy watching the contestants get ripped apart by Gordon. It's always the most interesting part of the show for me.

I understand that. Getting dirty is not on the top of my list, especially with the quality of the clothes I wear. Though I think that is part of the fun of activities like that. Getting to pick something cute to wear that it easy to clean in case it gets a little dirty.

London is nice. A little cliche but I promise I won't hold it against you.

I think I would go somewhere tropical. White beaches and crystal blue water. Maybe somewhere like Balos Bay in Greece or Praia do Leão in Brazil. I love a city but there's nothing like lounging on the beach after exploring a new city.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

[honeyamok]

Hi,

I think those things all make sense for wanting in a partner! I admire how much you know yourself. It is clear to me you’re very confident.

I don’t know how compatible that makes us. I’ve been trying to figure out what it is I want. I am still on that journey. I understand feeling dragged down by that if you’re the kind of ambitious person it seems like you are.

That being said, even if you aren’t interested in me in a romantic sense…maybe we can be friends? I could use more confident people in my life.

I think ultimately the person I am looking for is kind. And patient. And honest. Those are the qualities I really care about in a person.

💛 honeyamok

@ruinedprada

[ruinedprada]

No, I don't think we would be very compatible in a romantic sense. But that is alright.

But be confident in who you are! Even if you aren't sure who that is at the moment. Confidence is key, you see.

You seem like a very sweet person, Honey. I am sure you'll find someone who meets your expectations.

xoxo,

RuinedPrada

[ruinedprada]

Almost Missed Connection || BubblyPrada

[ruinedprada]

Good evening, Bubblymolecule,

I am so sorry for such a late email. Life has certainly gotten in the way these past few days. I hope that does not ruin any chance of us connecting.

Would you rather sleep under the stars or in an aquarium overnight?

@bubblymolecule

[ruinedprada]

Almost Missed Connection || BubblyPrada