unhinged girlboss enjoyer

hi everybody, i'm ren, she/her, 30, butch dyke. I draw sometimes and mostly reblog my unhinged faves. i think all women should be allowed to fuck everything up on purpose as a treat. fuck terfs, terfs not allowed. Find my art at @renthe69th

[sailorsunspot]

just another normal todo bullet from my beautiful wife @moonlight-frittata

[loserbutchblog]

sometimes i wonder if im actually butch or if im a poser then i remember that sincerely the most turned on ive ever been in my entire life was the day a femme (who i always held the door for of course) was walking a few feet ahead of me, reached the doorway, then STOPPED and waited for me to open it for her like she wouldn’t be caught dead touching a door handle when i was around. like she had forgotten how to open it herself. like it would burn her if she touched it. i still think about her all the time.

i genuinely think being spoiled is the hottest thing a femme can be. this girl was seriously smart as a whip and a thousand times more competent than i could ever hope to be. she can open a damn door, but the fact that she not only LETS me make her life a little easier, but INSISTS on it? im lightheaded

[loserbutchblog]

the best thing about this post is seeing femmes in the tags saying stuff like like “oh ive never thought about this. i should stop being so hyper independent and let my butch take care of me” YES!!! MY EVIL PLAN IS WORKING!!!

[docholligay]

@sailorsunspot your penchant for bratty femmes

[desinteresse]

It’s actually other people’s fault for being so manipulatable.

[zisurru]

one of my major gripes with a lot of contemporary novels is that it feels like you're never allowed to think for yourself and themes are communicated either with incredibly heavy-handed metaphor or by having a character straight-up turn to the camera and say them to the audience

but i'm in this beta reading group and now i'm getting some insight into why that might be, mainly in how people respond to writing that doesn't do that. they don't like being expected to do this mental legwork themselves. they see it as the writer passing off the difficult burden of interpretation onto the audience, resulting in a text that is unnecessarily "hard", opaque, and confusing. being expected to connect ideas that are not explicitly spelled out is treated as though it's totally unreasonable, because part of the writer's job, in their mind, is to make sure the reader is never confused or uncertain.

it just depresses the fuck out of me to see how people who identify as "bookish" before anything else just have zero interest in expending mental effort when they read

[hershey-not-the-chocolate-maybe]

healthy romance starts w friendship

and bad romance starts w rah rah rah aha ha roma roma

[leodiaweekhq]

Leodia Week 2025!! August 25 - 29

This year's Leodia Week Prompt list!! A fandom week celebrating Leona and Diana from League of Legends

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[sailorsunspot]

Your Sabrina carpenter simpposting is without parallel i love you

unfortunately i have thoughts and opinions and i will not be silenced

[amoreuxi-deactivated20251202]

i would also like to point out that automatically equating any representation of sex, sensuality and sexuality to something that only appeals or caters to men is extremely misogynist and conservative

it perpetuates the idea that women are — or should be — sexless beings without desires, fantasies, imagination or agency, that sexual activity and sexual autonomy are things reserved exclusively for men, and that women who express themselves through their sexuality are simply performing (= pretending) to please men, to get approval from men, or financial compensation from men

which is, as you surely know, incorrect, bigoted, antiquated, embarrassing and misogynistic to believe and to claim

[sailorsunspot]

lmao i see we’ve hit the inevitable saturation point where everyone turns on the successful woman for *checks notes* being a woman

[tallymali]

the fact that a lot of progressive people truly cannot tell the difference between a woman who is sexually objectified, and a woman who is an active sexual participant is bad bad bad bad bad bad bad

[tallymali]

ngl when it comes to discussions of sexual agency a lot of people have not unpacked the fear-based idea that sex is an indulgence that brings about negativity as punishment. its really not much different than pro-lifers who say “well nobody forced you to have sex! you get what you asked for” when it comes to reproductive rights. if you cannot see a woman display any form of sexual expression or desire without automatically looking for reasons that her actions are Harmful Actually, you are a hell of a lot more conservative than you think

[alicent-florent]

Sabrina Carpenter Manchild (2025) dir. Vania Heymann & Gal Muggia

[beangusu-deactivated20251026]

i realized yesterday that i hadn’t drawn reinako in almost a week and felt myself crumble in real time so i needed to fix that

[sailorsunspot]

i forgot about Haruka’s gay one earring look my god

[snow124-art]

I recently had a dream about them

[all-blues]

by たかよ

[sailorsunspot]

MOONIES, has anyone compiled a best of original watch list if the Sailor Moon Anime (the original)?

I want to present a succinct list of episodes in all of the seasons to show to someone who never watched it, emphasis only on the eps that are really good/important. I’m not looking for NO fluff, just dont want to watch all the fluff!

I call upon the oracles of old- @docholligay @keyofjetwolf @rosepetalrevolution @oathkeeper-of-tarth

[lesb0]

I love when therapists engage someone's drama by "permission" therapy, kind of a reverse psychology. "Im afraid I left my stove on it makes me too anxious to work but it feels too crazy to go back home" then take a video before you leave. "My chest hurts every time I visit my parents on Christmas" then don't go. "I feel like wearing a pink buzz cut to work but I can't" yeah you can, book a hair appointment right now. "I think i hate being a man I wish I was a woman to make my life better" ok here's your prescription your surgery is booked next month. "I want to move to Canada until there's a new administration" go get a green card then. which province do you want to move to?

It either catches them off guard so they realize what they actually want is to whine about feelings and they just want to talk on and on without executing any actions. OR they realize they were just being a big child and needed someone else to "allow" them to do something they wanted (or in the worst case this is a baby person who wants to place all the responsibility and blame on another person i.e. "why did YOU make me miss Christmas with my controlling parents" "the corrupt medical system took advantage and tricked me into thinking I'm trans!" "my bad therapist forced me to break up with my ex :("

some people just don't believe they have complete, total autonomy and choose to do everything in their lives. they need the therapist to be the autonomy for them