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@saintjosie
Tumblr just marked your page as mature. I'd recommend posting links to your other socials in case they decide to nuke you.
eh i’m not surprised. it was only a matter of time before they put me in their crosshairs
in case i get nuked i guess
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apparently this was a bug with mobile on android but leaving this pinned cause a lot of yall found me on bluesky through this
I don’t think it’s right for you to be asexual and married. It just doesn’t seem fair to your husband. He didn’t sign up to be in a sexless marriage? How do you make sure his needs are still met?
i trapped him in a jar like he’s a little bug and i throw some non-sexual intimacy in every once and a while so he has enrichment in his enclosure
actually you know what, i have more to say about this.
i’ve identified as bisexual for a really long time. like it was one of the first things i told jp (my husband) when we started dating long time. jp has never had a problem with my queerness. but when we started dating in january of 2018, i didn’t have all of the orientation pieces. so i had sex. and i had sex because i thought that’s what i was supposed to do. and i cannot stress enough how consensual all of the sex was. but it didn’t feel fantastic like i was told it would. i didn’t think about it as much as i was supposed to. there was no bliss. my toes didn’t curl and my eyes didn’t roll to the back of my head. i just didn’t enjoy it. and i thought not enjoying it meant there was something wrong with me. and since it was a me thing, and not anyone’s fault, i had sex. i just pretended that i liked it the way that society told me i should.
so me and my husband had sex because it was something he wanted and i didn’t mind doing.
but this past year i realized and came to terms with the fact my disinterest in sex wasn’t a nerve problem like my gynecologist said or trauma based like an old therapist said or any other explanation offered to me by anyone from friends to medical professionals. my disinterest in sex was because because i don’t experience that kind of attraction.
and when i finally figured it out i was kinda devastated. because i was faced with either a) continuing to pretend to enjoy it, or b) coming out to jp. i knew he wouldn’t take it badly because i love and trust him, but i can know something is true and still not believe it. so i was scared but decided to come out even though the thought literally made me sick. i cried and apologized and told him how horrible i felt that i “lied” to him for years and how terrified i was that he was going to think i wasn’t attracted to him anymore or that i wasn’t ever attracted to him in the first place. i had to tell a man that i’d been having sex with for years that i didn’t want to anymore. that i didn’t enjoy it. that i’d never enjoyed it. that i didn’t know if i’d ever want to have sex again.
and do you all want to know what his response was?
he asked if he’d ever hurt me. and then he asked what my boundaries are. and then he thanked me for telling him. and then he said he married me because he loved me, not because i’d fuck him.
so me and my husband used to have sex. and now we don’t because six years into our relationship i realized i was aspec. and we haven’t had sex since i came out to him. he hasn’t even tried, even though i told him that i didn’t mind having sex, just that he would have to be the one to bring it up because i don’t ever think about it. but he hasn’t brought it up. not once. because he knows it’s about like going to the pharmacy for me.
so my husband doesn’t have sex with me because he loves me. because he cares about me. because he wants me to be happy. because when he asked me to go on that very first date it was because he thought i was smart and enthusiastic and funny and “lovely.” because he knew he was in it for the long haul when he watched me shotgun a red bull in a harbor freight parking lot at 7:30 pm on a thursday.
that’s kind of what marriage is about. the whole loving and wanting to take care of and cherishing your significant other thing. sex has never been a big part of the equation.
jp stayed with me the first six months of my sobriety. he stayed even though one time i had three tequila shots too many and yarffed all over him. and then again in his floorboards. he stayed when my grief made me shut down and shut out and for over a year. he stayed with me when that grief made me so depressed i’d spend days at a time just staring at a wall. or hours and hours reading fanfic so the only thoughts i had in my head belonged to someone else. he stayed even though i don’t remember most of 2023. he’s stayed through every good thing and bad thing and in between thing and literally every single think for the past nearly seven years.
so i highly doubt not “putting out” is gonna be the thing that makes him leave.
This is why Pride is not just a party. It's a joyful celebration, but it's also a pointed and colourful two-finger salute to a world that stood back whilst so many of us died. And we'll never go quietly, never again.
please make sure your transfem friends don’t get excluded. please listen to their needs.
You should do more than just listen, actually. You need to ask her. You need to go up to her and ask her about things you can do to include her. We are taught to take up as little space as possible, you need to go out of your way to account for that.
Happy Pride Month to those two women dancing together in the foreground of the boat scene in Godzilla (1954).
I’m sorry your romantic foibles were overshadowed by a big ass atomic lizard thing.
I just learned that Josie is editing videos for Nikhil Claymore now. Does that mean you and her brokered up or is he your 3rd. I thought he was dating someone else is she part of the polycule too
Anon, I’m gonna answer this is good faith and I’m not gonna make fun of you.
I need you to know that people can work together without dating. Josie is a video editor and Nikhil is her client. Josie and I are still dating, and neither of us are dating Nikhil or his partner.
Now, @saintjosie is going to make fun of you.
anon what the fuck is wrong with you?
first off, it’s none of your fucking business who any of us are dating. second, what a fucking terminally online expectation that just because content creators know each other online means that they’re dating.
we live full and busy lives outside of the things we post online, 99% of which you will never know about. don’t assume that we don’t touch grass just because you don’t.
this year for pride can we please be normal to trans women on the internet? thank you
I just learned that Josie is editing videos for Nikhil Claymore now. Does that mean you and her brokered up or is he your 3rd. I thought he was dating someone else is she part of the polycule too
Anon, I’m gonna answer this is good faith and I’m not gonna make fun of you.
I need you to know that people can work together without dating. Josie is a video editor and Nikhil is her client. Josie and I are still dating, and neither of us are dating Nikhil or his partner.
Now, @saintjosie is going to make fun of you.
anon what the fuck is wrong with you?
first off, it’s none of your fucking business who any of us are dating. second, what a fucking terminally online expectation that just because content creators know each other online means that they’re dating.
we live full and busy lives outside of the things we post online, 99% of which you will never know about. don’t assume that we don’t touch grass just because you don’t.
100 trans/genderqueer musicians
Bands
Against Me! (rock, folk punk) (x)
The Oozes (punk) (x)
The Hirs Collective (metal, grindcore) (x)
GEL (hardcore punk) (x)
Urn (hardcore punk) (x)
The Black Dresses (noise pop, hardcore hyperpop) (x)
Party Ghost (rock) (x)
Lagrimas (hardcore punk, scream punk) (x)
Doll Skin (rock) (x)
Dazey and the Scouts (rock, indie) (x)
G.L.O.S.S. (hardcore punk) (x)
Dog Park Dissidents (punk rock) (x)
She/Her/hers (rock) (x)
Deli Girls (hardcore electronic) (x)
Dream Nails (punk rock) (x)
Sarah and the Safe Word (rock, dark cabaret) (x)
Pinkie Promise (punk rock) (x)
B. Fraser (emo) (x)
Newgrounds Death Rugby (emo) (x)
Scowl (hardcore punk) (x)
Feminazgul (black metal) (x)
Sports Bra (dream pop, light rock) (x)
Club Sofa (indie pop) (x)
The Cost ov Living (grindcore, harsh noise) (x)
Kuromy (punk) (x)
The Sonder Bombs (indie, pop) (x)
Lidocaine (rock) (x)
I'm letting unseen forces take the wheel (cybergrind) (x)
Gum Disease (punk) (x)
Cam Girl (rock, trash rock) (x)
Gully Boys (grunge pop) (x)
Arcadia Grey (sparkle punk) (x)
Schmekel (folk punk) (x)
Destructo Disk (punk rock) (x)
User Unauthorized (hardcore punk) (x)
The Spook School (indie pop) (x)
Pinkshift (emo) (x)
Glass Beach (emo) (x)
Butch Baby (light rock) (x)
VIAL (indie punk) (x)
Sister Wife Sex Strike (folk punk) (x)
homewrecker. (metal, hardcore punk) (x)
Mega Mango (indie rock) (x)
Keep For Cheap (prarie rock) (x)
Steam Powered Giraffe (cabaret, steampunk) (x)
Thotcrime (grindcore, cybergrind) (x)
Whirlybird (indie pop) (x)
Kampsport (hardcore punk) (x)
Um Jennifer? (alt-rock, punk) (x)
Scarlet Demore (alt-rock) (x)
HappyHappy (folk, folk-punk) (x)
Queen Zee (punk) (x)
Grumpy Plum (slop pop) (x)
Cheap Perfume (punk) (x)
Pollyanna (power-pop, rock) (x)
Ballista (metalcore) (x)
Faetooth (fairy doom, metal) (x)
Lacerated (death metal) (x)
Fortuna Malvada (hardcore punk) (x)
Peach Rings (bedroom power-pop) (x)
Solo Artists
Laura Jane Grace (rock, folk punk) (x)
Left at London (pop) (x)
ZAND (pop, ugly pop) (x)
Ada Rook (hardcore electronic) (x)
Ms. White (pop) (x)
Rett Madison (indie, folk) (x)
Murder Person for Hire (folk) (x)
Backxwash (rap, industrial hip hop) (x)
LustSickPuppy (electronic, rap) (x)
Babylungs (electronic, rap) (x)
Human Kitten (folk punk) (x)
Harley Poe (folk punk) (x)
Ewy (emo, folk punk) (x)
Averstaskta (instrumental) (x)
Andie Schoen (indie) (x)
Elliot Lee (dark pop, electronic rock) (x)
Urias (hip hop, ballroom) (x)
Twink Obliterator* (cybergrind) (x)
Rio Romeo (cabaret punk, indie) (x)
Knife Girl (art pop, indie) (x)
Alexander James Adams (folk) (x)
Starmaxx (pop) (x)
Sofya Wang (pop, alt-R&B) (x)
Boy Jr (indie/alt pop) (x)
Medusa (revenge pop, hip-hop) (x)
Mal Blum (singer-songwriter, folk) (x)
Gina Young (riot grrrl) (x)
Petra Fiyd (indie pop) (x)
awfultune (bedroom pop) (x)
Quinn Hills (alternative pop) (x)
Femtanyl (electronic) (x)
Vivivivivi (electronic, glitchcore) (x)
Lilac Boy (glitchcore) (x)
Rosie Tucker (indie rock) (x)
Ryan Cassata (singer-songwriter) (x)
Pain Chain (noise, synth) (x)
In Love With A Ghost (electronic, lo-fi) (x)
Alice Longyu Gao (hyperpop) (x)
Prophetic Nightmares (ambient synthwave) (x)
Saint Wellesley (indie folk) (x)
@pirateprincessjess fanart is done!
Oh my godddd I love this so much!! The hat! The coat!!! PHENOMENAL!!!!
saw this on pinterest but i think it belongs here too
this will never not be important
whether tis boner in the butt
Middle Earth doesn't even have plate tectonics. All the mountains were placed there by the Ainur or some shit. The shape of Mordor isn't "unrealistic" the world was intelligently designed by Catholic elf gods.
As a transsexual woman 👩 who has had multiple experiences ‼️ I have found 🔎 that the biggest block of cheese 🧀 is usually the one ☝️ that has the largest size 📈
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So Patagonia, a company named after a place is going after environmental activist and drag queen "Pattie Gonia" over the name. And I don't think they even plan to win it since... Patagonia is a location name already. I think the plan is just to intimidate Wyn Wiley (aka Pattie Gonia) into changing her drag name. (Using she/her pronouns for the drag persona as is custom).
Patagonia--the company, not the region in South America--is claiming that Pattie Gonia is infringing on their trademark and will damage their reputation as activists.
Which really shows a lack of vision imo, because doing a deal with famous environmental activist Pattie Gonia would have enhanced their rep. Again, imo.
I don't know how they don't see this as hurting their reputation. I mean, I get that you have to defend your trademark or risk losing it or whatever. But I don't see infringement here. I'm not a lawyer, but I don't personally see it. No one buying Pattie merch was thinking it was Patagonia-brand merch. Please.
Patagonia I think assumes that they will look okay with this if they don't ask for damages, just legal fees. But corporate lawyer legal fees can equal millions, so this feels, to me, like them lowkey out to destroy the drag queen but still wanting to be considered "good people" by their customers.
Anyway, Wyn Wiley is asking people to tag Patagonia on social media and ask them to drop the lawsuit.
Hey I just wanted to quickly ask as a transfem, on the topic of Dropout not having transfem representation: is Persephone Valentine not transfem? I mean this /gen. She’s not as frequent as the “core cast” obviously but she has appeared as a contestant on Game Changer, she’s one of The Seven, and I think she mentioned on an episode of Dirty Laundry she’s trans. I don’t follow her personally so I could be misremembering, but I feel that. Is transfem representation, no?
She is, but also she's been on like, a few episodes she's been on outside of The Seven, and also should not be the only transfem outside of the drag side of dropout who represents us yk? People say "dropout has no transfem representation" largely because it gets the point across more than "dropout has one trans woman they invite back once a year"
hey @samreich i’d like to make a pitch for two trans fems who’d love to be on dropout!
check out @saintjosie and @pirateprincessjess (me and my gf)!
we both have online followings, have been making content for 5+ years, and have had viral hits with 2M+ views!
here’s some of my popular tiktok’s that have made millions of people laugh:
reverse mulan
a very serious guide on how to tell your father that you’re a trans woman
what the fuck have i been doing? (i am very talented with my voice and have a lot of range)
and we have references!
jess is mutuals with brennan and vic and she’s played dnd with both of them (briefly)! ask them! i’m sure they will have nothing but wonderful things to say about my incredible girlfriend!
i edit nikhil clayton’s youtube videos (who you’ve had on um actually) and wayne brady follows me on tiktok and presumably thinks i am funny! ask nikhil! im sure he would give me two thumbs up!dont ask wayne! i have no idea if he knows who i am! (but here’s proof he at least follows me)
and if you don’t like our vibe (hey that’s okay!) we both know tons of talented and hilarious trans fems who’d kill it on dropout too!
