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Shout out to all the people who's parents neglected them emotionally but were also very strict about letting you socialize so you grew up mostly watching t.v. and consuming media because you were hardly allowed to go outside for some stupid reason so you were socially stunted and can now only perceive the world through a warped lenses shaped by shows and movies so you're not well equipped to handle real people while also having main character syndrome

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ronan: hold on a second. mom and dad never told me anything about the dreaming. how to control it or how to keep it secret or how not to get killed by it. they knew and they never told me. they never tried to keep me safe or prepare me for the world or instill healthy emotional processing or tell me the truth. i think they maybe actually sucked and completely failed me as parents and now i'm fucked sideways and i wouldn't be the way that i am if they had not ruined me in every conceivable way??????

declan: hold on hold on hold on wait WAIT don't move. don't move a single inch i have to grab the camera. i'm making this a scrapbook page

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yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

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Yes, and I’ve spoken to my therapist about it, who offered an explanation:

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

People for whom guilt is the default emotional response are also more likely to have low self-esteem, doubt their own experiences, and experience impostor syndrome. So, watch out for that too guys

yousaveeveryonebutwhosavesyou

recoversuggestions

friendly reminder that you didn’t waste your year. any moments of happiness or comfort, any small accomplishments, they all matter. this has been a really hard year, and simply surviving is something to be proud of.

wholeheartedsuggestions

recovery isn’t easy. it’s ugly and messy. it’s inconsistent and painful. it isn’t simply waking up one day and exhaling after a deep breath. it’s relapsing even though you held out for so long and hurting people without meaning to and regretting what you can’t take back. it’s blaming yourself for not being better and getting frustrated with people for not understanding. it’s living in your own skin when you hate it. it’s working your ass off even if no one sees it. it’s failure and it’s success. for goodness sake, it’s life at its roughest. but that doesn’t in any way make it impossible or not worth it. it’s worth it. one day you’ll be able to say you did it, look back at all that effort. and you’ll never be perfect. you’ll never get it all right or even feel completely healed. but things will get better because you tried.

#Komma #getrennt