Dappervolk Confessions

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[salt-volk]

edit - 4/2:

While I still don’t think I’ll return to running this blog, I will leave it up for an indefinite time. Obviously, still feel free to save posts as you’d like, though.

Thank you to those that have stuck around for these years, and I appreciate any kindness that was sent to me the last few weeks I was away. I will be fine (I don’t have a choice lol) and I hope any others that take my place can do better than I did.

Cheers, salters. Godspeed to ye in all endeavors.

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If there is anything in particular you want saved for posterity, please do so.

I’ll be deleting the blog within perhaps a week, so that I will not be inclined to check here. I will retain the URL as a side blog so it may not be impersonated.

[ misc. ramblings under cut, ignore as you please ]

I have continued to get some vile asks (both death threats and outright doxxing, alongside general insults) and I’m no longer in any sort of mental head space to continue deleting them while trying to mind my own.

I have a mass amount of personal life issues going on right now and I’ve just about gotten to my tipping point. But, I’m well aware that 99% of those that come here don’t care about that, as quite a few anons have already said. It doesn’t surprise me, I’m faceless so you have no real reason to care. My disappearance has no effect on you— though perhaps some will be thankful.

I’ve done my best to manage this blog but like most things in my life, I’ve failed at that as well. Just par for the course. Typical for me.

It’s been a long few years and it’s time to move on for me. Though, I’ll still be on DV itself. We may cross paths without you ever realizing it.

tl;dr

Sorry I’ve failed, but I wish you all the best.

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If you get death theeats then lets see them? Bc youre saying you go weeks without asks then youre saying you get a lot of asks or death threats?? Youre stuff if making no sense. This became a doxxing and bully blog, not a vent blog. I'm not believing that. And to the anon who almost killed themselves, im so sorry. I really hope you are doing better and thriving every day now!

Why do I have to prove myself to you? I’ve run the blog for years, and these things aren’t brand new— but they’ve certainly ramped up. I suppose it’s hard to understand that blog activity can wax and wane, though. Regardless: I don’t keep them, I delete and if it’s possible then I report them. Don’t really want to store them away just in case of suicide-reason fodder or something.

You just want to be able to latch onto anything I say and continue to paint me as a bad person. It doesn’t matter what proof I’d provide, I’d be wrong. And I don’t have that fight in me anymore. I barely want to live through my shitty IRL life, let alone this life of a salt blog mod.

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as you wish

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as much as i usually like this blog, i do feel like there's an irony in saying you cant take the hate when multiple users have been horribly bullied on here. i low key almost killed myself because of a hate campaign on here and i'm not joking. you can deal with dumb mormons whining at you for a comment you didn't even publish from the asks.

I’m sorry you’ve felt like that. I hope you’ve gotten to a better point in life.

I have not.

Please consider as well that I don’t post everything I get. This entails death threats, doxxing, and a large variety of insults both personal and generalized. I’m being told to off myself, harm myself, etc.

I’m tired of the hate campaign in the inbox that I can’t do anything about and never told anyone because why would anyone care? You wouldn’t. You don’t. That much is always rendered very, very obvious.

I genuinely tried my best. It’s never going to be good enough, anyway. So, I give up.

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mod post

read if you want to, just thoughts about this blog

I'm quite honestly starting to get to a point where I'm feeling like I'm doing nothing but inciting aggravated anons or hateful messages.

I've run this blog for a while now. I don't know if it's this userbase or what, because I do not have this kind of issue on the other salt blog that I've run for like 5x as long as this one.

I'm well aware I can never make everyone happy. However, I don't quite know if I'm in any kind of mental space anymore to be handling constant attacks on my character (I don't always post the asks that are solely towards me) nor do I feel as if I'm serving any kind of purpose.

This isn't "fun," it's just an obligation.

I don't know how much more energy I can expend on something I don't do for myself, but for others to have an anonymous voice/place to vent off of DV. No matter which direction I go, in an attempt to make things better here, I'm told it's wrong or I'm not doing enough.

Basically, if you want me to quit then I'll quit. Let another blog be created by a mod that's gonna be stronger than me or care less (about faceless people's opinions towards themselves) than I do.

I think maybe I'm too tired.

[salt-volk]

do mormons play dappervolk or why tf does that other anon even care lmaoooo

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I think mod needs to stop egging people on with bias opinions. "I think there is irony here", no there isnt. This blog has been built now just for the bullies. Venting doesnt equal bullying. Allowing namedrops and comments to other anons dows. All that is ever posted here is about customs and name drops of users. You're telling me thats all you get? Because ive sent in asks complaining about the site mechanics and they were never posted. It seems more things are picked by what will start the most drama or make people on the site hate someone particular.

I post everything I get— if it didn’t get posted, tumblr ate it (which it is known to do) or someone said something obscene/inappropriate.

Do you think I actively delete “boring” things and post others just because “hehe this will cause drama”? You’re overestimating how much I care about the activity on this blog. There’s barely any notifications or asks. I can go a week without checking here and have nothing new to see.

If you sent someone that wasn’t posted, ask about it instead of create a conspiracy theory I’m attempting to farm engagement for my own enjoyment.

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id try ignoring the blogs who comment on these asks anon. theyre rly just bullies who think they have the moral high ground. i stopped reading the comments ages ago because they were annoying af.

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think religion anon is actually referring to a comment on this post /810203128731451392 lol lmao even

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reply I assume

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Is it ok to literally post an ask that insulting a whole religion...? Isn't that kind of stereotyping people and jusging them by their religion when this is a vent blog about dappervolk...?

If I accidentally let something through, let me know? But, offhand and skimming I don’t see what you’re talking about.

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I don’t see why you can’t get a redeem ticket from machines and pick one or the other bc it’s insane how clothing is worth half of a pet maker

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I'm kind of going insane over the anatomy in this month's promo art, the head is way too large for the body- and the body itself just looks totally wonky. AND THE ARMS? ARE SO SKINNY? Initially I thought the hair was just covering them up but that's not the case with how the dress straps are positioned. What happened to the shoulders. What is going on here

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another custom maker gone to another custom owner who didnt even want it lmfao

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to the anon calling the monthly a hooker—why exactly do you say that? there isn't even a HINT of sexuality or promiscuity. seems like you think anything that shows any amount of skin = sexually charged. that's a YOU problem you need to unlearn, not a WE problem.

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I wonder sometimes what the site would be like if the custom mirror system hadn’t been implemented and they had just been left private.

The outright refusal to change a system that 99% of users despise boggles the mind.

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so you censor hooker knowing it's offensive, yet still say it. the misogyny is jumping out of my screen. what is wrong with you? there is nothing about this month's design that says it's inappropriate for 13+ audiences. i hope you seek help

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is no one going to comment on how this monthly item "character" is basically an unwater h**ker? I think angi has been doing things fo succubuns too much now. (We wont even talk about how she puts mroe effort into her adopts for the cs than her own website)

… so what exactly makes them a hooker