TT Girl

19, proudly from Auckland, New Zealand <3 just a place to share my true thoughts... + i like to talk a lot. IG: @tessatalotomokino

[saltysistertess]

#2

recently i’ve been getting real short with people and been getting easily annoyed lol.. part of it may have been “that time of the month” but anyways lmao thought i’d write about my pet peeves & or things that piss me off without a doubt.. 

a) people that use your past against you.. oh man... like you did this for what? if i trust you with a piece of my past - it is so you understand why i am who i am today or why i react to certain things the way i do but if you’re just gonna throw back in my face to remind me of how stupid i WAS.. then bro, leave. thanks 

b) when you have a problem with me but you go and tell everyone else but me. lol if you’re trying to make yourself look good you’re really doing the opposite because no one else can fix your issue with me BUT ME.. communication is the word i’m pretty sure =) 

c) rude people. ex. i was at a cafe once with my mum, and i didn’t like the way our waiter came at my mum with his rude tone and rushed demeanour. so i, who was just acting accordingly, ordered slowly & changed my order a few times and i didn’t even acknowledge his presence as i had my shoulder to him lmao.. in general tho rude people can just save it and go let it out on karens or something. 

d) closed minded people <<<<<< jeez this is a big one. i cannot STAND those with a narrow mind.. to the possibility that there is more than one stand point on EVERYTHING. if you can’t be open minded then we can’t be friends. like bye. 

e) liars. good gosh. i would rather you hurt me with the truth than comfort me with a lie to protect my feelings. and what benefit do you get from lying? $$? pleasure? i pity those who live a life full of lies. go get help. 

f) people that constantly blame their past for their rude behaviour now... to an extent it is understandable to be snappy and closeoff-ish... because you are trying to mend what is broken but if you don’t move on and try make a better living for yourself and constantly blame your past conflicts as a justification to being a down right a$$hole then you my friend are in the wrong.. go get help x2. 

if you’ve made it this far then lets be friends cos #respect lol anyways, pet peeves, things that trigger me.. what not.. there’s probably more cos i tend to be quite short with a lot of things but these ones popped up without hesitation.  

lol blog #2 done hehehe.. love & light always from - she, herself xx 

[saltysistertess]

#1

this past week someone asked me if i could go back in time and tell my past self something or give her some advice what would it be? and i have a whole list for my sis ..

- stop stressing, you’ll be okay; i was a MAJOR stressball in highschool because I would often take things and over-exaggerate them. Sis, what you’re stressing about now - won’t matter in a week. Breathe. 

- no one cares about the inconveniences in your life so stop broadcasting it to the world; like every other girl in my day n age i had a (still do lmao) pERsonAL acc. like as if posting about these inconveniences could give me the right reassurance and bring my ex back, or get me a higher grade on my last paper, or even create a beautiful image of me with a symmetrical face, without pimples, and perfect eyebrows in the mirror lol. don’t post about everything, everyone doesn’t need to know x

- love all, trust few. no need to open the book all the way when someone shares the slightest bit of interest in your life. stay guarded; i was very naive, thinking i could trust everyone when someone would share a little about their life like that gave me the golden ticket to open up fully about my own. as time passed i learnt that trust must be earned, and thats when i learnt how to build my guard up so high that now i struggle to let anybody in.. lol we’re working on it. 

- have fun kid and spend time with friends as much as you can; school gave me and my friends and other school mates reason to see eachother and to hang out; make the most of that time because after highschool people grow up, get busy - jobs, study, responsibilities.. you have time in highschool, have fun x 

This list is short but it comes with depth. if any current highschool kids are reading this - don’t rush time and don’t stress so much, “everything is as good or as bad as you make it”.. in highschool and at a young time in your life there is no need to exaggerate any inconvenience, so don’t stress.. Save that for after highschool lol. i often got carried away in highschool feeling pressured to have my life sorted out, when really i still don’t have it altogether now. life is precious, and so is time - make the most of it.

blog #1 done hehehe, love and light always from she, herself x 

[saltysistertess]

exposed

thought i’d create an account/blog to share my thoughts on life and everyday things, really just anything that comes to my mind... I could apologise in advance for my future posts that could possibly offend some people but one of my goals for the year was to be unapologetic so.. with all due respect, if one my thoughts offends you then - bbbyyyeeee xx ps the aim is, obviously, to NOT offend anybody but I do know i cannot please everyone and not everybody is open minded :)) soooo, sit back and enjoy the ride inside this emotional, over-confident, and passionate 19 year old mind. 

a short intro about she, herself - without fully opening the book in one go..

- I am an ARIES.. so what you read about this star sign is (mostly) TRUE.. i like to be in control, i like to be first or #1 (i was literally born on the 1st too lol), people often call us aggressive but we like to call it PASSIONATE, can seem really tough but deep deep down we’re babies...

- an EXTROVERT :)) but i do like my space and my independence. i love talking to people tho. I think humans are the most sophisticated and interesting things (sorry but my limited vocab couldn’t find another word to describe our species) to ever walk this earth. + i find humans so fascinating to talk to because we all think and perceive things differently !! 

- I am a CHRISTIAN <33 although i strongly dislike labels - i am not “one of those” christians that will throw my religion down your throat. i understand people have their own beliefs but with what I share (with my experiences in life) I hope you see what I get to see on a daily basis of my LOVING and MIGHTY God - wooo! 

- OBSESSED with my family and friends - and thats on some unconditional love type sh!t. people that i keep so close to my heart for they continue to love and correct me so i can be the best version of myself everyday. 

anyways thats it for now... i’ll be sharing more soon, but for now from she, herself - love and light always.