recently i’ve been getting real short with people and been getting easily annoyed lol.. part of it may have been “that time of the month” but anyways lmao thought i’d write about my pet peeves & or things that piss me off without a doubt..
a) people that use your past against you.. oh man... like you did this for what? if i trust you with a piece of my past - it is so you understand why i am who i am today or why i react to certain things the way i do but if you’re just gonna throw back in my face to remind me of how stupid i WAS.. then bro, leave. thanks
b) when you have a problem with me but you go and tell everyone else but me. lol if you’re trying to make yourself look good you’re really doing the opposite because no one else can fix your issue with me BUT ME.. communication is the word i’m pretty sure =)
c) rude people. ex. i was at a cafe once with my mum, and i didn’t like the way our waiter came at my mum with his rude tone and rushed demeanour. so i, who was just acting accordingly, ordered slowly & changed my order a few times and i didn’t even acknowledge his presence as i had my shoulder to him lmao.. in general tho rude people can just save it and go let it out on karens or something.
d) closed minded people <<<<<< jeez this is a big one. i cannot STAND those with a narrow mind.. to the possibility that there is more than one stand point on EVERYTHING. if you can’t be open minded then we can’t be friends. like bye.
e) liars. good gosh. i would rather you hurt me with the truth than comfort me with a lie to protect my feelings. and what benefit do you get from lying? $$? pleasure? i pity those who live a life full of lies. go get help.
f) people that constantly blame their past for their rude behaviour now... to an extent it is understandable to be snappy and closeoff-ish... because you are trying to mend what is broken but if you don’t move on and try make a better living for yourself and constantly blame your past conflicts as a justification to being a down right a$$hole then you my friend are in the wrong.. go get help x2.
if you’ve made it this far then lets be friends cos #respect lol anyways, pet peeves, things that trigger me.. what not.. there’s probably more cos i tend to be quite short with a lot of things but these ones popped up without hesitation.
lol blog #2 done hehehe.. love & light always from - she, herself xx