to sinbad & noir (and opal) | @hameya @kaosmoke @solraised
i’m addressing this in public for the simple fact of the apologies you both wrote in public were completely subpar, incredibly dismissive and long overdue. we’re all grown adults here, we know how to take responsibility. or at least I like to think that most adults understand how to do that, ya feel?
sinbad, you still haven’t addressed me directly. you keep going through mediums to address your wrongs without having ever spoken to me privately, knowing full n well that I ont got you blocked. that information was already shared w you that I ont have you blocked but you never once came to me and said anything with any remorse for shit you’ve said with a deeply anti-black tone.
not only did you make fun of aave as if the dialect of my people is some shit that can’t be taken seriously, you also reduced my practice of hoodoo as something silly created by a white woman bc you thought i was kemetic when i’ve explained several times that i’m not. your words against hoodoo are very reminiscent of the entire world and how they look at afro-american religions that were created by members of the diaspora. like y'all deadass think anything we do is a joke and that’s not cool.
and to top it off you said some shit to me along the lines of “you’re not egyptian, you’ll never be egyptian, etc” and i’m like … when did I ever say I wanted to be? like I still can’t believe you had the audacity to say some shit like that to a descendent of the diaspora that has no fucking knowledge of where my people even came from. that’s that motherland elitism I be talkin bout and yes you’re guilty of it. that shit was fcked up bc 1) i’m a proud af black woman w choctaw, creole and italian ancestry. I been proud of my roots for a long ass time and have never wanted to be anything other than that and 2) that shit is harmful for the simple fact I have no fucking clue where my ancestors were stolen from and you p much made fun of that fact with those few choice words you used.
and then to top it all off, you deadass blocked anyone that had the nerve to like silas’ callout to you. you blocked every single black person that dare agree with what silas said about you instead of showing true changed behavior and maybe listening to what silas has to say about you and see if you could right any of those wrongs. you took the easy way out and blocked niggas. even niggas that you ain’t even know like …. that’s so damn transparent to show that you really ain’t all that sorry at all.
noir, we spoke in private yeah. I said what I had to say to you and that was it. but then I was shown the apology you posted publicly and it was incredibly abhorrent to read.
you p much dodged every accusation you could have in that apology and basically put the blame upon others and not yourself or your own actions that you took of your own volition. you can’t blame sinbad for giving you a “warped view of the situation” without confronting your friend directly. that’s your friend that decided to put you in the middle of some shit that really ain’t have nothing to do with you.
my words in this whole thing from the jump had to do with sinbad and opal’s very blatant antiblackness. opal ass still hasn’t said nothing but at this point it don’t even matter cause she a fake ass bih that ain’t ever gonna try n right ha wrongs and that’s just the truth.
but anyway, you deadass have made fun of aave n you should’ve addressed that. you called me a hippo lmao, you should’ve addressed that. you tried to minimize my anger of colorism that dark skin folks face as if the fact that i’m a light skinned nigga means I can’t be pissed off with the shit that darker skinned folks face. like tf kinda shit is that? if anything the fact I am light skinned I should use that shit to my advantage of the platform I have and raise awareness for the shit.
like deadass all you had to do was acknowledge that you did a, b and c to persons one and two and admitted ya wrongs and actually show remorse and change in your behavior that you not gon do it again. that’s it. and also you might wanna talk to your friends sinbad & opal for getting you involved in their mess in the first place.
imma give you a challenge: talk to opal. ask them why tf they had to cry some light skin tears all because yung leia compared light skins bullshit to that of white people. like ask opal what they thought was gonna happen when they decided to @ leia in a post.
ask opal why they still silent af when people have came to her in private but she still wanna pretend she ont see that shit.
you needa check ya friend bc clearly she ain’t bouta answer to actual niggas confronting her. like that shit is dead and she too fuckin scary to come forward and admit ha shit.
so i’m asking you to do it. since that’s your friend you need to gon and talk to them and she need to issue an apology for the shit she pulled bc that wasn’t ever cool. she don’t get to speak on light skint feelings bc guess what: light skins don’t face oppression like dark skins do. and her saying that deadass is the same shit along the lines of white people claiming they oppressed when they ain’t.
so you need to gon head and handle ya friends. that’s all I gotta say.
Honestly? Yall better reblog this post. Cause this been some shit!
i get that these y'all friends but a lot of y'all just liking it instead of reblogging it like that ain’t transparent af 🤔
