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[ftmjerryseinfeld]

normalize not celebrating xmas. like every single piece of media involving xmas in any way shape or form has everyone celebrating it like no matter their religion they just like do it for the spirit or the holiday or whatever and if they originally don't it ends w them giving in out of consideration and being guilted. like if you love xmas, that's great. i love bubble tea and i love rosh hashanah, but i don't expect everyone to love them or even experience them. it's not sad for me if someone doesn't enjoy them bc i'm not a self obsessed prick who assumes everyone else enjoys and celebrates the same things i do. pls be respectful this year, pls acknowledge xmas IS NOT a secular holiday, please do not other and exclude those who do not celebrate it. and btw this goes beyond inclusive language.

(goyim and christians/atheists can rb and add if you want but do not clown i am begging you)

[sabitchhh]

[starlightomatic]

fun fact, the talmud cautions men to “keep their wives away from” women who are known to have sex with women, which is amazing because in addition to that just being an incredible line, it implies that a) there are out queer women in the jewish communities in talmudic times!!!! and b) it is natural to assume that a lot of women who are married to men are bi — maybe even natural to assume they all are! also god just what a mood. imagine being gay wandering around 400 CE babylonia seducing all these married women so often that the leading religious authorities have to warn men about you. iconic

[ageneralruckus]

Know what I think is really awesome about Judaism? The term “learning.” It’s such a normal word, but I just love the way we use it. Like, learning includes something so casual as taking out a sefer of some sort and reading it alone. But if we called it “reading” it would feel weird. Because that’s not what it is to us. No matter who we are or how many times we may have learned it, it will always be “learning.” Because no matter what, we’re always able to learn something new. I don’t know. Maybe I’m just looking at this weirdly or reading into it too much. But I love hearing when my friends say “yeah I’m gonna go learn” as opposed to “I’m gonna go read” or not going to learn in spare time at all. I love it. I’m so proud of my judaism and nothing can change that.

[reachabovethetrees]

I just want my fellow Jews and Jew-ish people to know that it’s okay to experiment with mitzvot, to figure out how (or even IF) you’ll be observing them!

If you’re thinking of wearing a kippah, try it! It doesn’t mean you have to wear it forever – it might turn out it’s not for you! If you want to give Kosher a go, but don’t want to overwhelm yourself, just start by cutting something that isn’t kosher out of your diet, and go from there!

Ultimately, we’re all on a journey, and there is not one single person on this planet who is observing every single mitzvah perfectly! Not a single person!!!

Because there are different opinions about how best to observe every mitzvah under the sun. Different communities have different ideas about what constitutes exposing “half an arm” in terms of tzniut (modesty) laws for example. And different communities have different customs for how long to leave it between eating dairy and eating meat!

In Judaism there are very few ABSOLUTES, and this means that wherever you are on your journey, you are doing a great job!

[sapphicjudaism]

This is what we need!

thank you!

[sapphicjudaism]

Hey, this is kinda a weird question but!!! I was wondering if you know if taleisim should be white and blue specifically or if other colors are okay?? I want to knit one with this really pretty pastel rainbow gradient and then run blue embroidery through it but Im not sure if that's okay?? I've found stuff on materials and construction but not on color (I'm kinda geographically isolated rn or I'd ask my rabbi :p)

Hi!

The tallis itself (i.e. the fabric or knit part) is traditionally blue and white, although it completely fulfills the mitzvah to wear one of a different color. I think a pastel rainbow tallis would be beautiful!

However, the actual tzitzis should be white, specifically intended for tzitzis, and tied in a particular way. If you need any help, I can send you a few links on that.

Thank you for asking!

[lesbianb]

muslim wlw supporting jewish wlw… jewish wlw supporting muslim wlw… that’s what i’m all about babie!!!

[raisinchallah]

mishloach manos

[queerplatonicpositivity]

[ ID: Four images with the same design: a navy blue background with a six-pointed star at the top and simple outlines of dreidels, doves, and bagels at the bottom.  Here is the text for the images: #1. “Protect Trans Jewish Youth” #2. “Trans Jews are wonderful” #3. “Respect Trans Jews” #4. “Trans Jews Belong in our communities” ]

Image Set #5: Trans Jews

Image Set #1: Queer Jews

Image Set #2: Ace Jews

Image Set #3: Aro Jews

Image Set #4: Gay Jews

This is true all throughout the year, but I want to highlight these affirmations this Hanukkah.  The phrases on these sets are based on a set by @genderqueerpositivity​ about trans lesbian women.  I have a different identity set for each night of Hanukkah, so if you don’t see your identity here, please be patient. =D

And because I’m not Jewish and I want to center Jewish voices, I’ll be featuring a link to a different @shiraglassman story each night.

Featured Shira Glassman story: The Olive Conspiracy (Mangoverse Book Four, link here)

[queerplatonicpositivity]

[ ID: Four images with the same design: a navy blue background with gold circular point designs at the top and bottom. Here is the text for the images: #1. “Protect Lesbian Jewish Youth” #2. “Lesbian Jews are wonderful” #3. “Respect Lesbian Jews” #4. “Lesbian Jews Belong in our communities” ]

Image Set #8: Lesbian Jews

Image Set #1: Queer Jews

Image Set #2: Ace Jews

Image Set #3: Aro Jews

Image Set #4: Gay Jews

Image Set #5: Trans Jews

Image Set #6: Nonbinary Jews

Image Set #7: Bi and Pan Jews

This is true all throughout the year, but I want to highlight these affirmations this Hanukkah.  The phrases on these sets are based on a set by @genderqueerpositivity​ about trans lesbian women.  I have a different identity set for each night of Hanukkah, so if you don’t see your identity here, please be patient. =D

And because I’m not Jewish and I want to center Jewish voices, I’ll be featuring a link to a different @shiraglassman story each night.

Featured Shira Glassman story: Fearless (Amazon Link | Gumroad Link)

[atmosk-king-moved]

i noticed there wasnt any jewish lesbian flags with the new colours!! so heres some i made :)

[sapphicjudaism]

added a bit to our about regarding conversion, since we’ve gotten a few asks about whether or not people who are considering conversion can follow!

to save you all some clicks: yes, absolutely. any wlw who feels that they have a connection to judaism — whether that is preexisting or newly discovered — is 100% welcome to follow and interact with our blog! 

[sapphicjudaism]

can goyim who are thinking about converting follow? I don’t want to claim to be a part of the community, just sort of get a sense of it I suppose

of course! personally, i can’t speak much on what it’s like to go through the conversion process but if you’re thinking about converting please feel free to follow c:

[sapphicjudaism]

Hi! I haven't been to shul before, but I'm interested in converting, and I'm trying to work up the confidence to email the rabbi and go to shul. What sort of things would be good to know before going? What will people expect of me, should I dress in a particular way, etc.? And what should I say to the rabbi? I'm a nonbinary butch lesbian, and I'm not sure how to bring that up either. Thankyou!!

Hi anon! Thanks for reaching out!

Orthodox shuls typically have something called a mechitza, or separation, between men’s and women’s seats in the service. If you are uncomfortable with that, Conservative and Reform shuls are completely egalitarian, meaning that everyone sits together and Jews of all genders can hold honors, and most welcome nonbinary and GNC gerim (converts) as well.

When you find a shul that feels right to you, email the rabbi, introduce yourself, and tell them that you’re looking into conversion. It may also be best to mention that you are looking for an LGBT-friendly congregation, after doing research on their website or through friends that confirms an accepting environment. The rabbi will instruct you on your next steps,and most likely welcome you to shul for Shabbos, or invite you to a Friday night dinner.

As for actually going to shul, wear something nice-looking and relatively modest. If a button-down shirt and dress pants is something you feel comfortable wearing, that would be appropriate. The majority of the service takes place in Hebrew, even at most egalitarian shuls, but the siddur (prayerbook) will have a translation if you’d like to follow along. Even if you are not yet Jewish, standing and sitting at the appropriate times, taking cues from others, is the best practice. Shabbos morning services are long (mine is 2.5 hours; that’s pretty typical in most movements), but broken up by a Torah reading and a D’var Torah (speech about the weekly Torah reading and/or a topic of general interest). Feel free to step out for any reason, and no need to arrive exactly on time. After the Shabbos morning service, there will probably be a Kiddush luncheon, which you are totally welcome to stay for and eat at! This is the best place to introduce yourself to the shul’s community as a prospective Jew-by-choice.

B’hatzlacha (best of luck) on your Jewish journey!

[progressivejudaism]

Let’s make 5780 the year for a Radical Love that lights up the darkness with sparks of justice, shalom, and overwhelming kindness for every human being, animal, and our planet.

Gmar Hatima Tova! To all of those observing Yom Kippur, I hope that you have a meaningful , reflective, and inspiring day.

[sesamestreet]

An easy and meaningful fast to those who observe it. #YomKippur