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my misophonia always get really bad when i’m anxious or overstimulated even the slightest bit

which wouldn’t be so bad except we currently have a kitten and boy would i love to sleep but he decided to nap all day so now he has Energy for days

#personal #tbd #have to be up early tomorrow and he decided of course time to run around and make noises forever #like sweetie I love you but pleeeeeease #i’m so tired I want to sleep and you keep making so many noises #🫠

bananaheathen

i love discovering new music. but there's actually nothing like rediscovering old music. like, hello me from 5, 10, 15 years ago. so good to see you. same heart, i see. god, i love you.

loveridden1999

i don't care what those tiktok and instagram influencers tell you, have three meals a day!!! have a snack!! have that sweet treat!! have food that makes you feel good!!! especially if you're a woman!! starving yourself to look "desirable" will only make you desirable to people who want you to stay malnourished forever. it's a cycle of misery!!

valtsv

unfortunately i can never hate on a "power of friendship" narrative no matter how corny because the thing is it's literally real

lustcannibalism

ok I endured it. now what!!!!!!!!!

wizardarchetypes

i know it's been said on here and said again but people do so desperately need to genuinely do intentional work to build distress tolerance and start figuring out how to recognize the differences between danger, discomfort, and when a situation that is merely uncomfortable is triggering an emotional flashback in your bodies because it resembles a past situation that actually was dangerous which makes it difficult to realize/believe that this moment is merely uncomfortable.

wizardarchetypes

i spoke to an allistic person who said their autistic classmate had a meltdown in class, during which the autistic classmate collapsed to the floor in the middle of the room, screaming and crying. they said it was "terrifying" and they were arguing for the autistic student to be removed permanently from the program.

when i asked whether their autistic classmate's meltdown was dangerous or merely uncomfortable, they said, "i felt like i was in danger!"

i understand that. but that's not what i asked.

wizardarchetypes

"i shouldn't have to experience that."

yes you should, actually. that's life. upsetting things happen. no one should have to experience any discomfort. but we do. we get stung by bees and sunburns and headaches. we live in bodies in the world.

autistic people are human beings who have the right to exist in society, including during meltdowns. having one class of your entire semester interrupted by a singular meltdown is not anymore of an infringement upon your entitlement to education than having your class interrupted by a fire alarm or cancelled for a snow storm.

one of my peers once experienced a cardiac event 10 minutes into class. it was terrifying. it was desperately upsetting. i was contacted by the school and offered counseling because i happened to be the one who managed the situation until paramedics arrived. everyone was worried about my classmate first and foremost, and then about me. no one blamed anyone, and certainly when my classmate happily recovered and returned to school, no one thought they should be removed from the program.

the difference being that people believe a disabled personal, especially with cognitive disabilities, in crisis are not experiencing something outside of our control, but instead that we are in fact making a choice to make a scene, out of malice.

#so much this #like sorry you’re uncomfortable? autistic people are uncomfortable basically every time they step out the door #sorry sometimes even BEFORE they do depending on their family #learn to be uncomfortable #begging you #i’ve seen so many people I love get mocked and othered and all number of things when stuff like this happens #people need to be better

segamascott

dude i recently got a fulltime job and how the fuck do you post so much and so well while being employed. how is is this possible

i'm a horrible employee 🔥

kariidraws

🌸

#tgcf #hualian #OUGHHHHH #i am Unwell #the way hua cheng looks at him…….yeah that’s your number one devoted believer

tipsytern

was discussing tumblr habits w somebody in a mutual discord server last night and they were so gobsmacked i like to ideally have 100+ posts in my queue at any given time 😭 how many do y’all have in your queue if you use it??

#I never reblog immediately unless it’s a post I made it’s ALWAYS a queue #so I probably have anywhere between 1-25 posts in there depending on how often I’m scrolling #I like having my reblogs spread nicely throughout the day idk why i’ve just always been like that LOL #i’m literally queuing this post right now