11 Things Not to Say to Someone in an Interracial Relationship
1. “How do your parents feel about you dating someone outside of your race?”
Wait. Are my parents supposed to be shocked or angry that I am dating a brilliant guy who treats me like a queen? No? OK, then why does the color of his skin matter?
2. “Don’t you want your kids to look like you?”
How will my children magically not look like me just because I am dating outside of my own race? They might have a different shade of skin or maybe even a different texture of hair, but maybe they’ll have my nose or my build or my smile.
3. “But you look so innocent!”
Oh, so my innocence has been robbed because I am dating someone of another race? Sure, makes total sense.
No, dating a man who treats me with respect is not a phase. I hope your ignorance is though.
5. “You’re never going to be able to date someone [your race] again once they find out you’ve dated someone [other race].”
I am not worried about superficial, small-minded people who would be so concerned as to judge me for what race my ex-boyfriend was. Seriously? I don’t need people like that in my life anyway; we probably wouldn’t get along.
6. Any food-related jokes regarding to the race of their significant other.
No, I do not like hot chocolate just because I am dating an African-American guy. Don’t go there. It’s not even very original.
7. And any fetish phrases.
No, I am not a snowbunny, nor do I have junglefever.
Are we still in third grade where we say stupid things just because it rhymes?
9. “Are you rebelling?” Or, “What did your parents do to piss you off?”
No, I am not rebelling by dating a man who shares the same values as me. My parents are actually pretty happy I’m with a guy who loves me completely, thanks.
10. “But aren’t you worried about [insert racist stereotype here]?”
Please tell me you’re kidding. Where do people come up with this stuff? If I’m in a relationship with him, I’m obviously not worried.
11. “Someone has daddy issues.”
*Sighs really long and loud.* I am dating outside my race because I fell in love with the person I am dating. There isn’t some weird formula as to how I ended up here. We are two humans who enjoy the same things in life. And no, I don’t have daddy issues.
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