Heart in a Box

In 2014 I decided that I want a serious, mature relationship. I have dealt with ( or acknowledged) my issues and I am ready. So I have joined a number of online dating sites in hopes that I can find my #him I will be sharing my stories here. As well as whatever tips that I get and good blog posts

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Sigh....

I haven't posted here in a bit. No real updates tho.

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Stop lying!

I really don't think that dating in any capacity should be as hard as we make it. If the person u like doesn't like u... Move on. Don't make shit up so they will like you. Stop fucking lying.

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the Guy I'm talking to works construction

Him: I'm sticking my caulk in some holes

Me: that's what she said

Him: a girl said that?

Me: oh. I meant that's what he said.

Him: yeah! So... you have a hole for me to caulk?

Me: STAAAAHHHHHPPPPP!!!!

[backofthejazzbus]

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Yaaassssss JoJo!!!!!!!

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Because it is just that simple

I am on a mission to make. Myself happy. That is the most important thing to me at this point in my life. My happiness is priority number one. No compromise.

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I Like sex... but i will remain celibate!! *sobs in corner*

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Yesterday I was on twitter talking about the things I have learned since I decided to wait til I fall in love to have sex again. So I have decided to list them here for you all. 

1) Men suck at waiting. All kinds of pressure coming my way if not outright rejection for even feeling like love is necessary for sex to be gratifying. ( it may not be.. but I'm over casual sex. its boring and i feel like i need more.)

2) I am a horny ass person. I think about sex a lot and I am kinda a pervert.

3) I imagine what sex would be like with people when i meet them. Its odd. ( see number 2)

4) Masturbation doesn't help. It makes it worse.

5) cold showers do not help.

6) Running does help

7) lifting weights do help

8) I'm gonna be sooo skinny the next time I get laid. ( I will also be in love)

Here is gif KING BEYSUS as a reward for reading this. 

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Quick Question

If It wrong that I judge men with Braids in 2014? Like you STILL rock braids B? WHY? 

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So... Am I supposed to care that you messaged me three times needing to know why I said I wasn't interested?? WELP!!!!!!! I Don't

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People have gotten so creative with the pictures they use for their online dating profile. All kinds of funky angles and filters to make themselves look like movie stars. Ugh! I need to see a filter free, straight on picture #soiknowitsreal. I will not be catfished. Im too old and there is too much technology. Skype, oovoo, kik, qik, facetime. What do u really look like. Also!! I dont care what your waves look like. I dont care about ur fave sunglasses or hat. I need to see your eyes and the shape of ur head to determine how attactive I find u. Smh. Too many tricks.

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"So even if I lose it all, I have some much left to give I wont give up. No, NO. My heart's on the front line. I'm not afraid. I will love you like I've never been hurt."  - Demi

Thought it was an appropriate way to kick off the week and the blog. I have finally moved past all the drama and darkness of past relationships and give new people a chance to prove themselves without the shadow of a stranger looming over them. So... starting with a clean slate. While I'm not naive, I'm going into this w/ an open heart and an open mind. 

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This man has gotta go. Like u just sent me a message b? U r old. Stop it!

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Stahhhhhhp!!!!!!!

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6”2. 185. Size 13 shoe = #bae This guy is actually pretty sweet so far. Might try to meet up when I get back from Greenville.

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Me being polite enough to respond respond to a message once should suffice. I dont owe u an explanation.

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Yall gotta stop it.