Scented Sweet Starlight

All my Wibbly Wobbily Sexy Wexy urges in one place.

[paper-wounds]

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[disc90s]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I'm just trying for someone better.

[dogtanian069]

[locked-4-good]

🔒

[mssteph1716]

Ten Commandments for DMing with your Mistress

To have the best online experience

Many subs are skeptical a good D/s relationship is possible online, but it is.  Here’s how.

Learn Her schedule and DM when She is likely to be online.

Be consistent.  At least one DM per day.  One DM every 5-10 days is just annoying.

Don’t wait for Her to DM you.  Initiate to show interest and readiness to serve.

It always takes more words than you think.  2-4 words are seldom helpful.  Communicate fully. (Using a phone to DM is less helpful - you tend to keep it too short. A laptop/keyboard is better.)

Follow Mistress’ guidance on the frequency and nature of your DMs.  Tell Her your thoughts fully, to give Her something to respond to and control.  Then accept that control and adapt.

DM if you’re there, even if you’re pretty sure She is not.  If She’s interested, She’ll see you and respond to it later.

Don’t assume all the captions are absolutely true of Her.  If She’s real, She’ll have Her own ideas.  Be willing to adjust your in-head fantasies to what She wants of you.

If She’s away for a while, respect Her time.  Don’t get demanding.

Be honest, of course, or there’s little point.  Do you want a real relationship or just a fantasy / amusement? Don’t tell Her you’re doing things you aren’t.  Do not tell Her you are not doing things that you are doing.  If you do this, you are just using Her as your own fantasy.

Tell Her your limits.  If She’s real, She’ll respect them.

[harietcd]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I don't expect anyone else to go along with my dreams.

[bishopdane]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

Sometimes it means you are unable to be anyone else.

[gymbunnycandiehart]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I don't really have any good friends. It's my fault for pushing everyone away.

[tgatbc]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I have to think about this.

[chetalicious-awesomer]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

And again.

[bishopdane]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

Gotta keep trying.

[gouinisme]

"why is all trans music [insert modern genre] why can’t we ever make rap or country or something" <- person who has never so much as attempted to listen to anyone but the top 3 trans artists

[gouinisme]

this is absolutely an invitation to tell me about some cool trans bands btw. TELL ME ABOUT THEM

[omegasomeone]

here's a small list of trans bands/artists i listen to! (round 2 because tumblr deleted my 1st draft)

this is mostly off the top of my head, will update as i remember more

rok & dudu - rap - french

a duo of rappers i had the chance of chatting with after a concert! rok is a trans man

THÉA - hyperpop - french

i went to one of her concerts this year! i bumped into one of my siblings that i didn't know was going too and came out to them that day

rok, dudu and THÉA are friends and have made a few songs together

graphy-T - electro/hyperpop - french

a friend introduced me to their music! they're a duo of two women, one of them is trans

changeline - trap - english, french

her songs are literally so good i love her music so much

the transatlantics - alternative rock - english, french (only in the intro of one song so far)

band that was formed last year, composed of kayla @kaylasartwork, bubble @bubbleverseart, and leïla (who doesn't have a tumblr blog afaik). i am impatiently waiting for them to have a concert close(ish) to where i live so that i can buy the cd of their debut album, aptly named the transatlantics

NOAHFINNCE - pop rock/pop punk - english

i only recently started listening to his music, so i don't really have any anecdotes; what i can tell you though, is that his music ROCKS. he's a trans man

jer - ska, rap - english

this person singlehandedly revived my love for ska. i love their texts

fem&m - ‘a mood’ - english

i discovered her music because someone sent me a link to a vid of her making a 9/11 joke. no, i am not kidding. her music scratches an itch in the back of my brain that i can't really explain

feel free to expand this list!

[gymbunnycandiehart]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

This blog has become my almost daily meditation.

[vexheart]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I'm still going strong but nothing seems to be changing.

[gymbunnycandiehart]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

Being feminine always feels better than being masculine.

[sissy-lisas-dream]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

It hasn't happened yet.

[crinolinefandom]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I would love to be a housewife.

[black-white-and-leather]

[scentedsweetsstarlight]

I haven't had one for a while.