I just want to talk about this since ive been thinking about this topic for over a year now. you may disagree with me and thatâs okay, everyone is entitled to their own opinion but if you feel attacked, maybe you are âone of theseâ people (âcause why would you feel attacked if it isnĂ€t about you?)
When I joined the Pentaholic fandom for about 3 years ago on twitter (that I now have left for personal reasons), I quickly realized that there are some people that live in the US who has the privilege (money and location) to get meet & greet at every show theyâre at.
Thereâs nothing wrong with that! If you have the money and are able to go to their concerts everytime theyâre near you, go for it, I would too (if they EVER come to my country which seems highly unlikely). Many people misunderstands, they think that people are bitter just because some people gets to meet them more than one time, which is not why people are bitter.
What makes us other bitter is that SOME (not all) of those who meets them multiple times are rubbing it in our face in a very ugly way. Of course we are jealous but we are also civilized to not shut them off âcause we donât want to ruin and be negative over their experience. Concerts makes me happy, seeing other have fun on concerts makes me happy. What does NOT make me happy is when people are bragging their fullest about their experience. Uploading a m&g selfie is not bragging, but uploading 10000 is.
What is an ugly behavior imo:
- âThey recognized me, again!â everytime youâve been on their concert (ehm yeah duh if they knew who you were last time you met them ofc they know who you are now you donât have to ALWAYS remind people that youâre âspecialâ.
- Think that youâre a better or a bigger fan just because you have to money (and location) to go to concerts and buy merch.
- Tweet EVERY SINGLE DETAIL about your experience and what PTX said to you.
- Tell people to start earn their own money if they want to go to concerts (this is pretty common actually and it makes me so mad everytime. People are in school, some are too young, some people are living in countries where PTX never been and so on. At least be aware of your privilege, please.
âCause yes, it IS a privilege on some way. Either you have the money (and a job), or you live in the US, or you are able to visit another country to see them live.
- Call out sad people as jealous or rude. What the f*ck? Of course people are jealous when the same persons over and over again meet their faves AND are getting it rubbed in their faces? And Iâve never seen someone being rude to someone over this.
Seriously, why do people upload this 10 million tweets and photos about their experience? People who just are genuinely happy uploads one, maybe two photos and are tweeting somthing in style with âThis was the best day of my life, I love youâ and I can gurantee you that 10/10 would be happy for you.
But isnât it clear that when people uploads tweet after tweet after tweet (and also 3 months later), they do it to brag? The only people who will be happy for them is the people who also have met PTX one or more times. Listen to Kendrick Lamar and BE HUMBLE.
Go to as many concerts you want and can and Iâll be happy for you, but I donât want to hear that youâre Mitchâs favorite fan (as if he has one) âcause thatâs just rubbish and stupid. I can assure you that itâs very obvious when someone is just genuinely hapy AND humble and when someone is happy but wants to brag about it.
EDIT: Iâm sorry about all the typos, I wrote this on an ipad this morning before school lol
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