Bondage is the art of restraint. It is not pup play. It is not rubber. It is not leather and it is not slavery and it drives me crazy when people I meet constantly try and force those stereotypes on me.
I donāt think a lot of these guys realise that not only am I not into those things but theyāre actually a turn off. You can be the hottest guy on earth but tell me youāre into pup play or wanna wear a rubber gimp suit and my desire to see you tied up vanishes. Completely. Forever. My eyes see you in a different light and that canāt be undone. My fantasies lie in reality where the average man you see on the street gets bound and gagged. Put that man in leather chaps or a harness gag and I just think urgh. Itās a personal thing I know but after 13 years of doing this Iām just tired of having to explain that to people. Over and over and over.
I have absolutely nothing against kinks, fetishes and lifestyle choices. Nothing at all. Different strokes for different folk but tieguyuk is my website and for over a decade people have pushed and pushed and pushed their lifestyle choices on me as if Iām duty bound (no pun intended) to participate in them. I donāt want to. Please get it in your head. It isnāt because I donāt know what Iām missing.
Youāre into what you are into. Iām into what I am into.
So instead of acting like I donāt know what Iām missing please just accept that I am very very aware of the choices I can make in this world and I am very capable of making them without your pity, ignorance or arrogance.
You wouldnāt force feed someone an apple if they only liked oranges just because you preferred them. Though I dare say thereās a fetish for thatā¦
Please reblog this if you agree!
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