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shygentlemangr2001

Someone? Please? 🥺🫣

I just want tooo giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and giggle and-

theminipotat

I want someone to take their time with me. To study every inch of my body, and gauge my reactions. I want to be teased about how ticklish I am. I want someone whose purpose is to spend hours learning what makes me writhe and squeal, and taking satisfaction in it. And just when I think they’re done, I want to hear them say “now that I’ve mapped out your ticklish body, time to start on the real fun 😈”, and proceed to wreck me until I’m a breathless puddle of ticklish lust 😘

faeswitch

If a woman tickled me I’d be an absolute mess, send tweet.

silverlers

god I want to be gang-tickled so badly

multiple hands, multiple techniques

all with the singular motive of coaxing as much laughter and agony out of me as possible

bloopsticklespace

im not an insecure person but when it comes to tickling I 100% am insecure, it's such a silly childish thing yet I'm very insecure about it.

😭 I want tickles but am to insecure

tickleharmony

To those who wished me unwell,

Thank you.

And I genuinely mean that.

Because if everything hadn’t happened the way it did, I would probably still be trapped in the same exhausting circles, normalizing the same toxic behavior, tolerating the same fake morality, politics, cliques, performative friendships, and constant emotional drain that I somehow convinced myself was “community.”

And honestly?

I don’t even know how I had the energy for it.

Looking back now feels surreal. Like finally walking out of a room you didn’t realize was slowly suffocating you.

One thing that hit me especially hard was remembering a moment when I had started introducing some people from the community to my family.

My husband looked at me afterward and said, “Wow… I think you’ve lowered your standards.”

At the time, I didn’t fully understand what he meant. I think I was too close to everything to really see it clearly yet.

But after everything that happened, after all the conversations and realizations and truths I finally had to admit out loud, I understood exactly what he was trying to tell me.

And strangely enough, the entire situation ended up creating more honesty, openness, and understanding in my personal life than I’d ever had before.

What felt devastating at the time turned out to be a purge.

A necessary one.

Because losing access to certain people and spaces forced me to finally see them clearly. And once I saw it, I couldn’t unsee it.

The illusion cracked.

And after that, so many things suddenly clicked into place.

But the beautiful thing about endings is that sometimes they clear space for better things to finally arrive.

And wow… did they ever.

The quality of people in my life now is something I can barely put into words. The friendships. The kindness. The professionalism. The loyalty. The support. The authenticity. The peace.

No weird social hierarchies. No gatekeeping. No exhausting social theater disguised as connection.

Just real people. Real friendships. Real support.

I think some people genuinely expected all of this to break me.

Instead, my life quietly upgraded itself.

And the funniest part is that if none of this had happened, I would never have met the people who now mean the absolute world to me.

So sincerely…

Thank you.

Some endings are not punishments.

Some are course corrections.

shyleesecret

“awww is that someone’s favorite spot?”

“right there? yeah?? poor baby”

“do you like it when i get right here? it sure sounds like you do”

tigglish

good cop bad cop except it’s a ler couple where one partner is super sweet and coos at you with gentle teases and praise as they lightly explore what spots make you giggle while the other partner mocks you and targets any spot that makes you scream

stellstickles

Tickling things I loooooove:

- forcing me to say things while I’m being tickled (sorry, asking for more tickles, saying I love being tickled, thanking the ler for the tickles, etc.)

- being told I have to choose where they tickle me or they’ll choose for me

- silly little tickle games

- being told how ticklish I am and how they can’t believe I’m really this ticklish

- the ler playing dumb “why are you laughing so hard?” “I’m barely touching you?” “Sorry does this tickle?”

- being told how I can’t go anywhere and I have no choice but to just take their tickles and suffer

- the ler acknowledging when they find an obvious bad/death spot on me

- really any kind of teasing. That shit drives me INSANE and makes everything tickle so much more.

blushy-tigerrr

where are yall finding these irl friends outside of the community that will still tickle you wtf i want some pls share

thesoftestler

male lee appreciation post

Watching men's reactions to tickling is *chef's kiss*. When they:

Blush and get all shy and flustered, making a man melt is too cute!

Try to hide their giggles to appear all tough

Squirm and wriggle around

Finally let out their adorable reactions! Squeaks, belly laughs, squealing, snorting!

Whine! Poor ticklish baby!

Beg! Men begging will never not sound cute!

Do literally anything to show they're ticklish and enjoy being tickled under my fingers!

Also - real talk here.

Obviously all lees are beautiful, but something about those boys just hits different. Society still tells men they need to be tough. So many men repress their struggles or hide their vulnerability because they don't feel it'll be accepted.

So to have those boys all vulnerable is such a significant thing. To watch them let their guard down, to be a soft place to land, somewhere they can come and just be cute, and blushy, and giggly, and ticklish is more than a privilege. To be a place where they feel safe enough to give up control is a such beautiful thing.

I often see videos of male lees being tickled so roughly. Almost relentlessly, like actual torture. And its so common to see them mocked for having reactions. Fair enough if that's what they like, but they also need to be able to access that sweet side of tickling. The comforting kind.

They need places where softness and vulnerability are praised, places where they can be babied and cared for and treated gently. Where they'll be praised instead of mocked (don't get me wrong, you'll still get teased, but playfully and lovingly 😉) and where they'll be reassured throughout.

I'm glad my blog has been a place like that for some already, and I hope it will continue to do so 😘

magiciian

Craving to be tickled until I cry

tenacious-teasing

Two lers and a milking machine? Poor lucky boy~

minors and ageless/blank blogs blocked on sight

hiddengiggles

Things people don’t always remember before playing with a partner:

Stretch. Whether you’re in bondage or you’re flailing about, your body is going to have a work out. Warm it up if you can! Stretch your arms, back, legs, neck, and shoulders at least. It sucks when you have to safeword because you pulled something

Talk about ALL the aftercare things. You’re not always going to be having intense “sessions”, but that doesn’t mean you won’t need aftercare! It’s good to have a transition. But you cant JUST talk about the good stuff, there’s more to it. Be sure to talk about the things you like (cuddling, playing with hair, praise for your performance, etc), the things you don’t like (being wrapped up in blankets, laying on your back, etc), and how you might respond to the end of play (tears, anxiety, difficulty speaking, etc)! If your partner sees you’re suddenly non-verbal, you don’t want them to panic just because you’re coming down from the high!

Expect something to go wonky. Your life is not a well-scripted porn. Someone’s body is going to make a funny sound at an intense time and you’re going to get distracted laughing at it. You’re going to try a position that really doesn’t work for you. You’re going to get scratched by their glasses when you’re trying to be romantic. That’s OKAY. It won’t be perfect, but hopefully it will be fun and exciting and satisfying.

Talk about your current hard limits. Playing is sometimes a great way to push your boundaries in ways you like! Hopefully you have an idea of where your soft limits are. But hard limits will bring the fun to an abrupt end if attempted. Talk about what you absolutely don’t want. Remember that soft limits can be hard limits on different days! If you’re normally nervous about having your feet played with, but today you absolutely don’t want them touched, say so!

Hydrate. This is silly, I know, but your body needs more love if you’re going to put it through anything more than day to day life. You may not be a pro at drinking enough water most days, but you sure as hell better try before messing about with someone else! Think of it like you’re going to run a marathon: don’t eat anything heavy an hour before to avoid getting sick, hydrate so you’re ready to sweat and/or produce other bodily fluids, know when you need to slow down.

Mental check-in. I know I’m not the only kinky kid with mental illness. Your girl has wicked anxiety and the occasional bout of chronic depression popping in to say hello. When you aren’t feeling mentally up for the day is NOT the time to dive into kink/fetish/intense play. In the same way that I won’t have caffeine on a day when my anxiety is acting up, I won’t get myself tied down to a bed for a play session when my brain isn’t prepared. Don’t send yourself into a spiral. (That being said, softer play with orgasms can be an excellent brain boost, but only try that with people you trust completely with your well-being in case it goes poorly.)

tummylovinglee101

THIS!!!

nixxiesoles

Keep me restrained to the bed, your personal tickle toy for the day

Come and go as you please—stealing breathless laughs and helpless moans whenever the mood strikes, pushing me right to the edge until I can barely take it… only to walk away again, leaving me flustered, aching, and waiting in anticipation for the next wave of torment to begin..

theminipotat

This, this right here

thesoftestler

Side hustle

Thinking about renting an office and decking it out like a massage parlour, but for tickling.

The bed has restraints and stocks, the drawers are full of tickle tools. I'd only need a waiting area and a treatment area. Fill out a form with your tickle spots and preferred tools, decide on your chosen time and come spend either 30, 60 or 90 minutes getting all those worries tickled away 😘

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