Confession: I’m a feeder, but lately I’ve been dabbling in stuffing and gaining more and I kind of love it. I’m just nervous people will say shit like “I knew you were always gonna be a fat girl, not a true feeder” instead of supporting me like I would want. I’ve already barely posted photos this past year because I was tired of people telling me I was getting fat without trying to. And now that I’m actually indulging, it just feels nerve wracking.
I just wanted to say that. Hi I hope you’re doing well 💕
It is surprising how the fat kink space can be so judging when a feeder/fa gains, almost as if they haven't learned that commenting on people's weight is a hard no.
The feeder to feedee pipeline is quite common, and there's nothing wrong if you suddenly discovered and indulge on your feedee side. You can be both and that's totally fine, we don't have to "marry" to one side and stick to it until death, the kink space should be about pleasure and self discovery.
The people who are decent, will respect your choice, darling. This is your body and your life, you are the only one who's gonna experience this through your own eyes.
I know this might not mean much, but I fully support your feedee journey, especially since it is already bringing you joy.
And for those who say or think "yOu aRen'T a trUe fEeDer" just because someone gains weight for whatever reason, sybau and get out of my blog, this is a fat positive space.
Sorry for the long reply, darling. I sincerely hope you're feeling better 💖















