SECRETLY Stacey Shhh!

I have also had this incessant need to display the “real” side of me. It’s something I’ve been struggling with for the longest time. Especially since social media turned into a job agency. I wanted people to see the real me without jeopardizing the possibility of future work opportunities. It seems so silly. But I come from the old school when maintaining a professional image was super important. It’s so hard for me to let go of those old ways. So I decided to create a platform where I can be just that…myself. At least until it doesn’t matter to me anymore about what future clients are looking for. Even writing this now it seems ridiculous. But I’m comfortable with this idea I’ve come up with.

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I Do What I Feel Like Doing | Stacey Ciceron

Stayed up until 2 something this morning when I literally had to put myself to sleep. I learned a very amazing lesson about myself after getting soooo much accomplished in one night. The lesson I learned is... sometimes you have to do what you feel like doing and not always be logical. What I mean by that is I had prioritized my tasks in order of importance. I was challenged to have my first digital product together for my new online business by April 15th 2017. Seems like a simple challenge except that I am starting from scratch. Domain name, website, email, social platforms, logo design, blog, topic for the product, content, email marketing software, content for email marketing...etc. Not to mention the 4 new coaching clients I brought on(we'll have to chat about that another time! Lol) However, all I could think about was my own website and blog. Questions... once I create this product, where will the customers go to buy it? If they were to start researching me now, what would they find? Would it be consistent? I have also had this incessant need to display the "real" side of me. It's something I've been struggling with for the longest time. Especially since social media turned into a job agency. I wanted people to see the real me without jeopardizing the possibility of future work opportunities. It seems so silly. But I come from the old school when maintaining a professional image was super important. It's so hard for me to let go of those old ways. So I decided to create a platform where I can be just that...myself. At least until it doesn't matter to me anymore about what future clients are looking for. Even writing this now it seems ridiculous. But I'm comfortable with this idea I've come up with. Which brings me back to my initial lesson. I stayed up all night gatherings all of my old blog posts and categorizing them with hashtags. This made me feel so good. Looking at my old posts made me have deeper perspective on my journey which apparently I tried documenting at least three times including this one. I tailored the blog to reflect the real me. Each tab covers a different area of my life. It took hours to put together and there is still more to do. New bio pic, logo, new content and a fresh header. After finishing up with my blogging stuff, everything started to come together in my mind and became much clearer. I knew what I was going to do and where I was going to post what. Which was a big confusion. Solution:My personal non professional stuff will be on my "secretly stacey" platform(Instagram and blog) my professional stuff will continue to go on the original stacey ciceron platform and anything to do with business development for beauty pros will go onto my textured hair Professionals platform. Now that I got that off of my chest I transitioned into creating a landing page on my website for my new digital product(that I haven't created it yet) www.staceyciceron.com/textured-hair-professionals . Next I created a Facebook ad to advertise my free webinar(which I haven't created yet). From there I completely outlined my online course. I'm left to wonder if I had started with the online course, which I had no interest in working on at the moment, but was very important in terms of priority, would I have gotten all of these things accomplished? I really don't think so. I feel so proud myself and have such a sense of satisfaction. So from now on when I get those nudges I will follow them. They don't always make sense to you or people watching you but it's truly a gift from God! Amen

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#washday #naturalhair

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Day 3: After working 5 consecutive 12 hour days it felt great to take a drive on a beautiful day!☀️ #100hapydays #sparkjoy #ssc100happydays

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Just ended my 4 day project that was shot in a 3 story mansion on Long Island. It reminded me of the abundance that is within my reach. Sometimes we go through the everyday routine of our lives and don't stop to think about the world that's happening around us. We get caught up in our own little bubble. It's wonderful to know that it is possible for me (really ALL of us) to have access to the same levels of success, wealth, prosperity and abundance as the ones that have it. It is a matter of changing your mindset(renewal of the mind). I'm getting more and more excited about the blessings that are on its way!!!💸💸💸

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Good morning!☀️ Woke up this morning feeling blessed beyond measure. On August 1,2016 I walked away from my salon business to pursue my dream of being a FULL-time freelance hairstylist. Although I've been in the industry for 13 years and I achieved an enormous amount of success as a freelancer( runway, print, TV, film, editorials,celebrities) I felt that the only way to truly take my career to the next level was to jump into it 💯! I did it! Like Steve Harvey said" put your gift on your back and JUMP! It wasn't as easy as I thought it would be. After leaping of the cliff, I did get a few cuts and bruises lol. But now I think I am finally in a good place🙌🏾 I am open, willing and ready for what the future holds. Thanks #amandawilsonmakeup for provoking the idea to let folks know the TRUTH🙏🏾

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I Flat ironed My Hair After 2 Years of Being Natural! | Stacey Ciceron

 In this video I show the process of me Flat ironing my natural hair for the first time after years of NO HEAT! I did it LIVE on Facebook so there were no tricks involved.lol  I don't want to ruin the surprise so make sure you watch to the end!! 

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How I Stretch My Natural Hair Fro | Stacey Ciceron

I love the look the of a twist out on my natural hair but the challenge has been to keep the stretched out look over night.  I think I found the solution.

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Trust The Process | Stacey Ciceron

Written February 2, 2017

My challenge over the last few months has been to trust this very same process and not get into my own way. What does it really mean to trust the process anyway? It means allowing the story of MY life to unfold and develop EACH day. Unfolding(savoring it)...such a beautiful word, begins with just ONE GOD idea! You see there are good ideas and there are GOD ideas. Many of us feel that we can't live this way due to cost of living expenses, personal obligations, fears, limiting mindsets... or ALL of the above. It takes a whole lot of courage to get up everyday and grow and explore that GOD idea. Sometimes that idea does not measure up to the persona or professional image that you've worked so hard to establish in the public eye. That's where the TRUST comes into play. You have to TRUST and BELIEVE that what GOD has planned for you is far greater than the good ideas you have planned for yourself.

WHAT'S YOUR GOD IDEA?

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4 Tips I Use to Keep Moisture in My Natural Hair | Stacey Ciceron

People with kinky, coily and curly hair are constantly combating their hairs natural predisposition of dryness. It can be a frustrating process until you find the right products, methods and tools you need to give you your desired results.

Here are 4 quick tips I use to keep moisture in my natural hair.

1.I use a wide tooth comb to detangle

Before washing my hair, I wet it down with water and conditioner, part it into sections and detangle with a wide tooth comb.

You loose on average 50-150 strands per day.  After not combing for a few days my hair collects the shed hair because of my texture it doesn’t easily slide out. Detangling before washing gets rid of shed hair reducing the amount of tangling you experience during the wash process

2.I co wash more and shampoo less

co washing is a term that means I simply use conditioner to cleanse my hair instead of hair shampoos. It’s been proven that frequently shampooing the hair increases dryness. Dryness is an issue that people with my hair type battle with constantly. Co washing is a way to gently cleanse the hair without stripping it of its natural oils and moisture

3.Steam treatments are non negotiable!

I steam treat my hair at least once per week. It’s like a facial for your hair. So instead of sitting under a traditional dryer that shoots out dry air, the steamer releases water vapors that seep deep into the hair’s cuticle layer allowing moisture and conditioning masques/treatments to penetrate the hair at a deeper level, giving lasting immediate results.

4.Protect your hair and preserve your styles at night

I use a silk or satin bonnet at night to lock in moisture and protect my hair from drying out over night.

Most of us lay our heads on cotton pillowcases, which over time, dry out our skin and hair. The satin cap serves as a barrier between the pillowcase and your hair.  Also, after applying natural oils or creams and setting my hair at night, the satin cap helps to preserve my hairstyle seal in moisture.

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My Journey | Stacey Ciceron

Written September 27, 2016

First off, just know that if I had enough space on my iphone, I would be recording a video instead of typing up this blog.  You see,  I thought I was being lazy and procrastinating when it came to making new blog posts, when I realized, different strokes for different folks.  Writing outside of short blurbs or descriptions is just not my thing.  So moving forward, I have to find a better way(more ME) to get all this info off of my chest(mind really).

So, I made the big decision to take my gift and jump off the cliff as Steve Harvey advised.  I paid very little attention to the part of the video where he says that most will not fly immediately after jumping(laughing to myself).  Apparently, I should have! I have been on a very emotional rollercoaster since taking the leap.  Needless to say, I was one that did not soar after leaping.  I was one that got cuts and bruises scraping up on the edges of the mountain and rocks on the way down( or what appears to be down).

When I worked full time in the salon and freelanced part time, it seemed as if the jobs were rolling in.  Switching to full time freelancing was the next logical step.  What had happened was... after August 1st jobs started falling through, confirmed gigs were cancelled and I had a LOT of free time on my hands.  Sure at first it was quite liberating.  I cleaned and organized my house, I caught up on laundry, I updated my resume, built my own website... stuff like that.  Listen up when I tell you,  there is NOTHING like working!  At least for ME.  Especially, when you LOVE what you do.  I felt like I was losing my mind and I felt so UNgrateful for feeling that way. I had SO much to be grateful for.  I was so caught up in my feelings.  Things that never bothered me all of a sudden became life issues.  I began to consider my age..."why am I starting so late", "I'm the oldest one in the group of youngin's", "I don't know who anybody is", "at this age, I should be able to support myself financially".  I can keep going for days. I found it hard to get out of bed.  I was sad all time. I questioned all my decisions.  I felt hopeless. People, especially family and friends reading this would probably not know if I didn't share this.  I had to mask everything to keep things functioning as normal. Remember, I am still Mommy, wife,friend, colleague.  I had people that I couldn't let down in my life. Oh, and of course, when decisions seemed so detrimental to me, there was no one to answer my calls, texts or emails(in the heat of the moment at least). I was able to connect with a few trusted peeps once I cooled down. When that happens I always take it as a sign that I need to go within. I had to stop looking to outside sources to give me answers I knew that GOD had already provided by placing them in my spirit. Here are a few things that helped me along the way: Oh! and it turns out that I actually enjoyed writing this blog post after all... very therapeutic.

1.Shanel Cooper-Sykes Money Miracle Week 3

When I was about to leave my business and I was all excited about the money that was about to pour in. I got powered up with Shanel Cooper-Sykes. She shared spiritual and financial principals for acquiring and growing wealth. It was nice to be a part of that type of community for a whole week. I really enjoyed the live broadcasts on Facebook.

One of the book that we were assigned to read on the Miracle week challenge was

2.Think and Grow Rich - Napolean Hill  

It was a book I started and never finished several times. But like Shanel said "if you've read this book and you're still not rich yet, you need to read it again!" Lol. The book reminded me how powerful the mind truly is. So a man thinketh so is he. You have to have a clear purpose and goal along with determination. Faith and believing that you've already received your blessing is a huge part of manifesting.

The person that recommended the miracle week challenge to me mentioned that the principles being taught were almost identical to the ones taught in

3. Secrets of The Millionaire Mind- T Harv Ecker

That triggered me to get that book and read it. This one resonated with me the most. I felt that I had the principles of think and grow rich down packed and I was ready to manifest the dough and needed to know what to do with it. What I found most interesting about this read was that it spent time breaking down the effects of past mental programming and the way we view wealth and the wealthy.

So here was ready for the abundance and nothing was rolling in #frustrated

While looking up millionaire mind videos online, I bumped up on a family called the unstoppable family. They are a family that travels most of the year while running a million dollar business. They gave all the credit to Tim Ferris and his book

4. 4 Hour Work Week Tim Berris  

You know I had to get it!

This book talked similarly about the mental programming and ideas we have about wealth and retirement. There's a community of people out there called the "new rich" that I'm dying to join. New way of thinking and acquiring wealth mainly online.

With all this new flow of information coming in. It was both exciting and frustrating. I felt that I did everything I was supposed to do. I followed all the steps. I JUMPED! How long was it going to take for me to soar. Was I doing something wrong. Was it a matter of having more patience? God heard me! That same Sunday after driving myself bat crazy all week,

6. TD Jakes- The Potter's House Sermons

Bishop TD Jakes preached a sermon that gave me LIFE! I mean completely resuscitated me. Every single word that came out of his mouth was for ME! No seriously after reading this watch it and you'll see what I'm talking about.The sermon was titled "rerouting".  I was so excited about that word that I shared it to friends and on Facebook. I was on a high. I had it all figured out. Then I realized that... Wait... I've already done everything on the checklist. Smh(shaking my head) I was right back in my feelings. MY FEELINGS...

5. The Secret- Rhonda Byrnes

This book helped me to remember how important it is to "feel" good.  When you feel good you attract good things. Keep a look out for my next blog post that will follow up on the effects of feeling good and trying to maintain this feeling consistently.

7. BIBLE app

This should of been the first on my book list.  The Bible which is so conveniently located on my whole along with my whole life, serves as a constant resource, reference and reminder of God's Words, promises and inspiration.

Can't wait to look back on these post and see my growth!

Links to books I read below

1.Shanel Cooper-Sykes Money Miracle Week 3

2.Think and Grow Rich - Napolean Hill

3. Secrets of The Millionaire Mind- T Harv Ecker

4. 4 Hour Work Week Tim Berris

5. The Secret- Rhonda Byrnes

6. TD Jakes- The Potter's House Sermons

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Welcome to My Blog...Again | Stacey Ciceron

Written August 3, 2016

On August 1, 2016 I took a leap of faith! After being in the salon business since the age of 14 and a salon owner for the past 3 years, I decided to close my salon to pursue my career as a full time freelance hairstylist.  This decision has been exhilarating and nerve wrecking. As a freelance artist you never know when your next paycheck is coming. I gave a up a huge clientele with a very predictable range in salary. This blog will chronicle my journey to becoming the "it" girl, Celebrity Stylist and/or highest version of myself.  My plans are holistic.  I realized that growth takes a balance of mind body and soul. I would love for you to share this journey with me! again! lol

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#Tbt Throwback to the baby #FRO 2 years ago! I remember wanting my #hair to grow out so badly so that I could have long luscious #natural hair. But now looking back those were my best hair days ever. #twa Low maintenance, literally #washandgo ... what a perfect life metaphor. You never realize what you had until you don't have it anymore!🤔 growing my #naturalhair has taught me a lot about patience and commitment. There's a certain level of stick-to-it-ness that you need to accomplish any goal. Cherish every moment of the journey.

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@sheamoisture #sxsw #everybodygetslove #amillionwaystoshea

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Fun at WERK!✌🏾️#behindthescenes #hairstylist #setlife

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How many ways can you tie a turban?🤔 #behindthescenes @desigual shoot #setlife #hair #makeup #fashion #models #texturedhair #amika #bumbleandbumble #hottoolspro #desigual #bludry

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Ready to rock and roll! #behindthescenes @desigual shoot #setlife #hair #makeup #fashion #models #texturedhair #amika #bumbleandbumble #hottoolspro #desigual #bludry