Behind Every Smile, there's an Untold Thoughts

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Someday

Somewhere out there I know there's a person who can accept me for what I'am.

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KAIBIGAN. Kaibigang tunay bakiy hindi kita matagpuan? Mayroon man pero tila hindi totoo. Kaibigan, bakit hindi kapa nagpapakita? O kay tagal na kitang hinihintay. Kaibigang nariyan, sa lungkot, hirap at kapighatian man. O kaibigan, sadya nga talagang wala ng mapagkakatiwalaan sa mundong to. Tanging Diyos at pamilya mo lamang. O kaibigan, kaibigan, kaibigan.

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parang may kakaiba na.

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Pakiramdam ko, hindi na ako to.

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It hurts.

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Pakiramdam ko, hindi na ako belong :(

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Kung pwede lang sana ulitin ng buhay ko, hindi sana ganito ang kinahantungan.

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LIFE is a “MESS”? NO. It teaches you how to be “STRONG”

I just want to share my life with you guys although you don’t know me. I just want to express the things that I encounter and most of them is not really good. Happy moments? Yes, I have those but rare. Sadness? Yes, because its part of life, Grief? Of course most of us experiencing it. Hardships, hopelessness, trials? Very Yes, because that is life. How can you earn strength if you don’t experience these all? Am I right? But, these kinds off situation is coming to your life in the right time. You know why? I learn to my experiences that you’ll see what’s the worth of life if you feel these situations, painful, worst painful, and the feeling that you are alive but you’re dead inside. Different pain in different situation of trials and you’ll gain something from it. Believe me. You’ll gain it also in God’s Perfect Time. Just trust in him.

I would like to start my story when I was 5 years old.

1. When I was five years old, my mother found out that my father is cheating on her. This is the painful part of my life being a child because who’s child would like to have a broken family? Even if, you say that we’re together but behind  of that we’re not. And hey! look until now that I’am 19 years old, there’s no changes at all and I’m used to it.

2. When I was 16 years old, I fell in love with a guy that I hated the most. Idk, it just happen on December 31, 20** and after one and eight years. He left me. He left me with scars, pain and sadness. He was the first man I loved that much. He was my first love and heartbreak. I will never forget how I’m desperate to googled “how to move on”. It hit me so much. That is the most pain that I ever felt in my life. You’re alive, breathing, talking, walking, but you’re definitely dead inside. My heart is aching, I feel the pain so much pain that I can’t live without him but he choose to leave me. I thought his reason is acceptable but the truth is he’s just using excuses for him to leave me and after three weeks, I discover that he’s with other girl.The pressure of anger inside me increases but even if I get angry there’s no used of it. It won’t changed the fact that he left me. 3 Month Rule, I believe in that rule and after three months, I feel little better. In five months, I feel after shock because he  texted and call to say sorry for all the bad things he made but after a year now. I ca say that I feel better. I can’t feel the pain anymore even if I reminisce that pain but I won’t forget my first heartbreak.

3. And now that I’m 19 years old, I experience “FAILURE” in academics. I got dropped in one of my subject last semester because last semester is the heavy sem for all marketing major having for major subject (Advertising plan, feasibility study, strategic plan and services plan) but this four major I passed it. The one that I got dropped is minor subject. Idk why, I do my best to pass that subject but it just happen. And now, I’m taking it again.

4. For the very last experience now, wait don’t get me wrong I know I will experience more not just today but to the current tomorrow’s of my life. But now, I encounter “GRIEF” the feeling that you are broke because your father hasn’t yet got a job and it’s been for two months. It’s like my weekly allowance is 100 per day so 700 per week. So much broke because I’m with my sister we are studying in Manila and we’re apart with our parents. And then, I encounter that I lend money to my friend because she needed it but we have a contract that she must bring it back to me within one week but it takes one week and three days. The three days of it is the most hungry days of my life because I have no money. Literal No money. If I don’t get angry she will not pay it back ASAP. And lastly, tonight someone stole my bag. You know what’s inside of my bag? My laptop, pocket wifi and powerbank. I thank God that I hold my wallet and my phone. The lady who stole it inside the MCDONALDS because I left my bag in the table but my friends is in there. They don’t notice that someone stole my bag because they are busy doing our project proposal. 

And look, If you see through all of my experience it just SAD. So much pain, but I think I’ll gain something from it. 

LIFE is a MESS? NO! It just teach us how to be strong and how to handle things in life. It also bring us to realize how life is important and to encounter and face those suffering and you survive. It just a big privileged because you know you learn from it. You learn something from it. You gain something from it. And you become matured from all of that experience.

I hope it also help you to be strong. Be strong :) Trust in God.

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Empathy isn’t just something that happens to us—a meteor shower of synapses firing across the brain—it’s also a choice we make: to pay attention, to extend ourselves. It’s made of exertion, that dowdier cousin of impulse. Sometimes we care for another because we know we should, or because it’s asked for, but this doesn’t make our caring hollow. The act of choosing simply means we’ve committed ourselves to a set of behaviors greater than the sum of our individual inclinations: I will listen to his sadness, even when I’m deep in my own. To say “going through the motions”—this isn’t reduction so much as acknowledgment of the effort—the labor, the motions, the dance—of getting inside another person’s state of heart or mind. This confession of effort chafes against the notion that empathy should always arise unbidden, that genuine means the same thing as unwilled, that intentionality is the enemy of love. But I believe in intention and I believe in work. I believe in waking up in the middle of the night and packing our bags and leaving our worst selves for our better ones.

Leslie Jamison, The Empathy Exams (via fyp-psychology)

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Some things don’t last forever, but some things do. Like a good song, or a good book, or a good memory you can take out and unfold in your darkest times, pressing down on the corners and peering in close, hoping you still recognize the person you see there.

Sarah Dessen (via quotemadness)

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Crying does not indicate that you are weak. Since birth, it has always been a sign that you are alive.

Brontë, Charlotte. Jane Eyre. (via thequotejournals)

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PSYCHOLOGY MASTER POST #1

As human beings, our greatest incline is to find out how the human psyche works. The enigmatic mind often holds the questions to our truest desires and why we function the way we do. From psychology facts to relationship research and Carl Jung’s famous studies about extroverts and introverts, we introduce a wide range of psychology articles to feed your brain.

23 Psychological Life Hacks

Study Shows That “Male” And “Female” Brains Are A Myth

15 clever psychological tricks that everyone should know

Why Wait? The Psychological Origins of Procrastination

Theories of Motivation

Science Of Persuasion

12 Intriguing Facts About How The Human Brain Functions

Psychologists Explain Why Intelligent People Have Fewer Friends

Scientists Discover That The Human Brain Processes Rejection Like Physical Pain

The Surprising And Varying Kinds Of Intelligence- Which One Is Yours?

Where’s the ‘Real’ You  —  in Your Head or Your Heart?

New Scientific Study Reveals 4 Kinds Of Couples Exist -  Can You Identify Which One You Belong to?

Psychologist Reveals How To Know When You Are Happy

11 Things Introverts Are The Best At

How Negative Thinking Changes Your Brain

The Brain of an Anxious Person Functions Different than Those Without Anxiety. This is How it Affects Your Reality

Empathy Is Actually A Choice

Empathy VS. Sympathy

Researchers find Physical Differences in Empathetic Peoples’ Brains

5 Techniques For Empaths To Prevent Depression And Anxiety

Study Reveals That Those Who Listen to Emotional and Sad Music Are More Empathetic

Hauntingly Beautiful & Sad Music Has the Power To Lift Your Emotions

The Science Behind What Makes an Introvert an Introvert

There Are Four Types of Introverts

Introverts & Extroverts Have Different Brains: Which One Are You?

10 Things About Love Only Introverts Understand

20 Comics Show The Life Of An Introvert

An Introvert’s Guide To Surviving A Breakup

Humorous Charts and Graphs Demonstrate What Being an Introvert Is All About

Science Says People With Less Active Social Lives May Be Happier — If They’re Intelligent

8 Reasons It’s So Hard to Overcome a Tough Childhood

How Unhappy Childhood Experiences Can Affect You Today (And How To Deal With It)

Child Therapist’s List of Top Worries by Age

What Does Your Handwriting Say About You?

Do You Have Aphantasia?

Mental Illness in Fiction

9 Common Errors Authors Make about Psychological Disorders

10 Ways To Be Kinder To Yourself

If “Sorry” Seems To Be The Hardest Word, Say “Thank You”

The Best Way To Solve a Problem: Sleep On It

The Psychology of Color

The Psychology of Fear

Staring Into Someone’s Eyes For 10 Minutes Can Alter Your Consciousness

New Research Says Loners Tend To Be More Intelligent And Loyal Friends

Why Lonely People Stay Lonely

What is the Difference Between a Psychopath and a Sociopath?

11 Things Only People Who Suppress Their Emotions Will Understand

9 Sneaky Causes Of Depression

Why Embracing Emotional Distress is the Best Medicine Sometimes

The Science Behind Aggression: Why We Hurt The Ones We Love The Most

19 Real Life Examples of An Extroverted Introvert

Science Says People Who Enjoy Being Alone Are More Likely To Be Successful

20 Profound Quotes by Carl Jung

A Scientist Placed Tears Under A Microscope. What He Saw Is Astonishing

28  Hilarious Unscientific Graphs about the Reality of Life

The Toxic Attraction Between An Empath And A Narcissist

The 15 Types of Verbal Abuse in a Relationship

The Complicated Reasons Why Modern Relationships Break Easily

The Scientific Reason People Attract Toxic Partners And Emotionally Unavailable People

12 Common Symbols in Dreams and What They Mean

Did You Know That a Separation From a Romantic Partner is Equivalent to Drug Withdrawal?

20 Interesting Facts About Love

Animals Don’t Have Feelings?

13 Impressive Psychology Tricks that Will Make Your Life Easier

The Psychology Of Messy Rooms: The Most Creative People Flourish In Clutter

Psychology Says the Fear of Rejection Can Be a Source of Strength

Multilinguals Experience Personality Change When Using Different Languages

How to Recover From Being Emotionally Burnout

Prone To Depression? Scientists Say It’s Due To Your Creativity. Here is Why…

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Can’t wait for the day that somebody tells me I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to them and they mean it.

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Years ago I cared. Now I don’t. I know I am lost but I don’t want to be found.

Henry Rollins (via quotemadness)

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☯  Harry Potter Aesthetic ➽ Houses

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Good people are like candles; they burn themselves up to give others light.

Turkish Proverb (via quotemadness)