Self- Bondagettes

All about getting captured and teased on your own. Things I am curious about, tried myself or I like to explore. Picutres of self-bondagettes including myself.

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Late Anal Outing

Feeling kinky about myself ever since I need to confess that something really unexpected has taken me ver recently.

Let’s start many years back during the times I got deeper and deeper into bondage and eventually self-bondage. Getting the most of my play and adventures I quickly figured out that nipple  and clitoris stimulation were really my thing. In other words anything anal was not my agenda at all - in fact  really disliked it as unclean dirty, unhealthy and huge discomfort. It took many years until I opened myself up to utilizing the discomfort of anal insertions in my self-bondage adventures. I looked at it as a part of my punishment or pain I have to go through to receive my well deserved orgasmic satisfaction. The most far I took it was to tape my handcuff key to an anal butt plug covered by a condom. Once the plug was pulled out I had to retrieve the key with my teeth as my hands were out of reach. Thus I did introduced ATM to my self-bondage which I never ever considered to pursue or try in a vanilla relationship.

Very recently I got intrigued by some enema photo sets I stumble across and decided to give it a try  with the intend to explore the discomfort and corresponding reward opportunities. I oiled up my rear opening and gently inserted the nozzle of a bulb filled with water. I filled myself several times and emptied myself over the toilet. In a next step I pushed the end of my shower hose up and filled myself to an extend that a small belly bulge appeared. I got rid of the load and redid the same the same until I released clear water. I felt very clean and explored my  anus with several fingers while being totally relaxed. I used my favorite anal glass plug und strapped it in for 90min  - to my surprise without any discomfort but a very warm and clean feeling. When I removed the plug it smelled much different as usual and I even give it a lick without any hesitation. 

I never expected that anal play could give me this kind of sensations. For my an new playing field has opened up. Maybe there are women on here who habe a negative or no opinion about anal play -  I can only encourage you to give it a try starting with a gentle enema rinsing. 

Anyway I am so excited that I thought to share this with you.

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[self-bondagette]

I love those clamps. They excite me palyfully painful.

[creepyyeha]

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behind the scene ... like  a sex machine

[themysticalwolf-deactivated2018]

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blind date

[pursuit-of-lust]

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ready to enter

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Fun with chains is one of my favorite Drea Morgan adventures to which I  relate closely myself. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do when I am in this kind of situations.

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Another video combining some of my favorite elements - albeit not being self bondage.

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Stricter than strict

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Fun Fun

[withinthechains-deactivated2018]

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a room with a view

[hotamateurbondage]

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more than a feeling

[mrzeitgeist]

The Truth About Kinky Women

This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.

You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.

Let me ask you something:

Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?”

Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”?

Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?”

Every time you post on here asking for people to “help you out,” that’s exactly what you’re doing.

You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.

Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone

You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.

Kinky women are not whores

Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)

Kinky women are not easy

Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.

Kinky women are not objects

Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.

Kinky women have feelings

Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?

The Truth About Kinky Women by Septimus1812 is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License.

[cravehiminallways212]

Reblogging for this line alone:

“You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?”

[obiediantsubmissive]

exactly

[hardcore-emotion]

^this post. Respect always comes first.

[sketchywolfkc]

This

[thegentlemanlydom]

Oh man this is explained so perfectly. Well said, mystery FetLife user!

[pretty-lil-mess]

Read it, learn it, live it.

ʚɞk

[itsallprimal]

Well This is really a well written post and covers the main things about Kink and respect Just because a woman / man is into kink he blog or she shows their body does not mean we have the freedom to take dirty to them or treat them like trash. If you are interested or even want to say something, Say something nice polite even a simple hey i woudl like to etc etc… but if you want to get the Kinky start with the respect. 

~Primal

[littl3splayground]

TRUTH.

[karmicthoughts]

I know a fucking whole community who’d learn a lot from this.

[teasemeedgeme]

Reblogging because this is so important. Just because I’m a sub and you’re a Dom, doesn’t mean you automatically get to control me. I am a strong, feminist woman and if you try to take advantage of me, you will have unleashed the hellfire that is the female temper.

[skarimon-deactivated20181219]

Nothing says “desperate wannabe” more than newbies acting out like that.  It’s the subtle seduction of honesty, nothing less will do. You show me your real self without the public mask and I’ll do the same.  Getting to really know someone and build trust (cause this “thing that we do” is ALL about massive trust) is slow and patient.  Like any other relationship, it takes time, talking and sharing your most intimate thoughts with someone who may or may not be a match. That’s the risk we all take, and you’d best be prepared to take rejection gracefully, because most aren’t a match. However when you do, it’s magic!       Hold out for that, it’s that connection that makes it all worthwhile, there’s nothing like it…. 

[self-bondagettes]

So true

[eroticsexualimages]

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captured for the night

[hornyropebunny-deactivated20180]

How I do my hip harness. Hope you guys enjoy! It took a lot of work!

[hornyropebunny-deactivated20180]

5k!

[stuffmysodoesntknow]

Would love to see that done without the knickers and the centre crotch rope pulled tight between your labia. xXx

[hornyropebunny-deactivated20180]

Well if you put any effort into looking you could find a picture of that. Tather than being lazy and bothering me to do something for someone I don’t give 2 fuck about. Go find to tell your boring, selfish, stupid, fantasys to.

[self-bondagettes]

tried it - love it!. Just wondering how you finishing it off at the waist.

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Which picture is of yourself?

all pictures of self-bondagette except stated otherwise

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Which ones are you in?

On all pictures except stated otherwise.

[lynroca]

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breath takin’