Hey there! I’m Wraith, and this is your place to confess stuff about you F/O(s)! Be they romantic, familial, platonic or something else! There will also be ask game posts that get reblogged sometimes - feel free to reblog em! Get some asks or somethin’!
Please read the rules before you submit.
FYI; keep all messages respectful - any kind of hate/rudeness will be deleted on sight and the sender blocked.
Additional rules, blog info, main blog tags, and about the mod under the cut!
The Selfship Confessional Discord Server Information Post! See here if you want a link or anything!
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》 Blog Rules
If your message needs particular CWs added, pls add them at the start or end of your ask! *
No callout asks/posts. This isn't the place for that.
No hate speech, death threats, etc.
No using terms that have been co-opted to be "a silly internet word" when the word is actually a term to describe something serious. (ex; Tweaking)
No anti-ship stuff, please (its too often tied to purity culture, and I am not here for that shit) **
No anti-kin stuff, either - we’re kin-friendly here!
No r.adfem rhetoric - this goes for T.ERF logic, T.RUSCUM, S.WERF logic, anti-kink logic, etc. No r.adfem anything. (Dots added so it doesnt show in searches)
See under the cut for any * explanations in the additional rules segment.
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》 Additional Rules
* I tag as best I can. If something is missing a tag and needs it to be added, please politely let me know what post and what the tags should be!
** Antis, you can still submit stuff, as long as you are not invalidating others and w/e. You're on thin ice, though. Be nice and play nice.
This blog is dark-ship friendly. All that's asked is you try your best to add all the appropriate CWs to your confession.
If your confession is overly graphic in terms of sexual content or violence, I will be using tumblr's post labels and tagging it as such. It's nothing against you, I just wanna tag the bejesus outta this blog. Better safe than sorry.
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》 Blog Info
This confession blog is a sideblog! I can not send asks from here, nor follow you from this blog.
Any new confessions will be added to the queued.
I queue confessions as soon as I'm able, which is usually within the day. Sometimes, it might be a slight delay if life is a shitshow. You get it.
Self-ship ask games are reblogged every once in a while. You are free to send me one, either on here or on my own self-ship blog. It is not required. It is appreciated, though.
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》 Main blog tags
Confessions
Ask Games Reblog
Mod Posts
For the Mod
Ask Game Responses
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》 About the Mod
➤ Wraith - 💀☢️ - it/its he/his - late 20s
➤ My selfship sideblog is @corruptedshiped [Note - my sideblog is adult only, please & thank you!]
➤ I also mod MonsterSmashorPass (Mod Ghoul ☢️)
➤ My friends like to tease me for my horrid taste in fictional men. I deserve it. ♡
➤ I do a lot of creative hobbies, including drawing [digitally or traditionally], cosplay, fursuiting, resin-crafts, and more. I'm working on getting back into being creative more bc life sorta nuked that for a while.
➤ You can learn more about me on my sideblog, or just ask me things here. I do enjoy being asked questions so if you ever want to ask me things, be about myself or my selfships + F/Os, go right ahead!! It’s a lot of fun and it means a lot.
i want so badly to look at fanart of my f/o, but they were canonically in a relationship with another character (and kind of still are? sorta?) and the fandom is obsessed with their ship together to the point of never tagging their ship art because they think everyone ships it... i have every tag variant for their ship blocked. i'm one step away from just blocking the tags for the other character, but i actually really like the character outside of their ship with my f/o 😭 i hate that i can't go anywhere without seeing them together sob sob
I once held a wedding for my OC and my F/O in a selfshipping server on Discord. It was beautiful, everyone was so supportive and friendly. Sadly, that was one of the last nice days I had in that server, and it all went to shit after the fact for reasons that I wasn't present for. Eventually, that server got nuked by its owner. The record of my oc x canon wedding is gone with it.
I got the plushie of my husband, finally. But it's so awkward because I'm carrying around this plushie and kissing it (like, little pecks on the top of the head and shit, not french kissing). Kinda awkward, even when I'm alone.
i keep wanting to talk about my father, but i always remember that if i say "father would love this!", someone is gonna assume im talking about a real person and it's gonna be awkward 💔💔
anyways im still gonna talk about him more because i dont care what people think
I love my newest f/o, but I honestly don’t super enjoy reading his source (fake fan). And I’ve been reading a similarly mediocre and frustrating series lately and mentally superimposing us onto the similarly-aged characters in that series. It’s making me wonder if I like the character archetype more than I like him specifically… it’s not a world-ending issue, but the overthinking IS getting in the way of my daydreaming
my f/o is always labeled as a loli which kinda makes me mad, she's a grown woman!!!! she's just small!!!!!! she doesn't even have any childlike features, she is only short and has small boobs!!!!!! sobbing
maybe its weird but someday i wanna make a, uh .....custom plush-style sex doll. based on my f/o. i could always just modify an existing plush of her but honestly id like to make one completely unique (also the only plushes with large enough bodies for that have other points that i don't like...).
it'd be expensive (especially the materials) but i'd still love to do it one day. i also dont just want her to be a sex doll, id like to be able to cuddle normally as well. maybe make some little outfits too.
1. How big of a part is selfshipping in your life?
2. Do you tend to darker themes in your shipping? If yes, why? Or why not?
3. Are you generally more attached to less or more popular characters?
4. Is there an f/o you have never/rarely talked about publicly? Tell us a little something about them!
5. Do you create for your selfships? If yes, what do you create?
6. Do you selfship out of attraction, for fun or to cope? Or for any other reasons?
7. If you could choose one f/o to be with you RIGHT NOW who would it be, and why?
8. How closely do you identify with/as your s/i's, if you have any?
9. How long have you been part of the selfshipping community? How long before have you selfshipped without being aware of the community or publicly partaking in it?
10. Any old f/o's you're no longer shipping with?
11. Do you incorporate kink into your selfships? If yes, any kinks you prefer?
12. Do you have any non-human f/o's? If yes is your s/i for them human or not? Are you perhaps nonhuman?
13. How close do you prefer to stay to canon?
14. Any f/o's you have completely removed from canon/their source?
15. If you're fictionfolk, how does that affect your selfships?
16. Pick one f/o you identify with closest!
17. Pick one f/o you think makes others think of you! (Might be a main f/o, or one so obscure only you ship with them)
18. Do you talk about your selfships irl? Do you know any other selfshippers irl?
19. Do you have an AU where multiple f/o's from different sources exist together? Tell us about it!
20. Are you a polyselfshipper? If yes, are all your ships poly?
21. Do you have a favorite media you do not selfship from?
22. Do you own a trinket you associate with your f/o?
23. Do you tend to selfship preferably from specific type of media? (i.e. prefer animated over life action, novels over games, interactive over non-interactive, etc.)
24. Are there any sort of power dynamics in your selfships? If yes, who tends to be more dominant, and who less so?
25. Any favorite shipping tropes you usually love but don't like in your selfships? Or any tropes you usually can't stand but like in your selfships?
Bonus! Is there anything about your selfships you always wanted to share? But didn't know when it would be appropriate? Do it here!
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Please remember to practice reblog karma
Feel free to add more questions in your reblogs, or use this as a cheat sheet for asks to send other selfshippers who haven't interacted with this post!
Most of the NSFW fanart of my F/O gives her a completely different body type and I hate it. I hate seeing her with human proportions, I hate seeing her with boobs, her original proportions aren't an art style thing, you can easily find official art of her next to humans in a lot of different styles, she literally just looks like that!!
And they always fuck up her personality too, it just ends up looking like somebody else wearing her skin. I hate it and no matter how many tags i block I can never stop seeing it.
I'm from a different fandom, but there's a lot of people who say things like this about my own F/O as well. Beastiality, pedophile (a fandom specialty atp isn't it) and... plushophilia? A lot of them like to frame that as a bad thing for some reason.
Fandoms like to turn being attracted to characters who are small and non-human into a pain.
Im a fictionkin of a deltarune character. I yumeship with another character from deltarune, who is heavily implied to have had a relationship with my kin. I did it more as a joke at first, and then kin memories hit me upside the head. No I dont think its a joke anymore I love this Lil guy so much.
all my fantasies about my f/o involve getting him off, making him moan and orgasm and feel amazing in all different ways. i don’t really fantasize about him making me feel good much cause i really just wanna make him happy and satisfy him
but whenever i shift and we actually do it, he’s all about making me finish first. sometimes he will want to multiple times before he lets me get him off, even if i beg for it. he usually won’t even let me suck him during foreplay cause he thinks he won’t be able to last long for me if i do. his biggest concern is always that i’m enjoying every moment
I got a tattoo of my FO and 2 of his Pokemon yesterday!! My arm is sore as shit bc I sat for like 3 hours getting ink packed in + it's a full color tat so, yeah, it's ANGRY rn but it's worth it 💚💗
Reminder that the ask box here is never closed OwO
Question - would ask/confession prompts be something of interest to people? Like a question/prompt that changes monthly for folks to answer in regards to selfship stuff?
