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@selfshipping-saves-lives
hello all!! this is the start of my selfship blog :) i'm gonna keep my f/o(s) private cause this is alllll about you and your perfect selfship (romantic or platonic)!!! i super hope you enjoy my random splurges of prompts, some cutesie, some funny, and very rarely will i drop spicy stuff too.
if you have any reccs you want me to post/add onto, lmk!!
imagine finally checking your grades for school and realizing that you actually PASSED THAT CLASS YOU WERE SCARED OF FAILING!!!!! (based on a true story lol) you go tell your f/o(s) and they are completely OVER THE MOON to hear the news!!
they are one of the only people in your life that haven't poked and prodded you to find out NOW and go check NOW because they "need to know"!!
this is absolutely amazing news for allllll of your f/os!! even if months or years of time has passed since you took that class or went through any kind of schooling, they'll always see the value of your efforts and achievements!!
and they wanna celebrate!! let's go out to eat, let's go shopping, or even just rest up and bask in the RELIEF of not holding that kind of pressure on your shoulders anymore! your f/os all want you to acknowledge your success WITH them!
imagine all your f/os acknowledging each other as a very obvious connection to you...
familial f/os just add to the family dynamic! maybe this means you have 5 moms 2 dads and 1 brother from different medias. the nuclear family is DEAD in this household!!
if you have platonic f/os, you guys always try making plans to hang out together! even when life gets in the way and some friends are too busy to join this time, they'll be there next time! you have a group chat to set up hangouts or just spam each other about your days or videos that can't possibly go unseen by the friend group!
and selfship-cheating does NOT EXIST!!! your romantic f/os know you see other ppl and you all just treat it like an open relationship. they understand the varying feelings you have for each partner, which means they don't hold anything against you for how you divide your attention between them! this absolutely ALSO means you get to gush about some of your f/os to your other f/os!! you might have some jealous ones, but they'll never resent you or force you into breaking contact with your other romantic f/os.
nobody help them; they're exactly where they wanna be
dudeee oh my god. i was just visiting the tattoo shop to talk with an artist and i saw one of your romantic f/os getting a tramp stamp. i didn't get close enough obvi but i think they deadass asked for YOUR NAME.... from girl to whoever you are, can i ask if they really did that. can i even ask if YOU made them do that.
imagine your f/o who struggles to eat healthy/regularly… now imagine them eating more consistently since meeting you because you eat together or taste test each other’s cooking…
let’s all get fatter and happier guys who with me
every reblog with ideas and reflections in the tags are so nice to read... you guys are so thoughtful about your f/o's. i loveee reading them!! always reblog with your words 4ever... dare i say Leave A Comment or two.......
if you get sad or frightening news about you or your loved ones, your f/o’s are all going to be there to help you process it. if you need to talk, cry, or distract yourself they are absolutely there for you.
you’re not weak for reacting so sharply to bad news, no matter how small. it’s okay to be sensitive and cautious. you have your own pace of handling situations just as everybody else and your f/o’s will never look down on you for that. they will be there for you even when the news starts to effect your habits and health, too.
HIHI HELLOOOO! big fan of ya works, and I've came here to brainstorm a bit and maybe YOU can help me if ya don't mind! Yahoo
Ok so imagine this,,(puts you inside my brain for visual thinking hmmhmm) your (or my) f/o(s) are happy to see you with a plush version of themselves! But recently you've been using it a bit TOO much..(maybe a bit of comedic possessiveness? Idk but thanks for readin this)
yes... YES... i see what you're saying. (trips on a long wrinkle in your brain)
your f/o's are allll supportive of you holding plushies for comfort, especially when you guys are apart or they don't want physical touch. but... the stuffie you have of *them* strikes a different feeling in them. it's not weird to them! they just eye you for a bit and wonder when it's theirrrr turnnn.
if you and your f/o(s) cuddle together at night, they try to show they're available before you can reach your plushie of them. open arms, sitting closer to the edge, maybe they even place the plush behind others (gently and non-maliciously)!
What is your message to the people who like to make fun of selfshippers/yumeshippers for no reason? In my opinion I find it disgusting.
yeahh it's just mean. whether ppl selfship as a coping mech or just do it for fun, it's not really harming anyone else on its own. imagining someone cares about you is kinda awesome and shouldn't be bashed on just cause it's not a real person. let's get cringe let's get crazyyy
asking your f/o for your 1 millionth favor and you turn to look at them like thisss. do they stand their ground or do they give in.
MY GOAT CHEEKYCRITTERS!! HELLO!!!
asking your f/o for your 1 millionth favor and you turn to look at them like thisss. do they stand their ground or do they give in.
imagine your dream house with your f/o(s)... I BEG YOU...
i'm building smth in welcome to bloxburg right now and picturing that we are building our home to together... you and your f/o(s) could be helping each other carry in boxes and furniture, picking out paints for the walls (and maybe disagreeing for a bit because you have different ideas living room), and giving each other input on where your decorations should go!! even if your styles clash, you guys can compromise and work things out. even after that it'll still be charming!!
once you're all moved in, you can settle in your space with them and make small additions as the days go by. you can finally develop a comforting routine with them. if you have familial, platonic, and romantic f/o's, it's kinda starts to feel like you've all moved in as a family... sniffles. hold on. don't look at me bro.
Starting to feel more depressed again and have been starting to bedrot a bit ngl. Can I get some f/o comfort please?
hardcore relating to this twin. but listen.
your f/o(s) notice and try to help you out whenever you're stuck in bed. they want to shake up your day a little, but if you struggle with adjustments and changes, they work on helping you from their side of things!
they give you options for different meals of the day and have safe meals that you've mentioned before in mind in case you don't feel like having any of that too! they'll even go as far as feeding you if you can't bare to keep eating a dish. they encourage you to eat what you can, not until the plate is clean. maybe even share what they're eating if that's more appealing to you!
they'll try to help you go outside more as well, no matter the personality or preferences of your f/o(s) habits. they know YOU need to get more sun and fresh air, so they're willing to hang out outside with you even if they've been out and about all day. if it's too much activity, you guys sit in the car for a while or sit in a quiet shop until you're ready to get going. you don't have to treat every store like an "in and out" situation, your f/o(s) are willing to give you time to regulate between trips!
these are just some things that your f/o(s) are willing to do with you so that you're not stuck in a depressive loop! anything else you need, they can try their best to be there for you through it.
this might be a little specific, but could i request something for an f/o who loves to sew things for s/i? things like clothes, quilts, etc :]
love your blog!
of course!!! this is so cute oughhhh
having an f/o (or more) that make you things is such a patient honor. they spend purchasing fabrics that you won’t be icked out by, measuring everything appropriately, maybe even asking to measure YOU if they’re making you clothes tailored to your body!
there is no such thing as “you will break up/ have a falling out before the project is done for the person you’re making it for” with any of your f/os!! the entire span of making things for you is spent thinking of you so warmly. if they burnout, like all do when constantly working on something, the thought of your reaction to their gift is enough to blast them back into continuing strong.
in a nice wrapped package, or straight to you, your f/o(s) present a blanket, a sweater, patched jeans, a dress, a stuffed animal, anything that they’ve been working on for you.
i've always seen tons of jealous romantic fictional character things where the character is mad at YOU for the attention you attract from others and honestly unless it's part of the whimsy and fun of teasing, the s/i SHOULDN'T be blamed for how other people act when they don't know or (even do know) that you're taken. like unless you want your f/o to take you home and "show you who you belong to", it's just kinda startling to see.
so please! do imagine that you have a jealous romantic f/o that isn't harshly possessive, but quietly nervous/irritated to see someone fawn over you in front of them. they might try to hold you closer or give a kiss to show others, but when you guys arrive home, they act as if they're trying to win you back... they ask you constantly for if you need any help with chores, something to eat, or even just help relaxing! they treat you so gently and check to make sure they're not doing anything to startle you or make you uncomfortable, working immediately to keep you content, almost like a little secretary!
this is when your f/o finally spills that they're nervous to lose you. the thought of you losing feelings for them, being attracted to someone else, and leaving them scares them so deeply. they never want you to grow tired of them and find someone else, and even just being flattered by strangers plays with that idea. they need to hear that you'll choose them. they need to remember that they aren't replaceable in your heart.
i would tell them now... they're getting snot and tears all over your shirt...!
tired from school rn. so please please please imagine this one really hard okay
picture... all of your f/o’s making you slime… and then you had to judge which one was the best…. wouldn’t that be so beautiful…
what kind of slime would they make you? is it fluffy, crunchy, watery, sticky? are they strangely good at the borax/activator/glue ratio or are they like reallyyyyyy messy and dogshit at it?
not that i will share my f/o's... but... my main one would Hate making slime. but she does it for me.
Could I request how f/o would react they came home from being out somewhere and you were having a terrible mental breakdown? Like sobbing hysterically and trying to knock things over? Only if you’re comfy with it ofc! ^^
hellooo yes i can write this!! very realistic reaction as someone who's been having breakdowns that are just hell to control. so... Believe Me This Is Written With Experience
if they come back and see you like that, they are 100% rushing over. your f/o's are holding your hands in place to stop you from swinging at things in the house or even if you start trying to hurt yourself. they hold you into a tight hug and keep you still as you soak their shoulder in tears. their voice is muffled against you, but you can make out something about needing to be careful and being okay in the end.
they will let you talk and scream if you need to, but you don't have to. depending on the strength or tolerance of your f/o, they let you hold them as tightly as you wish instead. they'll let you claw at their back or grip their hands with as much anger or panic as you're feeling. they know you won't hurt them, so they're here to be your stress ball.