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@sequoiapriestessofhealing
This is very true. You will get caught up in the desire, then need to be validated by the narc due to their grooming but in the end you never will be. They will never support you, if they say they will it's a lie, or they will seek to sabotage your success. Many narcs will ruin holidays, birthdays, and anyone or anything else honoring you!
Prepare, make a choice to not allow the narcissistic to engage with you, any celebrations or ceremonies. Enjoy your success!!
This was beautiful, not just because I'm one because I no longer feel shame for being one!!
In order to be effective in healing others, we offer more power, courage, and forgiveness when we take the time to heal ourselves. #wemattertoo
Kudos to this post!
Life is not always straight forward, it does not have a beginning, a middle or an end, like energy life is cyclical, it waxes and wanes, alot like our lives do.
Healing is alot like life, it has a cyclical nature, form and function. At times we embark on journey's that seem to bring us right back to the place we started giving us the illusion that we aren't making any progress. The truth is we (you) are. Sometimes we need to revisit lessons, knowledge, pain, happiness, even desire until our consciousness is ready to receive the message. There is no judgment in that process, in your process.
Love is the answer, I know that seems cliche but it's the truth. I'm not talking about loving others here, I'm talking about finding the hiding place of your soul child, gently approaching and building a trusting, loving, nurturing relationship. This leads to the path of healing, empowerment and authentic living. It is here we find our sweet spot. To have the courage to develop a relationship with your soul child enables you to find your truth and to dismiss anything and anyone that is not your or for your highest good.
At times this relationship building will feel uncomfortable, be mentally exhausting, and even hurt but it is in these moments where we develop and mature our spiritual warrior. The warrior that has protected you through every soul chattering moment, undetected and unseen. She/he has always been with you wanting you to reconnect with your soul child.
This is my story as a medicine woman, as a reflection of the sacred feminine, as mother. Nurture your inner child, make peace, recognize her/his tantrums and soothe the parts of you that has been wounded.
If you sense you need guidance seek professional help, and spiritual assistance. Ask for friends and family that you trust for support. You deserve to be your authentic self, shining bright, emanating God's light and love!
See ya in the maze to redemption.
Sequoia
Very true. Abuse disconnects the abused from the "gut instinct " that allows someone to know when something or someone is wrong! It's our internal alarm. The abuser does this by grooming the abused, mixing signals between what is wrong or right.
The goal of the victim that has transformed into the survivor is to reconnect that gut instinct so that any potential for further abuse is decreased.
Sequoia
Real life experience:
Dog has had surgery is barking to be let out to go to the bathroom. For about 13 minutes. I am not able to take him out, neither is my daughter we are both down with the stomach flu. BPD mother and grandmother knows this.
Me: (I call BPD's cell) "Mom? Can you let Zeus out he has to go to the bathroom. "
BPD mom: " I can't right now, I'm in the middle of my game (ya know that online game that she obsesses over like it's her life now, that costs $100+ to keep it engaged. She's spent $300 or more at a time) he'll have to wait! "
Me: "Wha?! He has to go that is why he's barking, you know this."
BPD: hangs up on me.
10 minutes later she walks on my side of the house and snatches open the door, yells at him to hurry up- she's busy.😕 she let's him out and he takes off running and doesn't listen for 6 minutes whileshe screams at 9pm at night, he handles his business in his own time. I love my dog! Lol.
This is the mind of an individual who has narcissistic tendencies, they will abuse you, themselves and animal's.
This is abuse-BPD if not treated is devastating on so many levels.
Get help!
Real talk! #valentine'slatepost
Do you feel this way? There is hope to stoping the negative dialogue.
Seek help from a trained professional!
So true. I'm now proud to say I'm one. I used to hate it until I learned about abuse, BPD and Narcissistic disorders. No longer a victim buy empowered. You can be 2.
Pretty much!
You are not alone, seek support.
Don't drown, learn how to swim!
BPD never see things as they actually ARE, only as it looks to them. Some might say this is called perception, it is and it is skewed. Here perceiving is NOT believing. You are NOT crazy, neither are they, they just don't see the world through our eyes which makes those with BPD and narcissism ( a component of BPD) impossible to deal with, that is for those who aren't seeking treatment. I have to be fair, I've spoken with some very strong BPD persons and they should be commended for their bravery to look within and seek HELP! My situation-mother will not. Therefore, my experiences with her are living nightmares on a continuous loop!
It's up to YOU to break the cycle!