Positivity for All Sapphics 🌸💕🌸

An inclusionist-run safe space for anyone who is sapphic, no matter their gender or orientation 💕 || DNI/BYF || Trans/nonbinary, aspec, and MOGAI inclusive || Please DO NOT screenshot and repost my posts without my permission ♥ A sapphic is "a woman or a person with some connection to womanhood (whether it be in their gender or just in their love to/for women) who loves women and other sapphics." So if that's you, this blog is for you! ♥ If you have any requests for what you'd like me to post (Ex. "Can you make a post about ace lesbians?"), just shoot me an ask! ♥ I tag general LGBTQ+ discourse as 'discourse' and 'lgbtq discourse.' If it's about a specific identity, I tag as the identity+discourse (Ex. 'ace discourse') and as 'discourse.' So blacklist those tags if you don't wanna see those posts. ♥ If I reblog from someone who is in any way problematic/reblog a post sourced from a problematic person, please let me know so I can delete it! ♥ If you need anything tagged, lemme know!! ♥ A little about me: You can call me Remi or Wren! I'm a pan lesbian, sapphic, queer, and polyamorous. I'm also trans/nonbinary and agender, and my pronouns are they/them and fae/faer. I claim the labels stud and butch as well. I'm a 24-year-old Counseling Psychology graduate student. I'm biracial and loudly, proudly, and unapologetically Black ✊🏾 I'm chronically ill/disabled and mentally ill. I'm also married to the cutest genderqueer butch lesbian ever 😊 🏳️‍🌈💖💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈 🎨 Submit art to me! 🖌️ ✊🏾 Black Lives Fucking Matter ✊🏾 ♡ Icon by me!! ♡ 🌸 Help a Broke Bitch Out (Venmo: @QueerRemi) 🌸

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It's my birthday!!

I'm going to the Cherry Blossom Festival as it's mostly free and looks pretty lol.

But if y'all wanna throw a lil sum my way to help me pay for gas and food, I'd appreciate it!

CA: $QueerRemi

VM: @QueerRemi

Have a good day y'all!

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Please help me pay my bills and rent, if you're financially able to and willing.

I'm sorry to ask. I'm just very tired of struggling. They've cut a lot of people's hours at my job, I've had medical expenses for my mom, vet expenses for my cats, etc. I'm looking into doing odd jobs for extra money, but with my disabilities, I'm not sure how well that will go. I'm just so tired, and I would appreciate any help I can get. Thank you in advance, and have a great day.

CashApp: $QueerRemi

Venmo: @QueerRemi

PayPal: @Reminescie

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I really, desperately need help, y'all. I have a $353 utility bill and $1,852 rent due tomorrow, and I'm struggling, especially with how much gas is right now.

Please help if you can.

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Still need help on these. I was able to pay a bit as I got paid today, but yeah. Anything would help rn 🩷

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Please help me pay my bills and rent, if you're financially able to and willing.

I'm sorry to ask. I'm just very tired of struggling. They've cut a lot of people's hours at my job, I've had medical expenses for my mom, vet expenses for my cats, etc. I'm looking into doing odd jobs for extra money, but with my disabilities, I'm not sure how well that will go. I'm just so tired, and I would appreciate any help I can get. Thank you in advance, and have a great day.

CashApp: $QueerRemi

Venmo: @QueerRemi

PayPal: @Reminescie

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I really, desperately need help, y'all. I have a $353 utility bill and $1,852 rent due tomorrow, and I'm struggling, especially with how much gas is right now.

Please help if you can.

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

My dearest and most beloved trans people,

Today is Trans Day of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️ And of course, it's just as important as the last. Actually, I'd argue that this one is extra important. As many of y'all know, the U.S. and its relationship with trans people is.... not good. Honestly, it never has been. But this year? It's terrifying. They've been attacking us with bills and laws, discrimination, oppression, physical & emotional harm, etc. much more these past few years, but now, things are declining much, much faster for... obvious reasons. And it's scary. I won't lie, I am scared; a lot, if not all of us, are.

But I am begging you to please stay here on this earth. And I am begging you to please stay visible in any ways you're able to. The faster we give in, the sooner we hide ourselves and shove ourselves back into the closet, the easier it will be for them to erase us. And we cannot let that happen. We will not let that happen. They can try all they want, but we are here, we always have been, and we always will be. Trans people have existed for millenia across all cultures, and we will never go away and die out no matter how much they want us to. So please, PLEASE be visible as much as you can. And please protect each other, ESPECIALLY!!!! Black & Indigenous trans people, other trans people of color, disabled trans people, poor trans people, etc. Please do not forget our most vulnerable in this fight to survive through all of this. Because they are just as deserving of life, love, respect, and acceptance, and they are just as deserving of being seen and heard.

And I get it, believe me I GET IT, that you might not want to come out publicly or be as visible because you're scared or in an unsafe environment or whatever else, so I am asking you, if possible, to please be visible in any other ways that you can, even if that's something as simple as being out as trans online. We just need to be here for each other. We need for others like us to see us and know that they are not alone in this. We need to be able to find each other, offer comfort and love, and support each other as much as we can to be able to get through this. And we need to fight like hell, speak out, protest, call/write/email representatives, build community with one another, help feed each other, and more to get through this, too, so we can achieve a better future for ourselves and our community! And if you have any form of privilege, I'm extra asking you to please use it to help out your less privileged counterparts during this time because we are in desperate need of it!!

And yes, I know that this post is very U.S.-centric. But I'm saying this to those of y'all outside of the country, too. PLEASE DO NOT STOP BEING OUT AND VISIBLE IF YOU CAN HELP IT!!! And even if you really cannot do so, please don't stop giving love and support to your fellow trans people in whatever ways you can. Whether you're just across the pond or across the whole world, we can still support one another and help one another! We can still help each other feel like we aren't alone, we can still make each other feel understood and seen, and we can spread love and kindness everywhere we go.

Please don't give up, no matter where you are. And please never stop being proud of who you are. Never question who you are. Never feel bad for who you are. Never give up on yourself either. Being trans is beautiful. YOU are beautiful and perfect and amazing and strong just for having the courage to accept yourself and be you! That is true strength. That is incredible. That is admirable. I am proud of you for recognizing who you are, whether you're closeted or not, and you should be proud of yourself as well.

I love each and every one of you so much, and I am here for you always. I see you, I hear you, I accept you, and I respect you. And I hope you have a great TDOV! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 🏳️‍⚧️ 💛🤍💜🖤

Sincerely and with all my love,

Remi 🌸

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Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

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For anyone who may have trouble reading the gradient text version of this post:

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility!!!

To all my fellow transgender and nonbinary folks out there:

We are beautiful.

We are strong.

We are trans enough.

We are amazing.

We are trans-cendent.

And we will not be erased!

**Truscum/transmeds: DO NOT TOUCH! This post is not for you!!**

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility!!!

To all my fellow transgender and nonbinary folks out there:

We are beautiful.

We are strong.

We are trans enough.

We are amazing.

We are trans-cendent.

And we will not be erased!

**Truscum/transmeds: DO NOT TOUCH! This post is not for you!!**

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Happy TDOV

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Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

For anyone who may have trouble reading the gradient text version of this post:

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

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🏳️‍⚧️ Happy Trans Day of Visibility, my trans/nonbinary friends!! 🏳️‍⚧️

Source: inclusiontn on Instagram

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My dearest and most beloved trans people,

Today is Trans Day of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️ And of course, it's just as important as the last. Actually, I'd argue that this one is extra important. As many of y'all know, the U.S. and its relationship with trans people is.... not good. Honestly, it never has been. But this year? It's terrifying. They've been attacking us with bills and laws, discrimination, oppression, physical & emotional harm, etc. much more these past few years, but now, things are declining much, much faster for... obvious reasons. And it's scary. I won't lie, I am scared; a lot, if not all of us, are.

But I am begging you to please stay here on this earth. And I am begging you to please stay visible in any ways you're able to. The faster we give in, the sooner we hide ourselves and shove ourselves back into the closet, the easier it will be for them to erase us. And we cannot let that happen. We will not let that happen. They can try all they want, but we are here, we always have been, and we always will be. Trans people have existed for millenia across all cultures, and we will never go away and die out no matter how much they want us to. So please, PLEASE be visible as much as you can. And please protect each other, ESPECIALLY!!!! Black & Indigenous trans people, other trans people of color, disabled trans people, poor trans people, etc. Please do not forget our most vulnerable in this fight to survive through all of this. Because they are just as deserving of life, love, respect, and acceptance, and they are just as deserving of being seen and heard.

And I get it, believe me I GET IT, that you might not want to come out publicly or be as visible because you're scared or in an unsafe environment or whatever else, so I am asking you, if possible, to please be visible in any other ways that you can, even if that's something as simple as being out as trans online. We just need to be here for each other. We need for others like us to see us and know that they are not alone in this. We need to be able to find each other, offer comfort and love, and support each other as much as we can to be able to get through this. And we need to fight like hell, speak out, protest, call/write/email representatives, build community with one another, help feed each other, and more to get through this, too, so we can achieve a better future for ourselves and our community! And if you have any form of privilege, I'm extra asking you to please use it to help out your less privileged counterparts during this time because we are in desperate need of it!!

And yes, I know that this post is very U.S.-centric. But I'm saying this to those of y'all outside of the country, too. PLEASE DO NOT STOP BEING OUT AND VISIBLE IF YOU CAN HELP IT!!! And even if you really cannot do so, please don't stop giving love and support to your fellow trans people in whatever ways you can. Whether you're just across the pond or across the whole world, we can still support one another and help one another! We can still help each other feel like we aren't alone, we can still make each other feel understood and seen, and we can spread love and kindness everywhere we go.

Please don't give up, no matter where you are. And please never stop being proud of who you are. Never question who you are. Never feel bad for who you are. Never give up on yourself either. Being trans is beautiful. YOU are beautiful and perfect and amazing and strong just for having the courage to accept yourself and be you! That is true strength. That is incredible. That is admirable. I am proud of you for recognizing who you are, whether you're closeted or not, and you should be proud of yourself as well.

I love each and every one of you so much, and I am here for you always. I see you, I hear you, I accept you, and I respect you. And I hope you have a great TDOV! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 🏳️‍⚧️ 💛🤍💜🖤

Sincerely and with all my love,

Remi 🌸

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Please help me pay my bills and rent, if you're financially able to and willing.

I'm sorry to ask. I'm just very tired of struggling. They've cut a lot of people's hours at my job, I've had medical expenses for my mom, vet expenses for my cats, etc. I'm looking into doing odd jobs for extra money, but with my disabilities, I'm not sure how well that will go. I'm just so tired, and I would appreciate any help I can get. Thank you in advance, and have a great day.

CashApp: $QueerRemi

Venmo: @QueerRemi

PayPal: @Reminescie

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

I really, desperately need help, y'all. I have a $353 utility bill and $1,852 rent due tomorrow, and I'm struggling, especially with how much gas is right now.

Please help if you can.

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!!

Whether you’re…

A trans man or trans woman

Nonbinary or genderqueer

Agender, bigender, trigender, polygender, or pangender

Genderfluid or genderflux

Transfeminine or transmasculine

A demigirl, demiboy, or deminonbinary

Androgyne or intergender

Maverique, cassgender, or neutrois

Genderfae or genderfaun

A xenogender, neurogender, or MOGAI gender

Or any other genders

…You and your gender are valid and amazing, and no one can change that or take that away from you! You know who you are better than anyone else does!! Don’t let others who try to invalidate you bring you down; you are everything, and their words mean nothing! Celebrate yourselves and your trans and nonbinary siblings today because you deserve it! I hope you all have a safe and wonderful TDOV!!💙💗💛💜🖤

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Please help me pay my bills and rent, if you're financially able to and willing.

I'm sorry to ask. I'm just very tired of struggling. They've cut a lot of people's hours at my job, I've had medical expenses for my mom, vet expenses for my cats, etc. I'm looking into doing odd jobs for extra money, but with my disabilities, I'm not sure how well that will go. I'm just so tired, and I would appreciate any help I can get. Thank you in advance, and have a great day.

CashApp: $QueerRemi

Venmo: @QueerRemi

PayPal: @Reminescie

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

I really, desperately need help, y'all. I have a $353 utility bill and $1,852 rent due tomorrow, and I'm struggling, especially with how much gas is right now.

Please help if you can.

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Eid Mubarak to queer Muslims! May Allah bless you, your family, and your friends with happiness, joy, and prosperity! Happy Eid al-Fitr, my friends!