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i absolutely LOVE having long philosophical conversations and discussing about recent revelations . . . i'm incredibly open-minded with all interests, beliefs, spirituality and controversial opinions so don't be afraid to dm and share!!
꒰ა ♡ ໒꒱ how to make 2026 your year : the fail-proof way { pt.1 }
living as a side character in your OWN life is so 2025. it's time to step up our games and become the absolute highest level of authority because babe, your life is a canvas and the paintbrush rests in your hands. so pick it up and add some color. maybe pink.
firstly, YOU ARE NOT BEHIND. you are not wasting time. you are doing okay. you are exactly where you were meant to be, do not worry. now let's get started.
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chapter one : self & mental health
your identity, sense of self, mental health are probably the most important things ever, esp mental health. compromising your mental health for something or someone is never worth it. if something or someone makes you question why you're even alive.. girl. let it go. you will be so much happier without it. i dont mean this in the context of education and exams etc though haha i know those things make us question our existence as well but that's something that actually creates our future so forever be grateful girls <3 there are many other women who do not even have access to the internet or know that they too are as equal as men.
anyway coming back to the topic of yourself and mental health !! here are some things you can do <3
⋆ check in with yourself everyday : write how you're feeling, your wins, your losses, something that made you feel happy, something that made you feel sad and a list of everything you did and how it all made you feel
⋆ create a me-time : spend some time alone, do something you like, turn your phone off or turn on dnd and just be alone and relax
⋆ have atleast one creative and super easy and fun hobby : for eg coloring or drawing silly stickman comics or wtv. make it as easy and relaxing as possible. there is no need for it to be perfect.
⋆ stretch. please just trust me
⋆ fight your insecurities : you hate ponytails because it exposes your side profile which you don't like? wear a ponytail. your skin is acting up and your makeup looks cakey and sad? wipe allat up and embrace that gorgeous natural skin. you feel like your too puffy and bloated to wear a cute tank top? wear that tank top. embrace your insecurities like trophies. you are a goddess lolz stop wasting all that energy by pouring into self hate.
⋆ stop letting social media curated labels define you : you don't need a defined aesthetic to have your shit together or to be that girl. aesthetics, like personalities, are not created overnight or after one big shopping haul. we live in a capitalistic world and aesthetics are just a product of it. but hey it isn't a bad thing to have an aesthetic you like.. go ahead. but don't let it be the only thing that defines who you are. evolve at your own pace! aesthetics and personalities cannot be bought and sold. they evolve as you grow.
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chapter two : discipline, motivation & self improvement
go through the first image carefully. if you're someone like me at the moment, who has no motivation, constant anxiety, feels like they have no friends, and desperately wants a new life... babe we are at rock bottom lol. but it's okay. the strangest and most comforting thing about being at rock bottom is that "you can fall no farther." love sylvia for that.
right now when all those first 4 needs of ours are not fulfilled, we cannot really expect ourselves to suddenly improve ourselves and become unrecognizable. right now our goal is to survive. to simply survive and be stable.
this is why many of our routines don't really work and then we just lose truth over ourselves, call ourselves lazy and what not. we are not lazy and there is nothing wrong with us. this is how things turned out to be and that is okay because now you know and can work yourself up. and here are some tips to help you :
⋆ have a proper bedtime and religiously follow it
⋆ eat atleast 3 proper meals everyday. junk food / takeout does not count
⋆ spend atleast 10 minutes working out or walking
⋆ proper skincare everyday atleast once. do not skip any steps
⋆ get a cute tinted lip balm + curl your lashes (random but this makes me feel very cute and put together despite my entire life falling apart)
⋆ study for atleast 10 minutes everyday
⋆ spend atleast 5 minutes outside your room
these are very very simple rules and i have been doing them and they actually make you feel sm better. and from here on, things obviously will not be linear and perfect, but they will 100% be better. just do not stop. keeeeep goinggggg !!!!! adopt habits you like, get new hobbies, join clubs, volunteer for stuff etc. it'll come naturally. do not worry bout it <3 just be exactly where your feet are. be present.
okai guys that is it for today.. sorry for the inactivity, i had recently lost a family member who was very dear to me and life just does not feel real yk.. still i am trying my best to get out of bed and do fun stuff. thank you sm for 960+ followers. i love you all <3 my inbox is always open, if there is anything on your mind, just go ahead and ask. love you guys sm
۪♪ ◌ ⃘ 𓈒 recently i've been occupied with a multitude of responsibilities . . . but now i'm finally freeeeee!! here's a quick list of what happened these past few days!
created 3 sculpture pieces
crocheted a head piece
went to a buffet for a birthday !!
cut my baby bangs again hehe
illustrated so . . . so much paintings and drawings
completed my art portfolio for college! (examples at the bottom)
if you'd like to see more of my portfolio, send me a msg ׁ. ᛝ
— i cannot wait to be blogging again! i've missed the girlblog community and most importantly my moots!! (♡ˊ͈ ꒳ ˋ͈) talk to you soon my loves!
i must confess . . . i am absolutely obsessed with reigen's charm and confidence, but most importantly the guidance he provides to mob and everyone in general (˚ ˃̣̣̥⌓˂̣̣̥ ) even though he's well known for his humorous reactions and eccentric moments, i always adore the parts where he helps others understand themselves through his brutual yet sincere honesty!!!
AHHH i could go on for hours about the characters in this anime . . . would love to know ur fav character too!!! ♡
YO so since u asked me who my fav deltarune character, i've been wondering, whos ur fav deltarune and undertale character? ^^
EEEKK omg for undertale it's such a hard choice . . . it might be pretty 'humerus' but i really do love sans ꉂꉂ◟(˃᷄ꇴ˂᷅๑)༡ for deltarune, i love kris due to the dynamics between them and the player!!
