1- Safety in BDSM & 4 Risks We’ve Taken in BDSM — Before and After We Knew Better--- By kinky fuckery
2- Vital BDSM Rules to Keep it Safe, Sane and Crazy-Kinky-- By Adriana Books
3- SM 101-- by Jay Wiseman
4- BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism-- by Ayzard
(Below is my own personal feelings)
This is pretty self-explanatory, you should ALWAYS take precautions in case of emergency. ALWAYS. Its 100% non negotiable in my book and if the other party even leans to the side of not taking precautions then I'm out. Yes I'm serious. That shows me they don't take my safety and well-being seriously. I can't trust that person and I'll be damn if I let them suspend me and pick up a whip. Fuck that noise.
You also need to remember that this is not one sided, you yourself must CLEARLY communicate your needs, desires, wants and YOUR CONCERNS. You are responsible for your safety as well. Once your strapped down they may have the upper hand, but the choices/decisions you make get you to that point. If you pause, don't feel comfortable enough or are scared to communicate any of these with your partner then it's time to have a serious talk with yourself on why that is. Your gut is telling you something. Just sayin.
If you run across someone who says ,"if you trusted me, you're not a real Dom/Domme/Sub then, or it takes away from the scene/sex....blah blah blah." That's some manipulative bullshit and they're talking out of their ass. You tell them to hit the bricks cause they aren't concerned for your well being.
📍As with all my informational posts feel free to add something missed or different etc etc. No two dynamics fit in the same box and there's always more to be learned.
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