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#70 “I HATE that thing when a tongue gets all hard and pointy at the tip. Don’t make a dunce cap out of your tongue.“

I want you to pay for shit. All night. (At least in the beginning stages. We’ll move into partnership & split bills when it’s time, but for now, be a MAN. I can fuck a woman if I want, and that’s nice too. But if I’m with you, I’m in the mood for male energy, so please give me that.)

I want you to drive. I want you to be wearing good deodorant, no hippie crystal bullshit. You’re a man, your animal scent will break through the product as it is. Just something simple. Old Spice is great. A little cologne is nice, too. Especially if you’re a shlubby comedy type of guy who I’d never expect to be wearing fucking fancy cologne. Let yourself be fancy. Be valuable.

Put your hand on the small of my back a couple times throughout the evening. Make our legs touch or have your hand on my thigh for a little bit. Undress me with your eyes. Visualize making me come. Watch me as I walk to the bathroom. I will feel your eyes on my ass and it will make my clit skip a beat. Find a moment to surprise me with a kiss. An odd, in between moment, like when we’re at the parking meter or something. You couldn’t resist. You had to feel my lips against yours even though we were hours from the goodnight kiss that will segue us into bed.

When we finally do get to the kiss that will bring us to bed, we’ve earned it. We’ve been charging for hours. Hand on side of face is great, any holding of my head for that matter. Better yet, take one hand and hold me in place at the base of my neck. You’re not strangling me, but you’re dangerously close. Then MAKE MY BREASTS YOUR BEST FRIENDS. I CAN’T TELL YOU HOW MUCH ATTENTION THEY WANT. I want us making out while naked for a little bit. It feels like teenagers learning about all that is erotic. Like, we weren’t suuuure we were gonna fuck, we were just kissing and just wanted a little more flesh, then a little more flesh, then…a little…more flesh…

If I initiate going down on you, let me for a liiiittle while or stop me, saying something like “not yet”. Kiss me slowly from the lobes of my ears, to my neck, to my breasts, to my stomach, to my knees, to my inner thighs, then finalllly after the torture, kiss my wet, waiting pussy. (Note: I don’t want you to suck my toes because, well, feet are filthy. I can’t get past that. Once a guy just kissed the top of me feet and I thought that was a creative workaround, but he was holding my dirty feet in his hands to do so, and all I could think was, ‘Now his hands are dirty.’) (Also, yes, this whole kissing my body making me beg for it thing is cliché but that’s because it’s fucking hot and it fucking works and most guys are lazy as fuck and don’t do it. Be the guy who does it, and I’ll be like, damn this guy is a passionate lover. He’s the real deal. I’ll be a little intimidated which will make me feel vulnerable which is the same thing as peeling off my panties spiritually/emotionally.)

When you are going down on me, begin by just making out with my pussy. Just lay sweet kisses all over it, then focus on my clit. Be gentle. I repeat, be gentle. Circles with your tongue are great. I hate flicking. I see it in porn all the time and I don’t get it. Let your tongue be wide and slightly firm, I HATE that thing when a tongue gets all hard and pointy at the tip. Don’t make a dunce cap out of your tongue. Just lay your tongue on my clit and find movement that you can stick with for a while. For me, it’s a time game. So prepare to hang out, doing what you’re doing for a while. If I say I’m about to come, don’t suddenly go faster and harder. Keep doing what you’re doing. That’s how we got here.

Also, feel free to ask to watch me touch myself. -If you haven’t already, LEARN TO FIND THIS HOT. You will learn so much about how my particular body works by watching me work with it. This is also HELLA intimate, thus very erotic. AND, let’s just be honest- you’ll be letting me do some of the work for you. It’s not cheating, and it’s not diminishing your skills as a lover. It’s just me and you investing in the art of orgasm. BUT I’ll feel realllllly self-conscious if you don’t get into it with me (by kissing my earlobes & boobs & whispering sweet nothings in my ear). Anyway, enough said on that. You get it. It’s such an easy and useful thing to incorporate into your fucking practice. (Oh and if you happen to find yourself with a gal who isn’t used to this idea, try begging her for it. She might just need to really, really know she’s safe to be vulnerable like that.)

Anywho, after my pussy gets all this lovely attention… I’m going to reciprocate and you are going to enjoy every second of it. I’m very good at this. I won’t bring you to orgasm because I need that dick inside me at this point. I’ll be down there maybe half as long as your were down there on me, but that’s just because I don’t want all this boner time to happen outside of me. (Don’t worry, you’ll get plenty of head from me in general. If I have a satisfying sex session with you, I’ll put your dick on a pedestal. The power of the penis is a VERY REAL thing. He’s my hero. I want him to be happy.)

Once you’re inside of me, throw in an “Oh my God, you’re so beautiful.” straight off the bat, especially if I’m on top. Go slow and fast, wing it. Catch the vibe. Be assertive and communicative. Figure out positions by saying things like, “Does this feel good for you?”

This is probably a good time to mention, that if I haven’t had a clitoral orgasm, it’s very, very, very unlikely that I will have a G Spot orgasm. The clit orgasm is a gateway for me. So, if you’re ever feeling like, “Oh let’s be spontaneous and skip some foreplay and I’ll just push her panties to the side like Jay Z talks about on Beyonce’s ‘Drunk in Love’… you better plan to fuck some, STOP, eat me out (or 69 or do hand stuff) THEN get back inside me so we can BOTH finish. Don’t ‘be spontaneous,’ then come right away, and leave me high and dry while you’re in your fucking ‘refractory period.’ So rookie. So unsexy.

Oh, while I’m at it, this is also probably a good time to mention my period. If I’m on it, it’s not a big deal, we’ll just put a towel down. When giving oral, leave the tampon in and focus on the clit. Blood all over your hard dick is punk rock. To be clear, MEN WHO ARE GOOD IN BED DON’T MAKE PERIOD SEX A BIG DEAL. We’re all animals. We breathe, we eat, we bleed, we fuck. The more in touch with your primal self you are, the better you are in bed. This subject, in particular, separates the boys from the men. The exquisite lay and the underwhelming shag. The educated, confident male from the ignorant, fearful dude.

Anyway, after we’ve been enjoying some good ol’ sweaty fuckin’ for a while, when it’s time, you can come on my stomach, boobs, butt, or back. We’ll figure it out in the moment. Just ask me. Then just lie next to me and kind of hold me for a minute or two after. A “You’re so sexy,” would be great here. After that, if we’re at your place, get a towel, put warm water on it and clean me off. It’s a pro move and it’ll make you come across kind and smooth as fuck.

Hold me as we fall asleep. It’s just manly.

I’ll spend the night dreaming of your sweet, perfect cock and probably wake you up with a gorgeous blow job. Mazel tov!

howtomakemecome

#74 “If you’re seeing a guy and all of a sudden, sex just doesn’t feel good the way it used to, maybe it’s because your vagina has had enough. Listen to that thing because it’s usually always right.”

I’m twenty-four years old and only three men have ever made me cum with their mouths. None of these boys were boyfriends, but in my eyes, they were gods.

My most recent boyfriend dabbled down there, but never really made a dent. Whenever I had my period, he thought that this was the week out of the month he could get unlimited blowjobs since I couldn’t receive in return. But come every other three weeks out of the month, he still wouldn’t reciprocate my desires of his own free will. I don’t know about you, but some days when one of my organs is peeling out of my body and I wake up with my underwear looking like the carpets from the red rum scene in The Shining, I’m just not in the mood to suck a dick. Weird, right?

I ended up breaking up with him for a lot of reasons, but this recurring incident was definitely one of them. How could I stay with someone who basically thought of me as a blow-up doll whenever one of my orifices was out of service? We weren’t even together that long, but towards the end of our relationship, the sex with him literally hurt. We’d have to stop because I was in pain and I couldn’t figure out why. I eventually realized my vagina was literally rejecting him. It was saying, “Fuck you, I don’t like you.” If you’re seeing a guy and all of a sudden, sex just doesn’t feel good the way it used to, maybe it’s because your vagina has had enough. Listen to that thing because it’s usually always right.

I give lots of fucks about the pleasure my partner has during sex, but some guys think that making it to the half-way point when a girl moans a couple of times is somehow a home run. What’s going on in a guy’s head when he’s deemed his work has been done down there? Is there a coach in his head yelling, “YOU DID IT, KID! YOU MADE HER MOAN A FEW TIMES! THAT’S AN ORGASM ACCORDING TO OUR STANDARDS! SHE’S ALL SET! VICTORY IS OURS! NOW GET BACK TO POUND TOWN AND FINISH IT OFF ALREADY! IT’S BED TIME!” Dude, you don’t get a pat on the back because you licked your girl’s vagina the way a cat cleans itself.

Maybe the movies, shitty porn, or past partners who were too nice to say anything led these guys to believe they don’t need to put in work and that every little thing they touch is orgasmic gold. I’m not a greedy woman, but I want the effort I give in return. I want the pleasure I make sure that my partner gets. Too many guys just don’t know what the fuck they’re doing, so I’ve created a ten-step program on how to properly eat a girl out. This is what I want to see in a man’s magazines for every “365 ways to please your man” article that’s in a women’s magazine.

How To Eat A Girl Out

Step 1: Make your way south of the border. You may guide this path with small kisses from her neck down to her pelvic region.

Step 2: You’re at the vagina! You made it! Boy, what a trip.

TIP: DO NOT MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH HER WHILE YOU’RE DOWN THERE. YOU WILL TURN INTO STONE. Just kidding, eye contact is fine. It’s an intense move, but depending on who you’re down on, it could be very creepy or very hot. You feel it out.

Step 2 continued: Before you pucker up, try some sensual kissing up and down her inner thighs. Not totally necessary, but I’m just saying she probably wouldn’t not be into that. Now get in there. Don’t tip toe around it— go in and find that clitoris. In case you’re unsure of what that is, it’s that thing that feels like a bean on the top of the vertical roast beef sandwich.

TIP: That bean isn’t just any bean. That’s a fucking magical bean. If you know what you’re doing (which you should have a good or better idea of by the end of reading this), you can make a girl convulse with pleasure like a demon is being exorcised out of her. Start off this exorcism right by DJing (using your fingers to rub the clitoris) and then stuffing your face in between her thighs.

Step 3: Use your tongue to lick the magical bean. Lick it up, down, and all around, but remain focused on the pressure of your tongue on the clitoris. The receiver wants to feel something going on down there. It’s kind of like a hard tonguing you do to get something that’s stuck in your teeth in the back of your mouth. Play with the shape of your tongue on the clitoris and mix it up.

(Steps 4 and 5 are interchangeable)

Step 4: Ask if she likes it. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk, but also, not all vaginas are created equal. Vaginas come in all shapes, sizes, colors, makes, models, etc. so you’re going to run into some different preferences. More pressure or a certain tonguing may be better for one girl versus another. If you’re already passing this with flying colors (in which case, bravo, sir, bravo), asking how she likes it is a 100% turn on anyway.

Step 5: The same way you’d like to have your balls played with during a blow job, you should stimulate other parts of her while you’re lapping it up like a dog drinking water. Run your fingers down her thighs, grab her hips, or reach for her boobies and massage those guys because they need some love, too. There are of plenty of options. Put some fingers in her cheese box. Lots of multi-tasking can be done in this position, but remain concentrated on that clitoris.

Step 6: Back to switching it up. The clitoris is very sensitive and if you play with it too hard for too long, you’re not going to get anywhere. Throw some light kisses on that magic bean.

Step 7: The beauty of multiple orgasms is that you can have BILLIONS OF THEM. Well, no, not billions, but a lot. Like, a lot. Let me walk you through how a female orgasm feels. It’s like taking the first slice of pizza from the cheesiest pie and watching the gooey cheese stretch like a waterfall. It’s like unicorns eating ice cream and galloping around the rings of Saturn. It’s like bacon. It’s an intense and concentrated feeling that no girl wants just one of. So if or when she orgasms, don’t dust off your hands and move on—give her another. You got that engine purring, so, you know, insert other vehicle related metaphor. Amirite?!

Step 8: Give some time between orgasms. I have no science to back this up, like all of the other scientific evidence I’ve provided, but it’s easier to achieve another orgasm with a short resting period. I mean, don’t check your phone or anything, but maybe throw in some of those soft kisses. Just give that magic bean a breather for a few seconds and then get back in the game, champ. Sports references!

Step 9: At some point, you two can agree when to move on to boning or Netflix or however you people choose to continue your time, but that’s none of my business.

Step 10: High five. Eating a girl out is not complete without a high five.

sharoncox

High five 😂 so that's what my experiences were lacking.

howtomakemecome

#81 “I stare at myself in the mirror and imagine what it will feel like when you are crushing my breasts against your taut body.”

How you made me come the first time

You look at me from across the table with hushed appreciation. The night is just beginning and you gaze lovingly at my face, as if soaking up the sunshine of my features. All is love in its purest form yet and sex is still a world apart.

We start drinking and your gaze feels confident enough to rest upon my breasts. I see a hint of desire playing across your face and that gives me a little contraction of pleasure just below my hips. My mouth can’t contain itself and extends in a playful grin.

I start drawing your attention to my hair, lips, and breasts with a series of caressing movements: playfully applying lipstick, running my fingers through my hair, not noticing the buttons on my shirt coming undone and starting to show the lace on my bra.

I notice your eyes flickering from my mouth to my breasts and I smile. Oh yes, this will get me started.

I get up and go to the bathroom, making sure that I leave my coat at the table so you can have a full view of my ass in my tight jeans walking away from you.

In the bathroom, I stare at myself in the mirror and imagine what it will feel like when you are crushing my breasts against your taut body.

I return to the table, hips swaying, making damn sure that you have a good long look in between pretending to drink your beer and checking your phone.

We go back to my place and sit on the sofa; you all bashful and trying to maintain a respectful distance, and me angling my body in ways that expose all my curves, because I know you like it. And it makes me feel hot.

I play with your hair (I fucking love your hair) as an excuse to come a bit closer.

You look languidly at me and you are getting there, but still you are shy, unsure.

I casually talk about my new bra and you express a timid desire to see it. I comply and start unbuttoning my shirt. You reach and slightly caress my breast. I shudder down below and feel the wetness of my pussy; it starts to beat, contracting, causing me a little pain and pleasure.

You say you want to taste my nipples and I let you pull down my bra. You take my full, enormous breast in your incredibly large and manly hands and you start to suck on it. I moan and start undoing your jeans.

You, ever so caring and giving, only let me stroke your penis and suck on it for a little bit before you’re pulling my pants down, begging me to let you lick me.

I let you and as you go down, I can feel your warm breath on my pussy and it drives me mad. You are tender and hot, and you make me come, licking me and sliding your big, almost too big, fingers in and out of my pussy.

You come up for air and kiss me on the mouth, full on, so I can taste myself. I kiss you deeply, tasting the slightly sweet and acidic flavour, savouring your tongue with a mix of your saliva and my own juices. I can tell you fucking love it.

You take your rock hard cock and thrust it inside me. Even soaking wet, my pussy closes around it tightly and when you start moving it, I can’t help but feel a delicious sense of pain.

You decide that you want to make me cum even harder, so you flip me and enter me from behind, holding my waist tightly against your firm body with one hand, the other squeezing my breasts.

You start slowly and ask me if it feels good. I say ‘yes’ and, increasingly, you start to fuck me harder. Your grip gets tighter and that makes me even hotter, because I secretly want you to dominate me. Okay, maybe not so secretly.

My breath starts getting heavier and I begin to moan, loudly. You can tell I’m almost cumming, so you keep going, harder, harder and harder until you hear me scream. You bend me slightly forward, so my pussy can feel the enormity of your cock even better.

I’m getting closer; all I can think about is your mouth on my neck, your hands pressing me against you and your cock tunnelling me.

I cum, hard. And so do you.

Afterwards, you slide your still hard cock out from my vagina and the feeling makes me shiver.

You kiss my shoulder, lie down beside me, and hold me in your arms. You kiss my forehead, then my mouth, and tell me that you love to hear me pant and scream.

And that you love me.

I fall asleep, thinking about your cock inside me, and your mouth on my breasts, and make a mental note to fuck you again in the morning.

sharoncox

💙💚💛

Who said you need pants in your deer blind? (;

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littleprincesspita

melanin-enhanced-deactivated202

Ladies I have another question for you....

What’s one thing you wish guy did while he was going down ?

thelifeofbunches-deactivated201

Actually suck on the clitoris instead of flicking it with his tongue like how a cat drinks water.

melanin-enhanced-deactivated202

I have so much to learn thelifeofbunches

goddessevrth-deactivated2023072

Go slow. Not everything has to be fast paced and crazy all the time

packtheammo-deactivated20170223

Hold my thighs. Like grip them, just firm enough…

thetennesseehoneyy

Yasss that clit flicking shit is not the wave.

melanin-enhanced-deactivated202

What about sucking on the clit ? thetennesseehoneyy

tiffanyaliyah

Fingering at the same time is always nice, but not in and out, find that gspot and massage it why you lick and suck the clit. I will die.

alexundefined

Touch/grab my thighs, my ass, slowly touch down my spine, everywhere, somewhere. Tease me good before you go down & while you’re down there.

torreyashanti

Deadass with the thigh thing Kiss those inner thighs too Pretend you’re passionately kissing the kitty Not a cat drinking water Also don’t even do it if you a)don’t like doing it b)you’re going to do it for 2 seconds

uninhibitedsoul

I couldn’t hit reblog fast enough.

the-haitian-queen-deactivated20

Don’t be to shy to open it up and really get the clit. Like if dudes really spread the lips and focused on the clit I would lose my mind

jeniphyer

slow down on the flickering thing, that rapid shit isnt pleasurable, slowly running your tongue back n forth tho? Yes.

thigh kissing is nice, ass grabbing, thigh gripping, a little passionate teasing takes you far and honestly gets her wetter by the minute

slow down, take your time at first, dont just dive in, enjoy your meal

that rapid flicking thing doesnt do much for me (i cant speak for every girl) but slow runs across the clit are lovely, just focus on the clit, let your fingers do some work if you get tired or something

I dont know about every girl but that mimic-my-dick-with-my-tongue technique doesnt do shit

sosodebb-deactivated20190324

Notice how they’ve all basically said the same thing? I hope you men pay attention. Every woman is different but here are the basics to pleasing us.

1. Stop the fucking flicking shit.

2. Focus on the CLIT. Suck it, circle it. Engulf it. If she moans, keep doing that.

3. But pls, do visit thighland. Inner thigh licking and kissing will set us on fire.

4. What is this fingering shit? Massage the gspot or get out. We feel nothing with that little stabbing motion. Also, stop sticking your 2 inches of tongue in there. Come back up to the clit.

5. LONG stokes with the tongue.

6. Stop humming. Most of us use vibrators so that little humming trick you learned from GQ will pale in comparison.

7. Speaking of vibes, the reason you’re in our bed is because you can do 1 thing our wands and rabbits can’t do. And that’s grab us. Grab us, squeeze us, we want to feel your hands on our body.

8. If you can reach, grab a titty.

9. Some women are self conscious about how they look/taste/smell down there. Or worry about taking too long to orgasm, so let her know you’re enjoying it. Moan, groan, sound like you’re eating a plate of ribs

10. Do it til we cum or GTFO!

weber338

Men take a note please I know I am.

baby-sick-skin

Could not reblog quick enough. THIS!

Honesty - Does size really matter?

Ok since so many guys feel they have to give me lessons on how size doesn’t matter I feel like I need to tell you why it does - to me.

You’re absolutely right. You can have good, even great sec with an average cock and won’t think much about a bigger one.

However, with an average guy I’ve never had that earth shattering sensation I get when a really big cock is penetrating me. It just doesn’t happen. Even when I’m not cumming, I look like someone who is - because I’m in another world completely. Im in ecstasy basically.

Plus the orgasms are so intense. I can’t describe it but the girls who’ve tried it will know what I mean. I basically feel like I’m exploding. My whole body just ignites. And it happens even when the guy is doing nothing but letting me bounce on it, move back and forth on it etc. So it really is the size.

Apart from that. A big cock is so sexy to look at. I get so turned on by it. I don’t know if it’s a masculinity thing or thinking about how big it is compared to me, making me feel small and pretty but it gets me wet. The whole reason why I’m on here is because it gets me off looking at big dicks fucking girls.

Some of you even think that I’m just crazy sexually - but I’m really a down to earth, sweet and kind girl. If any of my friends knew I had this blog, they’d be severely chocked. I’m a completely normal girl who studies and minds her business like any other so it’s not because I’m a sex addict. I just really like big cock and just talking about it has gotten me really horny already. So sorry guys.

But size definitely DOES matter