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I’m a whole different story once I get comfortable with you

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BEYONCÉ / HOMECOMING

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Lol

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Abandoned Wizard of Oz theme park

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alexfromiceland Crossing bridges in the Faroe Islands🤙🏻

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People think over protective and jealous boyfriend’s are cute. Bu they’re not when they start telling you what to wear. They’re not cute when they say you can’t go out with friends or co workers because male’s will also be there. They’re not cute when you come home and you’re scared to tell them about your day because something happened that involves a male. It’s not cute when they start controlling you.

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Our Relationship.

Love. Sweet, kind & joyful. I loved you. You were once my everything. But everything changed. You grew distant. You grew jealous. You grew toxic. Your sweet nothings you whispered into my ear slowly became into hostile curses laced with venom. Your soft and comforting embrace warped into a suffocating and possessive claim over me. Your soft gaze, once filled with adoration and admiration, changed. It changed into cold and blank stares. Your eyes never seemed to leave me as you scrutinised each and every of my moves.

I felt more like your prey rather than your lover.

You claimed it was all out of love, that you couldn’t imagine a world without me, that you accepted me for who I am. I was ignorant to believe you and your blatant sweet lies.

I realise now you didn’t view me as a person, you viewed me as your little possession. You chastised my behaviour towards our male friends ; proclaiming I was over friendly and flirty. I didn’t understand that concept and I still don’t to this very day. I defended myself, stating how I treat all my friends the same regardless of their gender. You didn’t like that. You really didn’t like that. You believed I was trying to gain their attention just to make myself feel better.

I just want to say, I don’t need a man’s validation to recognise my self worth and greatness.

Males and females can be just friends.

You succumbed into your dark & jealous thoughts and in that process, you hurt and lost me.

I was so in love with you and that blinded me from your cruel and toxic acts. You were once my everything. I’m not sorry for the actions I did, which you despised so much ; you failed to recognise that I am not your doll. I will not bend backwards just so your ego of having me as your lover will stay intact. I loved you yet you hurt me and took advantage of me. I hope you realise the severity of your actions.

Goodbye.

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Don’t text that toxic person. Don’t check their social media. Don’t take it to heart when your friends bring them up. Don’t bring them up - talking about them only reinforces their presence in your life. Don’t let it bother you when you see them in passing.

What’s done is done. Let it go. You have people who care about you. You will find love again. You will have good days and bad days, but remember to appreciate the happy moments and not dwell on the bad. You will be okay. You are capable. You are strong. You are enough. You have made it through so much, and you will make it through this moment too. Keep going, you’re doing great.

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You deserve someone who actually gives a shit about you. Someone who doesn’t just see you as an extension of themself. Someone who would actually be afraid to lose you. Don’t let anyone else make you believe otherwise.

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When I walk into the mall and see Christmas decorations up the day after Halloween, I feel the same way Hamlet did when his mom married his annoying uncle so shortly after his father’s death.

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When I walk into the mall and see Christmas decorations up the day after Halloween, I feel the same way Hamlet did when his mom married his annoying uncle so shortly after his father’s death.