[auntymurda]

God loves me. That’s all I really care about at this point.

[fomysquad]

[joynavon]

Shoutout to my favorite cardigan. HAPPY 3 YEAR ANNIVERSARY BLACK OUT! 🖤

@joynavon YouTube | JoyNavon Instagram | JoyNavon

[auntymurda]

God loves me. That’s all I really care about at this point.

[saintjehanne]

Honestly, my goal in life is just to be a very warm person. I want to be as loving and as kind as I can be.

[shimonasays]

I believe that believing that we will survive is what makes us survive.

Izzie Stevens, Greys Anatomy

[shimonasays]

no more ambiguity. more boundaries 2k18.

[yourbigsisnissi]

two questions to ask 

“does this man add or subtract from my life?”

“am i compromising anything that is important to me in order to focus on this man?”

[thisisrileyanne]

This changes my entire outlook on dating.

[brownsugababyintraining]

I could literally reblog this 1,000 times

[curlsandstems]

[svinto]

the older I get, the more attractive stability becomes……………… i just want some god damn peace of mind and a non-stressful environment

[fiti-vation]

[stephfitblr]

this is super helpful!!!

[reclaimeddyke-deactivated201901]

this is amazing

[svinto]

the older I get, the more attractive stability becomes……………… i just want some god damn peace of mind and a non-stressful environment

[shimonasays]

Me me me me Me me me me Me me me me Me me me me Me me me me

My life in an article.

[crasabsit]

Speak it into existence and trust the process

[rajafashionus]

Us Black People Don't Sleep With Our Room Door Open, We Just Don't 😭

[shimonasays]

Thought I was the only one. Lol

[lebritanyamor-deactivated202601]

nah

[haelroyale-deactivated20190717]

Hell nah

[imthatguyfromearth]

What is an open door

[sophisticantsophia-deactivated2]

^^^ 😂😂😂😂😂

[myniggahplease]

I really thought it was just me 😂

[labellabrianna-deactivated20250]

Never in my life will I sleep with the door open, got me fucked up.

[artbybambam]

Hell naw, that’s how niggas die

[almondkittie]

^^^

[itsmyrayeraye-deactivated201808]

I’m dead because I just closed my room door then I see this! 😂😭

[jaxuhmillion]

I close the room door & closet doors if they are open

[aiceinyd]

OML !!!!! How do you sleep with your door open ? What does that feel like ?

[13th-hokage]

Open door? Never heard of that bitch

[reign-sl]

Not only do I close it I lock the shit, you gonna have to earn this death lol

[trappeds0ull-deactivated2020072]

I lock my door

[hi-imkingdavid]

^ You must not live with a black mother, cause they gon beat ya ass for having a locked door in THEY HOUSE

[protectblkwomen]

Forreal

[shimonasays]

Forreal @hi-imkingdavid !! No locked doors at alllllll 😂

[remanence-of-love]

[workingitinportland-deactivated]

My feeds are pretty solid because I’m blockhappy but thru friends I’m seeing women I used to respect, former sex workers, feminist band managers, the like,, talk about how it’s not sexual assault, if she didn’t want it she would have left, &c&c&c.

These two women sum up in under 300 characters things it takes me paragraphs to say.

If all this is new to you, think about it even tho it makes you uncomfortable.

If you work around sex, consent, or sexual assault, maybe they will help you articulate things you have trouble articulating. At the very least, I hope they make you feel more sane and less alone (they did me).