Shinypixiedust

A blog about sex, love and everything in between.

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Fuck me like you do

Every time I write about my nights with Mr.Niceguy my pussy gets wet, like dripping wet. I think that describes how much I love having sex with him, and it keeps getting better. Let me tell you about this Saturday, the night involving two firsts.

I had the house to myself and invited Mr.Niceguy over for a movie, dinner and wine. And sex, obviously. Do not confuse this with an actual date, this is a planned sex “date” which is the best kind of sex. You basically have the entire evening as a sort of foreplay where everything can happen from start to finish. In a few weeks I’ll be having an apartment alone for two weeks, which means sex dates. A lot of great sex.

He grabbed me from behind. Kissing my neck, touching me in all the right places. This is what turns me on the most, and he knows it.

He pulls off my underwear, leaving me in my dress on the couch. The view of him between my legs turned me on even more. And I know how good he is. Hard orgasms.    

Naked, a tie covering my eyes and tape around my wrists. Just the way I like it. His hand spanks me with just the right force. Harder than last time, he’s getting rougher.

Then he goes down to do what he does best. Kissing my thighs. Slapping me with a ruler. Teasing me. Eating my pussy till I cum. Hard. Several times.

I knew he wanted to try anal, it’s the “forbidden” area. So I asked him to do it. It’s a new feeling, a feeling I haven’t figured out yet. But I think it’s something I’ll enjoy now that I know what it’s like. So I will definitely do it again.

He turned me over, fucking me from behind. Hard. I came. It’s the first time I’ve ever had an orgasm from anyone fucking me. The future is looking bright. Just fuck me like you do.

 -XX Pixie

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Q&A

Here are some of your Q’s and my A’s in the friends with benefits category.

Q. How do you find a FWB? A. Honestly I don’t know. It just happened. Try Tinder!

Q. Why did you end it with your last FWB? A.  He fell in love, I didn’t. 

Q. How do you stick to the rulebook? A. Continuing to break them this time. 

Q. Whats the best part and the worst part of having a FWB? A. The best part is definitely good sex. The worst part is that you can feel a bit empty when you’re in that kind of relationship.

Q. My ex wants us to still have sex without being in a relationship. Would you do it? A. Honestly, it sounds like a terrible idea. I would never do this because of the connection you two have.

Q. Having a FWB, is it a good idea? A. Yes and no. If you’re getting a FWB because you just need sex without any complications, then yes. If you’re doing it because you feel like there’s something missing in your life, then absolutely not.

Q. My FWB told me he loved me. I don’t love him, but I don’t want to lose the great sex! A. Think about it. Is it fair to continue to have sex with him and break his heart?

Q. For how long do you stay friends with benefits? A. I feel like this is different for everyone. Personally I just know when it has to end. Just remember that it has an expiration date.

Q. I’m in love with my FWB! What do I do? A. Either you tell him, or you make a clean break. You need to think about this though, what do you have to lose if you tell him?

Q. Can you actually hang out with your FWB? A. Sure! But stay away from flirting.

Q. How do you not fall in love with your FWB? A. This is probably the hardest part for most people. You need to try and distance yourself from it all. Find something that makes it impossible to see yourself being in love/relationship with the other person, that’s what works for me at least.

 Quick note!

Recently there has been some trolls here to comment. If this continues the site will be closed. This is not a problem for me, I have other places to publish. But to the people who actually enjoy reading this blog and have the opportunity to ask me questions, you’re taking that away from them.  If you have anything mean to say, please take it elsewhere.

  -  XX Pixie

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Let's have a Q&A! Ask me anything.

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Make me fall in love

So I’ve been reading a book about love recently. Got it from a friend because as you all know by now; I suck at love. Being single for a while has made me really comfortable in my own company. It has also made me picky. Not great I know. I believe everyone falls in love differently, but usually it’s the little things that makes the difference. There are a few things that makes it hard for me to resist a guy in the love department, and I’m here to tell you about them and maybe you feel the same about some of them.

1.     Be kind. Not just towards me, but everyone. No matter their race, sexuality or how they look. I believe the world gets a little better when everyone is kind to each other

2.     Text me. Good morning, goodnight or just a text asking about my day.

3.     Cuddle. I’m the person who loves to snuggle up under a blanket in your arms. It makes me feel safe.

4.     Make me laugh. It doesn’t have to be the greatest joke ever invented. But the fact that you’re trying to make me laugh is enough.

5.     Gifts. I’m not saying you should buy me something every time you see me, and it doesn’t have to be expensive. If you know me, you know that giving me your favourite book instead of flowers is a plus. But it’s definitely is the thought that counts in the end.

6.     Tell me something dirty in public. Whisper in my ear what you would like to do to me. Sounds strange, but I love it.

7.     Take me on a date, but not dinner and a movie. Take me to do something different. A tiny road trip. Show me your favourite place in town. Personally I really enjoy art and museums. Taking me to see a new exhibition shows me that you want me to be happy even if you don’t enjoy it yourself.

8.     Open the door for me (and old ladies)

9.     In bed. Hold me close.

10.  Bring me coffee unexpectedly, and know that I like it black.

11.  Get to know my interests, my dreams.

12.  Be honest. Tell me how you feel. If you’re having a bad day, tell me. I’m asking for a reason; I want to know.

13.  Compliment me. Sometimes I put in a bit of extra effort in order to look nice. You noticing puts a smile on my face.

14.  If you have any special interests, teach me about it.

15.  Going out. If we are going to have some drinks, be social. You don’t have to be around me all the time. Smile at me across the room, show me that I’m the one you’re taking home.

16.  Hold me. Preferably from behind while you kiss my neck or tell me something nice. (or dirty, you choose)

17.  Kiss me. Always.

 -XX Pixie

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Tinder sex part 2.

You remember Mr.Niceguy from part one right? Let’s se what’s up with that.  His turning in to a friend with benefits, with less rules that is. But there is a problem (not a major one, but there is). Both of us are living at home at the moment. Fuck me. I found a fuck friend that I can’t use whenever I want. Fuck.  I’m considering having sex in the snow, that’s how much I want it right now. Do I need to get creative? Car? Tanning salon? Public restroom? I pretty sure I can have sex everywhere at this point. Give me your best sex locations away from home ladies! My vagina is killing me, I can’t get enough. Well, let’s leave my vagina problems there.

He had to go out for a few hours with some colleagues. In the meantime, I met up with I friend of mine in the hotel bar. She was there with I client. Yes, she’s a well-priced escort. A normal person would never be able to afford her.  Her client flew her inn from New York to my hometown where he had some business to take care of, leaving her with a lot of time to kill. So there we were. A high end escort and me who was on a planned sex adventure, waiting for Mr.Niceguy to get back. Obviously we talked about sex. A lot about sex. She knows what I like in bed because I have written about her before, and she knows me well. So when I told her that he bought ropes, she was mildly impressed. You have to understand that the world of bdsm is scary for people who just knows about the hardcore bdsm part. But there’s so much more to it. For a man to tie a woman to the bed can feel a bit wrong, at least for some of people. I have tested my limits here, so I have a pretty god idea what I’m okay with. I don’t like a lot of pain, no whips (It’s a terrible feeling.) The thing I love the most about it, is to lose my freedom to do what I want. I want my partner to control my movements. Tie me up, really tight. Lay a hand around my neck (which is one of my more sensitive areas), obviously don’t choke me to death. But put a bit of pressure. Most important, grab. Don’t put your hands on me gently, grab me, hold me tight. You know what I said about being controlled of my movements? I’d rather leave the night with bruises on my body.

So he told me when he was heading back to the hotel, in time for me to undress a bit. Lingerie and a bathrobe. We sat in the couch in our room and had some wine. Red, we all know what red wine does to your brain. Bed, now. The interesting part here is that he would like to be tied, at least try to. I don’t mind. Usually I’m the submissive, but I’ll give everything a go. So I did, not too tight because he had no experience with it and I didn’t want to make it uncomfortable. I put a shirt on his eyes. It is true that taking away your sight can make you feel more.  This is where the oil comes in, gliding my fingers over his naked body. My vagina dripping.  If you didn’t know, gliding your vagina back and forth on an oiled penis can result in a great orgasm where you’re in control of the speed and pressure. It’s like masturbating using someone else’s body part. And I did. Now my turn to be tied to the bed. This is a reason why I call him Mr.Niceguy, he’s gentle.( I think he’s beginning to learn my preferences in bed though) He put the ropes around my wrist, gently. I had to ask him to do it tighter. This is obviously a trial and error situation. I like it really tight, and he’s afraid it’s hurting. Don’t worry, I won’t break. He put the shirt over my eyes as well.  And we all know what he likes to do? That’s right, eating pussy. For him, mine is on the menu at all hours.  He massaged every inch of my body, especially the surrounding area of my vagina. Kissing the inside of my thighs. A bit of teasing, I love it. This results in my body twitching, begging for an orgasm. And when I least expect it, his mouth buried in my vagina. The sensation is incredible. He’s doing everything right. Fireworks. The thing is, he doesn’t stop after one orgasm. He continues. Sucking the clit. Not too hard. But hard enough for me to orgasm again. Also, being tied really builds the orgasm to the max. My body shivering after a round of multiple orgasms. His cock glides inside me, giving me the “ah” sound. It just fits in there so good. Hard, banging against my vagina. And I can’t keep quiet. Not restricting myself for one minute. The way it should be.

-XX Pixie

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My personal dose of ecstasy.

I’ve had that kind of love once. The deep love. I have been in love more times, relationships. But I didn’t know just how deep love can be. I would never take that time back, no matter how much pain it caused. It taught me that there is something more to love than just being together. Explaining what it feels like isn’t easy. It’s like a movie. You know after watching a romantic movie, you might daydream about loving like they do. There you have it. Pure love, not considering the consequences. But when you love so deeply, the fall is as big as it gets. Maybe that’s meaning of life, finding that true love. (I’m kidding, obviously the answer is 42.) Cause when I’m that deep in love I don’t need anything else. It becomes irrelevant. Maybe it’s like drugs, you know it’s not good for you, but in the moment it’s the best feeling you can get.

The world gets more colourful. Everything gets more beautiful. The natural high. The sex gets slower, more intimate, more passionate, more of the good things. Closer, no need to talk. The best sex you can get. Don’t worry, you’ll know when it happens. You all know by now that I enjoy a bit of rough sex, but that’s just sex to me. It happens when I’m not in love sometimes, with the right person, something that’s more than sex. For a brief moment I forget everything, I’m willing to give all of me. I’m not saying I fall in love, but the feeling is there for a brief moment. A connection, or maybe that’s just me. Usually the moment goes by pretty quickly because we continue to do more of the “just sex” sex. But having that kind of sex where you’re connected is what I would choose. When I’m that madly in love, I will happily have sex twice a day. It’s that good.

 I don’t fall in love easy. Mostly because love scares me. I know it shouldn’t, that love is such an amazing thing to have. It’s just that when I fall in love, I fall so deeply. A natural high. My personal dose of ecstasy. 

Happy valentines my lovelies! Personally I have a date planned with the love of my life, Mr. Regular black coffee.

-XX Pixie

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Tinder sex part one

When I started talking to this guy I had no idea what it would turn into. A planned sex date.

 I have always been a sexual person; you wouldn’t know by simply talking to me. Honestly most people I meet think it’s embarrassing talking about sex, and I get that. So when I met this guy through tinder who was as open about it as me, I was amazed. The thing is, when you are able to talk about your deepest fantasies in bed to your “partner”, you might have the best sex possible. No judgement, no restrictions, just raw messy sex.

Let’s talk about the guy. He’s kind, ready to try new things in bed, funny and he’s hot. The guy you wouldn’t expect to be single. I don’t usually go for Mr.Niceguy, but hey, why not try something new every now and then.

He picked me up at work on a Saturday heading straight to the hotel. I had to wait outside the door for a minute. Inside, rose petals and candles leading the way to the bead. On the bed, a more romantic scene of Fifty Shades of Grey. More rose petals, condoms and ropes already tied to the bed. I had told him that I enjoyed that, and he listened.

I had a deadline that day, so I had to do some work before the “sex part”. Sounds easy? Well, not when you have a delicious naked man already hard massaging you. I definitely could not concentrate, and I’m pretty sure my vagina screamed to stop working at get on top of this guy at some point.

The one thing I love the most in bed, is when a man goes down on me. If he knows what he’s doing that is. And this guy actually enjoys it (give me a reason why he’s single ladies). And so he did, and I’m pretty sure my vagina applauded when he was down there. If it was my choice, he would stay there forever. The orgasm, not just one. It was just great. Then he did something I never imagined would happen in my wildest dreams. (Keep in mind I have never had an orgasm being penetrated, not by a dick, fingers or a dildo.) He put his fingers inside me, and it felt like it usually did. At first. Then the g-spot happened. Harder, faster. One finger on the clitoris, the other rubbing my g-spot. The sensation of this particular orgasm is something I have never felt before. Honestly I wasn’t able to enjoy it as much as I should have because it threw me off a bit. I didn’t expect it at all. (luckily he did it again, wait for part two).

So this guy is hard, all the time. And he has a big dick, what more can you ask for? I gave him a small blow job (the first time blowing someone is always a test to see how it fits in your mouth, and what works best). All I could think of was to get his dick inside me, I knew it was going to be a good fuck. He took me from behind, the position I like the most. His dick was just the right size; you know when your vagina feels like there’s no room left. And he fucked me. The hard way, just the way I like it.

To be continued.

-XX Pixie

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Let´s play a game.

Me and my “friend with benefits” made a rulebook, and it stayed with us for two years. One year in the same city, one year in different countries.

Always treat each other with respect.

Always give each other orgasms.

Always keep a good hygiene.

Always dress classy and sexy.

Always have your passport updated.

Always have an open communication.

Always be open to try something new.

Always have champagne and ice cubes ready.

Never go on dates of any sort.

Never sleep together or cuddle.

Never meet more than once a week.

Never give romantic gifts, lingerie is acceptable.

Never have sex in your own apartment/house.

Never introduce each other to friends or family.

Never have sex with other people without letting each other know.

Never get romantically involved with anyone without letting each other know.

Never fall in love.

Rules were broken.

Game over.

-XX Pixie

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Let´s watch porn.

“I hate when my boyfriend is watching porn!

This is something I think a lot of women in relationships feels about it. But for what reason? We all have needs, both male and female. Let’s say you feel horny, you want to have sex, what do you do? If your partner doesn’t want to have sex at that time (or he might not be around), you’re probably going to masturbate. And what do you do when you masturbate? You probably fantazise about someone, and that might not be your partner. Not so different from porn right? I think women are over thinkers, men are not. When they watch porn they are horny! The problem with porn is that we (mostly women) believe there’s one kind of porn. A beautiful woman with the perfect body that most women can’t compare themselves with. And ladies, I get it!  I definitely don’t have the perfect body, so I understand why someone would feel like your partner is choosing the “perfect”  body (there’s no such thing as a perfect body, naked bodies are awesome no matter what) over you.  This is not the case at all. I’m pretty sure your boyfriend loves your body! He gets to have a gorgeous naked women ready to give him everything. He’s lucky, and he probably think so too. So don’t be afraid of the women on the screen, he still wants you!

Personally I love watching porn with whoever I’m in a sexual relationship with, it really turns me on. The thing is, there’s so many different kinds of porn, there’s even a category called “female friendly”. So why not, the next time your boyfriend is watching porn, join him. Explore the world of all the different kinds of porn there is, together. Who knows, maybe you’ll enjoy it!

- XX Pixie

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Let´s talk about sex.

Let’s get to know each other before we dive into the more exciting things.

I “Pixie” decided to start a blog. A blog about sex, life, love and everything in between. Unfiltered. Raw. In the past I have written a lot about sex for different online magazines (you won’t find it, have to be anonymous in this field you know). I used to answer questions about everything, trying to provide advice and guidance to those who needs a little bit of help. I consider myself semi experienced in the sexual world, which is why I enjoy talking about it. Everyone experience sex differently, and that’s why I love reading your thoughts and stories. I wish I had somewhere I could ask anything about all things surrounding sex when I needed to, and that’s why I decided to do this on my spare time. If you have any questions (sex, love, body confident etc), don’t be afraid to ask, it’s completely anonymous. Sex is a natural thing, and it can be pretty great, so let’s talk about it.

- XX Pixie