while i am in the gracerocky yaoi trenches on the side of gracerocky yaoi i do have to admit i can't totally get behind the "rocky is an insanely horny perverted freak who's betraying all those eridian social taboos to seduce grace" jokes, because speaking as someone with abandonment issues as a result of far less intense periods of isolation it really does warp your sense of self worth into an all-consuming hunger that's utterly focused on ensuring that nobody else has a reason to ever leave you, no matter how much of your dignity you have to sacrifice in exchange. at the end of the day i am defending the emotions of a fictional alien rock spider and it's truly not that serious, but i do think that it's easy to overlook that rocky's instances of bizarre, boundaryless behaviour are literal naked desperation to not be abandoned again by the one chance at connection he still has. like all i'm saying is that if he were human and we translated the eating scene to an equivalent social taboo i think it'd be a lot more upsettingly obvious.
i won't deny that i've laughed at a "grace is going to realise that rocky's a weapons grade Freak when they get to erid" post or two in my time but i'm gonna be real i think grace might be more concerned about his best friend's pattern of being incapable of seeing himself as worthy of any quality of life or existential value whatsoever if there's even the slightest chance that it would mean refusing grace anything at all














